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how do I help my 13yr old step daughter to value herself?

  • Posted on February 22, 2011 at 1:21 am

We caught her having multiple communications via text and face book-AIM that were sexually charged with several different boys at the same time. When we confronted her and told her we love her and don’t want to see her get hurt , & to please make better choices and value herself, then pointed out the good stuff. within minutes of are loving conversation she was back on line doing the very same thing. Is this addiction? She lives with her mom most of the time out of town and her mom is a sociopath. How can I possible help if she was soooo unaffected by our love, concern, nonjudgement,& understanding & we hardly have time together?

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what can i do to stop my 15 year old daughter before she kills herself?

  • Posted on January 9, 2011 at 6:20 am

my daughter is out of control, shes stealing from me, i got bill collectors hounding me day and night because she went into my room and robbed my purse while i was taking a shower,i only get paid once a month and now my bill and food money is gone, i found out later my money was spent on drugs, my son found my daughters diary and brought it to me and said i should read it, i,ve never invaded her privacy but i,m glad i did, i discovered she into devil worship and her and the others are cutting themselves and drinking each others blood, having bisexual orgy’s, doing crystal ice, meth, weed and drinking, turns out shes been riding the bus to school then skipping, but she,d go back to the school and catch the bus home so i wouldn,t know, i,ve tried dss which was no help they just said i was doing all i could as a parent, well i,m tired of her running off and me getting sick all the time from getting out looking for her, as i,m sure the cops are tired of me calling them to pick her up, i,ve also called juvie but nothing works for this kid, i,m at my wits end i can,t even send her to church without her sneaking and doing it with boys in the bathroom i feel like i,m having a nervous breakdown, any suggestions?
my daughter has had counseling from the get go. and to the person who said this is made up poop i hope you have a kid who puts you thur the same hell, there is such a thing as karma

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Parents – How would you react if your daughter was cutting herself?

  • Posted on January 8, 2011 at 1:21 am

I have been cutting myself for over a year now, and its gotten way out of hand and bringing me more problems, like an eating disorder but I don’t want to tell them about that …
It’s getting to deep, and I’m scared I’ll die from blood loss. I don’t want to die, my cutting isn’t a suicidal intent, it’s just something that relieves my emotional pain and has become addictive. Also, I belive the cuts have become horribly infected and like I said, I don’t want to die! I’ve discovered that I’m not going to get out of this addiction on my own and that I need to help of someone, like my parents. The thought of telling them freaks me out so much, and I;m scared they’ll freak out on me and abandon me or something …
So, what I’m asking is if your teenage daughter told you they were cutting, how would you react?
thank you so much
xx

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11 yr old has poor hygiene, soils herself and wets the bed?

  • Posted on January 1, 2011 at 1:23 am

Me and my husband are at our wits end with our 11yr old daughter.

Everyday since the age of 5 she has been wetting the bed or soiling her self while she is at school or anywhere else for that matter. she starts to smell and that is how we figure it out. when we ask her if she has gone to the bathroom in her pants she says NO. but we can clearly smell it.

She will sit in her own pee for hours without shame or even think about changing herself. It soaks through her clothes so that when she sits down she leaves wet spots. she has ruined my couches, chairs and carpets because she refuses to acknowledge or even care that she is soiled. She refuses to clean herself up. we have taught her how to do this

We find her clothes that she has hidden, in her drawers, under the bathroom sink. sometimes in the common bathroom area, in her closet but we always find it because of the smell.

We have told her time and time again that if she soils herself, she needs to stop what she is doing, clean herself up and wash her clothes out in the bathtub.

but she never does it. she would rather lie and suffer the consequences when we find the soiled clothes.

her whole room smells like dead fish. we have even removed her bed because it smelled so nasty. she is now sleeping on a futon bed that somebody gave us and she has stunk that up too.

we have tried everything. Positive reinforcement, punishments, leaving her alone, monitoring her every move, dr appts. The dr. told her to keep a journal and she refuses to do it. we got her an ultrasound on her intestines, xrays, prescriptions from the dr’s office to dry her up. The dr. has determined there is nothing physically wrong with her and has said it is a behavior issue. she does not have ADHD or Diabetes. Nothing. Just behavior issues.

we’ve cut back on her drinking liquids, first at night and that didn’t work. we’ve taken her to counseling. she is eleven years old and we bought her depends to wear to bed. I know she takes them off when we are not looking. she hides them.

I smell her room and ask her to please take the soiled clothes out and she insists there isn’t any. But we can smell them. we have to dig through her room and find them. She just lies.

she carries on as if nothing is wrong. as if she doesn’t smell. as if her room doesn’t smell. we have working noses and believe me it SMELLS.

Myy daughter is a good girl. She is a good student and all around respectable person. Hygene has always been an issue for her since a young age. I have tried with no avail to teach her proper hygene and she refuses to comply.

Please HELP ME or let me know that I’m not alone. I just don’t know what to do anymore and its so frustrating I want to run away. My 3 yr old son is perfectly potty trained and never has accidents. I just don’t understand. Is there anybody out there that I can relate to. Or anybody that can help?????

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My 4 year old is wetting herself everyday?

