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Does anyone have an idea about a parents rights in a “grandparents rights” law suit in AZ?

  • Posted on April 20, 2011 at 3:21 am

I am a biological mother of a 7 yo little girl and my ex-monster-in-law wants crazy visitation. Like all summer, every other weekend and alternating ALL major and minor holidays. I submitted my visitation plan of one saturday a month and no overnights. I am being fair, considering she let my daughter go alone with her son after there was a felony warrant issued for his arrest. He is a heroin and crack cocaine user and I made it clear he was not allowed near her. Well we had a hearing for temp. orders and the judge ruled in my favor so far, but i want to know if anyone has had or heard of a situation like this at all? When I google or search for grandparents rights AZ on the web it all is more info for the grandparents. Any thoughts?

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I have no idea what to do. PLEASEEEEE help.?

  • Posted on March 11, 2011 at 2:20 pm

my parents got divorced 5 years ago because my dad cheated on my mom with a girl named..lets call her Jill. Mom still kept him because she wanted me to have a dad. So until i was seven my sister..lets call her Tori would come over every other weekend. Then my dad cheated again with the same girl, that was it for my mom. She was done and divorced him. i Went back and forth for three years and then mom took him back ALL i ever heard was screaming in the house. I have not seen my sister for Four years and we just recently got in touch, i am 13. My sister hates dad. She hates him because she feels he choose me over her. But i cant see her because my dads brother is doing her mom. So my sisters uncle is doing her mom. Oh and did i mention hes a Meth head, and hes also my uncle. He got his own daughter into Meth, my cousin. My dad does weed. My other uncle does weed. my whole family is falling apart. The meth head uncle Over dosed but survied but lost custody of my cousin, then she went to live with my grandma. She is still a meth head. so i cannot see her. i cant see my sister. And my dad..is going off the deep end. Im being serouis, he is going crazy and it hurts me to see him like this.
What should i do?
my family is falling apart:/

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How is this story idea? Is it original?

  • Posted on February 8, 2011 at 1:22 pm

Jessica’s parents are drug addicts and try to stop their addiction while trying to live their lives in normal society they shun out all the friends they have made over the years except their friends who seem not to judge them.Jessica’ss parents are surprised when they hear that their only friends are having a child that is expected around the date that Jessica is born. When Marina is born Jessica’s parents friends child)Jessica’s parents are selfish and decide it is best that they give their daughter the best life possible.Jessica’s mother was raised in aorphanagee so she wasagainstt that instead her and her husband switched their friends baby with theirs (the children looked the same and were about the same age had the same hair skin etc) Jessica is raised by her parents friends and does not know that theyaren’tt her parents until Marina tries to explain to Jessica that she is another families daughter (marina was visited by Jessica’s mother and Jessica’s mother felt guilty about what she had done so she told Marina about what she had done). Jessica kills Marina because she is happy with her life and wont let anyone ruin it.
I tried to make it more clear
grr D< try not to remember the ending

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Whats your oppinion on this story idea?? I have mutiple feelings for it . ?

  • Posted on February 3, 2011 at 11:23 pm

A girl and her friends sneak out to go to a party (3) . The party is absolutly great. On the way home they get into a car crash and only one survives (the main character) . when she gets out of the hospital she has continuous dreams of her 2 friends talking to her about things . They tell her its not her fault and everything is okay . She cant stop mourning over the loss , they were her life . .Her mom decides they need to get away from that place in order for her daughter to recover from the terrible experience . The main character enrolls in a new school . As soon as life seems to become less hectic a new guy comes to school . Theres something about him that intoxicates her . one night a dream of her friends greets her once more . They tell her hes not what he seems . And she becomes eager to discover what lies beyond his gorgeous features.

To me this idea seems like a reoccuring thing between stories . but i cant get the idea out of my head . tell me what you think
im not shure what hes going to be . And i agree it does sound a lil too much like every other novel and like twilight . Any ideas on how to exactly fix that problem?

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Is conservatorship a good idea for my 18 yo out of control daughter?

