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Why is my mother so attached to my father even though he’s cheated on her at least three known times?

  • Posted on May 5, 2011 at 1:22 am

She has had a rough life getting pregnant at 16, then she moved to Houston w/ 2 kids and “supposedly” would lock herself and her lover in a room for hours while letting my 1/2-sisters cry for her yelling and screaming under the door. Then she met my dad who is a drug addict (coke and beer) and hasn’t been able to let go even though he’s cheated on her at least 3 known times. He can’t stop talking to his other lover (well call her Jamie) and she has called my mom at work saying she wants my dad. My mom is still sexually active with my dad knowing he still communicates with Jamie. And, my mom has gone as far as following Jamie’s daughter . Every time we confront my mom about it she gets upset and won’t talk to us for days. She seems to think that her and my dad are happily married and us, her children, have to put up with his addictions. Not to mention, we all think that my dad is also attracted to my 1/2-sister (my mothers daughter from a previous ‘lover’). SERIOUS HELP ONLY!!!

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Why is my mother so attached to my father even though he’s cheated on her at least three known times?

  • Posted on May 3, 2011 at 10:21 pm

She has had a rough life getting pregnant at 16, then she moved to Houston w/ 2 kids and “supposedly” would lock herself and her lover in a room for hours while letting my 1/2-sisters cry for her yelling and screaming under the door. Then she met my dad who is a drug addict (coke and beer) and hasn’t been able to let go even though he’s cheated on her at least 3 known times. He can’t stop talking to his other lover (well call her Jamie) and she has called my mom at work saying she wants my dad. My mom is still sexually active with my dad knowing he still communicates with Jamie. And, my mom has gone as far as following Jamie’s daughter . Every time we confront my mom about it she gets upset and won’t talk to us for days. She seems to think that her and my dad are happily married and us, her children, have to put up with his addictions. Not to mention, we all think that my dad is also attracted to my 1/2-sister (my mothers daughter from a previous ‘lover’). SERIOUS HELP ONLY!!!

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Why is my mother so attached to my father even though he’s cheated on her at least three known times?

  • Posted on April 26, 2011 at 1:21 am

She has had a rough life getting pregnant at 16, then she moved to Houston w/ 2 kids and “supposedly” would lock herself and her lover in a room for hours while letting my 1/2-sisters cry for her yelling and screaming under the door. Then she met my dad who is a drug addict (coke and beer) and hasn’t been able to let go even though he’s cheated on her at least 3 known times. He can’t stop talking to his other lover (well call her Jamie) and she has called my mom at work saying she wants my dad. My mom is still sexually active with my dad knowing he still communicates with Jamie. And, my mom has gone as far as following Jamie’s daughter . Every time we confront my mom about it she gets upset and won’t talk to us for days. She seems to think that her and my dad are happily married and us, her children, have to put up with his addictions. Not to mention, we all think that my dad is also attracted to my 1/2-sister (my mothers daughter from a previous ‘lover’). SERIOUS HELP ONLY!!!

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my friend was beaten badly, he’s in critical condition in the ICU, the cops arrested him and held him w/regard?

  • Posted on January 1, 2011 at 1:22 am

to his very obvious injuries.
he was arrested on suspicion of being on drugs/intoxicated, but he was acting erratic because of his head injury and wanting to get back home to his daughter.
so for 24 hours he went without any care for his, now life threatening, head injury. i don’t think anyone can say whether he will make it or not and i think that a big reason for that is the delay in treatment.

how did this happen?!
how is this justified??
is someone, namely the arresting officers, going to be held accountable if he does not make it???
he wasn’t on drugs.
he had a head injury.
the police misinterpreted his behavior as being intoxicated when, in fact, it was due to the severe head trauma he encountered.
he was not making sense with his words and stumbling around.