  • Posted on December 2, 2010 at 5:24 pm

I have a 4 year old daughter and am expecting baby #2. I am about 12 weeks along now and not really showing much, but I think my daughter is already jealous of the new baby. Not sure, but from what I’ve read so far this is a common issue. I need advice on how to get through this and back to my 100% potty trained kid! :)
My 4 year old started this about 3 weeks ago, and has rarely had a fully dry day. At first, she would wet her pants, then try to hide it.
After a few days, she would just tell the sitter she wet her pants, and now “you have to change me” she’d say.
Now, we’re back to pull ups at night time. She even goes to the bathroom before bed and has nothing to drink except maybe a small drink of water before bed.

No matter what we’ve done, she continues to wet herself. Now, she’s at the point where she will get to the potty, but might still have a small accident. Most of the time, she’s not even trying. I have no clue what else to do. Anyone with a similar experience or advice would be greatly appreciated.

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Track and Bristol were far from the angels Sarah portrays them to be. Is Sarah herself genuine?

  • Posted on September 22, 2010 at 5:20 am

The magazine that broke the Jon Edwards affair is out with their first scoop on the Palins:

http://www.nationalenquirer.com/_palin_family_shockers_what_sarahs_really_hiding/celebrity/65407

Who knew their kids were even wilder than bush was back when he was their age?

http://gawker.com/5047794/teen-daughter-pregnant-son-on-drugs-whats-next

The ENQUIRER has learned exclusively that Sarah’s oldest son, Track, was addicted to the power drug OxyContin for nearly the past two years, snorting it, eating it, smoking it and even injecting it. And as Track, 19, heads to Iraq as part of the U.S. armed forces, Sarah and her husband Todd were powerless to stop his wild antics, detailed in the new issue of The ENQUIRER, which goes on sale today.

THE ENQUIRER also has exclusive details about Track’s use of other drugs, including cocaine, and his involvement in a notorious local vandalism incident.

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My brother was trying to get his daughter to detox … she must be hooked on heroin ….she had locked herself?

  • Posted on August 4, 2010 at 3:25 pm

in her car. I saw her shoot herself up twice. She looks like death. Is there any hope or answer for the heroin addict ? What would help ?

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How can my daughter protect herself against her drug addicted husband?

  • Posted on August 2, 2010 at 10:19 am

My daughter is caught up in a situation with her husband that is a really bad one. She works an excellent job and has a good position in her own office. She married a man that was a good guy but has turned to crack cocaine. They have two precious little baby girls in the house. One is six months old and one is four years old. There are two other children from her former marriage.
Her husband disappears for three or four days to do his crack and calls her when he runs out of money and comes home and says she cannot throw him out because it is his house too. She says when he comes in he is coming down from the drug. She has called the police and they say they can’t make him leave because it indeed his home too.
Does anyone know what her rights are on this issue. She is ready to file papers, but in the mean time, she wants him out.
Has anyone experienced such a thing and what can she do? Thanks

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WHY is my daughter is still soiling herself at 7?

  • Posted on January 4, 2010 at 2:08 pm

My daughter will be 7 next month and is still soiling herself.
When she was 4 I thought it could be encopresis and did my research, kept diaries, saw consultants (who first told me to try regular toilet times, drinking pure juices) then about a year later another consultant prescribed Movicol, tried that, made it worse, completely uncontrolable, even with one sachet. Another year on the prescribed Movicol again, this time it did nothing what so ever, she just soiled herself as usual.
We’re tried star charts, rewards, presents, days out, taking her favourite toys away, making her clean herself up, sending her to bed, not letting her out to play, no sweets, no TV, no DS………the list is endless.
She is quite happy to sit/play in dirty clothes (the other day it was all up her back, up her front, down her legs and she didn’t care), and if she needs a wee, she’s go to the toilet completely ignoring the fact that she has soiled herself.
She is not constipated, she goes once a day, it’s nice and soft (Number 4 on Bristol Stool chart) and it doesn’t hurt when she goes.
When she does go on the toilet, I make a HUGE fuss, give her treats and extra long cuddles which she likes.
She has admitted to not going when she needs to, but why won’t she just go?
Last week she was at my sisters all day whilst I was at work. I sent her each day in a skirt with no underwear on. She was clean all day and went to the toilet whenever she needed to go, cleaned herself and carried on playing. Today she had dance practice so obviously she had to wear underwear. When she got home she had a small mark in her underwear (indicating she didn’t go straight away when she needed to go). The after she’d played outside for a while and had dinner I caught a smell of something……….she’d completely filled her undewear and it smelt like a farm – seriously. So I cleaned her up and sent her to bed.
One particular time I was sitting at the dinner table (writing) whilst she was colouring next to me and I smelt something. She was only stood there pooing and colouring at the same time.
She is a happy girl, has plenty of exercise (tap dancing, ballet, stagecraft, gymnastics, disco dancing, swimming) she loves PE at school, has LOADS of friends at school. She eats a very healthy diet, and drinks a lot squash/water.
Her little brother was clean and dry day and night at 2 yrs 4 months. Now 3, he has now begun to notice and comes up to me telling me that he can smell her.
One of my daughter’s friends who we see outside of school always tells me that she thinks my daughter has soiled herself (and she’s always right)
I’m worried that she’ll have no friends before long as eveyone will notice she smells and what she does.

I get so frustrated 4 days being clean then as soon as she wears underwear she soils……she thinnks it’s a nappy i’m sure. I’ve threatened nappies but it didn’t work.

I’ve run out of ideas! Help!

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My daughter is 14 she loves milk. But is too much unhealthily? She drinks a gallon in 3 to 4 days by herself?

  • Posted on January 1, 2010 at 7:13 pm
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