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Family Problems – A Major Hindrance In Addiction Treatment In Massachusetts

  • Posted on January 2, 2010 at 8:21 am

Though it could be quite unusual to hear or to read, the fact is there are many family problems that interfere with addiction treatment in Massachusetts. Such family problems are caused by the members of the family of the patient itself and they are the impediments to be worried about. It is quite obvious that it is the family that should support patient the most. Family support is the backbone in any treatment or therapy that helps the victim to overcome health ailments but when it comes to ignorance, it is really patient’s ill fate that they have to heal themselves without any help!


Family issues plague proper addiction treatment without actually making the families realize that they are doing so. Let us take a look at some of those family problems that trouble in addiction treatment in Massachusetts:-


Negligence


Most of the families in Massachusetts neglect the patients with whom they live under one roof! They just ignore patient because of addiction. This is because they know very little about addiction and what they know is addiction is contagious or communicable. They think that if they support patient, they will also be addicted!


It is therefore, there are many wellness centers in Massachusetts right from the school level to workplace. Such centers provide education to families about what is addiction, what are the signs and symptoms and how to take care of it. They also teach how to keep addiction away from you. Such centers those are in school identify the signs of being addicted in student and then they (teachers or school substance counselors) inform the parents and also explain what the options they have to treat their children. In a same way, at workplaces also they identify susceptible candidates and then family members are informed. Unfortunately, such treatment processes are rarely started by patient’s family members.


It is for this reason; centers that provide addiction treatment in Massachusetts regularly arrange awareness campaigns. Such programs are well advertised through media across Massachusetts. The motto behind it is to interpret the families and teach them how can they keep their own members from being addicted and even if they get addicted, how to treat and what all the precautions to be taken.


Codependency


Family codependency has become very serious problem in the addiction treatment in Massachusetts. Codependency happens when an outside party does not allow the addicted person to get into right treatment. It is quite indigestible but it does happen. Let us look at how it happens with a very simple example.


For instance, if a young woman is addicted to some drug substance, her family members will keep this habit unrevealed till they can afford. Family members do not want other people to know about her addiction by any means. They try to hide the thing up to that extent that they also try to cover up even minor offenses that she commits due to her addiction.


Alas! The family members think that it is their duty to cover up the addiction of the person and they are performing it well! They think that their duty is to save her from being tarnished. They actually feel that they express their caring and love but in reality, they are pushing her further into addiction that would be then very difficult to treat. This is what constitutes codependency. Without actually realizing that they are doing it, the family members are pushing their daughter deeper and deeper into the addiction.


Emotions


The family members who are very close to the addicted person develop strong bond of emotions. This strong emotion may end up with depression, anxiety, distress, panic and many other problems that poke their noses into their own mental state. It becomes very difficult to go through a complete recovery program of addiction treatment in Massachusetts. This is because of these centers, after treatment, rely on family to support and help the patient overcoming such addiction.


In some other cases, where family members have developed problems of their own, they themselves require proper treatment and it becomes extremely difficult to tackle such program for other family members also.


These are the reasons why addiction treatment in Massachusetts is becoming difficult when the family is not in support with the patient who has been addicted to alcohol or any other drug abusing substances. However, there is a hope that through wellness programs, families are now getting trained on what they should do and how to improve their approach towards treatment in a positive way.

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So what is your outcome?

  • Posted on July 1, 2009 at 9:05 pm

So what is your outcome? What do you want?

We hear this quite often, don’t we? But what usually happens when we hear this?

Well the most common response for people who don’t get their results would be:

“Well I don’t want ‘x’ to happen”,
“I don’t want to stay in debt”
“I don’t want to be ill anymore”

I hear this all too often when coaching people and it’s a big problem in why the person hasn’t got the result the way they want it. Even if people say “I want to be well again as I hate being ill all the time” just thinking this will be a hindrance to your success. Why?

Well in order to achieve your outcomes or goals in life, you have to be focused on the end outcome or goal. However sentences like “I don’t want to stay in debt” focus on debt! And whatever your mind focuses on with consistency you attract in your life, it continues to expect and even looks out for it!

Imagine that sentence for one moment “I don’t want to stay in debt”, when you think about that now, what happens in your mind?

You may make a picture of being in debt
You may associate the bad feelings of being in debt for life i.e. fear, anxiety and unhappiness.
You may hear the words we were taught such as “Money doesn’t grow on trees you know!”, “We can’t all have money!”

Your mind will delete the ‘don’t’ and just make up a picture of ‘Stay in debt’, your hypnotising yourself with that suggestion with “I stay in debt!”

Now if you have one or all or more of these thoughts over a period of time, it naturally causes consistent bad feelings, and guess what the more negative thoughts and feelings you have it will produce limiting beliefs such as ‘Your right money doesn’t grow on trees, I will be in debt for ever, I give up!”

Henry Ford once said “Whether you think you can or can’t, you’re right”

This is so true. So what are you focusing on? Are you focusing on the lack of or the abundance of?

Now imagine if you will the thought “I am Healthy and Wealthy”

What happens? It’s a whole lot of new set of thoughts and feelings right?

You see a picture of you being healthy, and wealthy
That brings feelings of energy, security and happiness.
It may creates the words “I can, I will, I have”

Now even if in reality its not presently true, if you change your thoughts to be consistent like the above, it to will create new feelings, and over time will create strong empowering beliefs that will cause you mind and body to search for the answers and attract those people, relationships, health, wealth and happiness into your life.

What’s your outcome? And more importantly what’s your point of focus?

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Joseph Clough

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