BUT he had visible injuries on his head and blood.
no matter what his suspected crime isn’t he expected to receive medical care in a situation where it is obviously needed??!
of course, bloody, did you not read where i wrote bloody? he was BEATEN bad enough to need surgery and is not in the neurology dept. ICU in critical condition.

no offense, sandy, i appreciate your story where the cops did the RIGHT thing and all, but i posted in here for a professional opinion on whether the cops WILL be able be held responsible.
is there anything i can do?
i meant he IS in the neurology dept. ICU right now.
“recovering” from surgery and head injuries.
not conscious.

i think it would have been pretty obvious he had been roughed up enough to warrant an examination, at least.
i’m not trying to get comments, just answers.
anyways, he looks like a freaking train hit him. but i guess thats completely normal for someone intoxicated.
and his baby’s mom called for him to be jumped by two huge dudes, he didn’t “get in a fight” nor was he having anything to do with drugs.

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Alcoholic Dad help, i think he’s dying ?

  • Posted on December 27, 2010 at 10:17 am

My dad is an alcoholic, has been one for about 8 years. He’s 44 years old. And he always has this habit of being drunk for two weeks and being sober for one. This week he got really sick. He is having trouble breathing. He says that everything hurts. And he cant move his lips. He refuses to go to the doctor. And i have no idea what to do please help. I’m his daughter and i don’t want him to die.

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I took in an alcoholic who was passed out on the street. Now he’s yelling. Any suggestions?

  • Posted on November 3, 2010 at 8:18 am

I know him – he painted a couple of rooms in my house. He’s an illegal alien and I was concerned he’d get picked up by the police and be cut off from his daughter. He’s harmless — when my husband and son were walking him into the house, he cried from shame. I have no 1st hand experience with alcoholism. He’s in the guest room yelling a loud moaning yell. Should I call an ambulance? Any other advice on helping him?

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Why does Glenn Beck nearly cry all the time, he’s on TV right now ranting about some present his daughter ask?

  • Posted on September 26, 2010 at 1:23 pm

And he seems to be unbalanced. I know he has said he is a recovering drug addict, and recovering alcoholic. Is he just naturally emotional? Does he make you uncomfortable ever?

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Why does Glenn Beck nearly cry all the time, he’s on TV right now ranting about some present his daughter ask?

  • Posted on September 16, 2010 at 4:17 pm

And he seems to be unbalanced. I know he has said he is a recovering drug addict, and recovering alcoholic. Is he just naturally emotional? Does he make you uncomfortable ever?

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How do I evict my daughter’s husband if he’s not on the lease & neither of them have payed any bills/rent?

  • Posted on September 10, 2010 at 7:21 pm

I have had my daughter, her husband, and their son living with me for over a year. Before the 1st year of the lease was up he was arrested for domestic violence, taken off the lease and my daughter and I signed for another year with just us on it. Since then, she quit working (mental illness/drug abuse), let him move back in (not on the lease), and neither of them work or pay bills. I want out of the lease or at the very least, evict her husband. I want him GONE! He uses drugs in the house and won’t pay bills. She wants to recover from her addictions and mental issues but with him there she can’t do that. Can I, or how do I get him out? Can she legally let him stay because that is her husband even though I have the job and pay the rent?

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Anyone have advice on how to minimize my ex getting visitation rights with my daughter? He’s addicted to meth

  • Posted on August 19, 2010 at 11:22 am

He just got out of rehab and he’s trying to persue court ordered visitation. He has one heck of a shady divorce/family law lawyer pushing him to do it, even though he keeps repeatedly saying he is still struggling and is thinking about going back into rehab. I really don’t have money for a lawyer and need ideas about what to ask for in mediation since the ball _IS_ in my court.

Just so you know, if he were still here in state I wouldn’t have such a problem with him coming to see her and things of that nature, but he is on the east coast, and I live in the midwest. I seriously have issues with him taking her so far away!! Any ideas, anyone out there who’s been through a similar situation??

BTW, my ex is pretty impressionable as far as what I say to him buy his lawyer always seems to smooth him over. If he takes me to mediation I really want to make it hard for him.

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