  • Posted on January 7, 2011 at 8:20 am

I recently moved to a new city and my 18yo daughter wanted to stay put. I agreed to let her stay as long as she showed responsiblity. Her 8 month old daughter came with me because it was too hard for her to get around/daycare/work etc. Well, she got evicted from her first apt for non-payment (after 3 mos) and has moved into another one with 2 males (“just roomates” she says). I know she’s smoking pot and there’s signs of meth/coke use. she’s missed so many days from work (her first job-at Wendy’s) that they’ve told her one more time and she’s fired PLUS her “friends” are all bad news. (gang-banger wannabes)She only sees her daughter if I bring her there (200 miles) and even then will choose to go out rather than have her for a night. I want her to move by me where a friend of mine guaranteed her a job and the low income housing would put her rent at about $100/month but she refuses. What are my options short of kidnapping her? (kidding …sorta)
p.s.
We live in Colorado.
p.s.s
I don’t want her to hate me but I’d rather that than have her screw up her life and the way she’s going now, that’s exactly what’s going to happen. I am not asking her to come live with me, just by me where her options are better. She’d have a job as a pet stylist (my friend owns her own salon and offered to give her a job and even pay for her to get trained/licensed). She’d have low rent, free food laundry at my house whenever she needed and I obviously would watch her daughter. This is tearing my family apart and I don’t know what I should do. I regret ever letting her stay behind but I did only because before she was on her own she was a good kid and her decisions had been good ones, but now…. she’s headed for jail or worse.
(In response to “been there done that)I’m curious HOW I am enabling her? I don’t give her any money and I am watching her daughter out of protection for the baby.
(response) I agree 100% as far as her view of motherhood, that wasn’t the QUESTION. my question was WHAT ARE MY OPTIONS since she isn’t 21 yet!!! I’m certainly not going to say oh well too bad and let her self destruct….

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Is gaining conservatorship of my out of control 18 yo daughter a good idea?

  • Posted on January 6, 2011 at 9:20 am

I recently moved to a new city and my 18yo daughter wanted to stay put. I agreed to let her stay as long as she showed responsiblity. Her 8 month old daughter came with me because it was too hard for her to get around/daycare/work etc. Well, she got evicted from her first apt for non-payment (after 3 mos) and has moved into another one with 2 males (“just roomates” she says). I know she’s smoking pot and there’s signs of meth/coke use. she’s missed so many days from work (her first job-at Wendy’s) that they’ve told her one more time and she’s fired PLUS her “friends” are all bad news. (gang-banger wannabes)She only sees her daughter if I bring her there (200 miles) and even then will choose to go out rather than have her for a night. I want her to move by me where a friend of mine guaranteed her a job and the low income housing would put her rent at about $100/month but she refuses. What are my options short of kidnapping her? (kidding …sorta) Do I have ANY say since she’s not 21?
p.s.
We live in Colorado.
p.s.s
I don’t want her to hate me but I’d rather that than have her screw up her life and the way she’s going now, that’s exactly what’s going to happen. I am not asking her to come live with me, just by me where her options are better. She’d have a job as a pet stylist (my friend owns her own salon and offered to give her a job and even pay for her to get trained/licensed). She’d have low rent, free food laundry at my house whenever she needed and I obviously would watch her daughter. This is tearing my family apart and I don’t know what I should do. I regret ever letting her stay behind but I did only because before she was on her own she was a good kid and her decisions had been good ones, but now…. she’s headed for jail or worse.
In response to the response..lol… My friend trhat owns the salon IS a dear friend… we’ve known each other for YEEARS. She has a small pet grooming salon and my daughter would be trained and licensed so she would be able to either open her own salon or have a mobile salon. Since most of my friends customers are regulars, and since my daughter wouldn’t be able to actually work on the animals untill she was trained, any irresonsibility would rear it’s ugly head long before she could do damage to my friends reputation. She has known my daughter as well for years and was a “wild child” herself at one point, so she is willing to help her and aware of the possible outcomes. Me myself? I know I need to leave her in God’s hands but the images that flood my mind of what is going on and what may come almost paralize me. My grandbaby keeps me level and is my ray of joy. I just wish her mom would realize what she’s doing and come with me :(
oh, and I already have a notorized statement from her about guardianship. I had that taken care of before her diaper bag was even packed! It’s just heartbreaking that the law says they are “adults” at 18 and then the gov’t complains about unplanned pregnancies, and “the youth of today”.I am just hpoing that when she hits rock bottom she has the sense to climg up and not dig deeper out of a misplaced sense of pride. Please pray for my family and myself.

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Is it a good idea for my daughter to get to know her half-sibling?

  • Posted on October 26, 2010 at 3:22 am

As I explained in my last question, I am 15 and 15 weeks pregnant.
Now, the father of my daughter (I was engaged to him, we were going to try and get a court order because I’m pregnant) passed away a little over a month ago due to a drunk driving accident.
And, I didn’t know this until after his death, but he has a two-month old son from a previous relationship and I CAN’T STAND the mother of the child.
Not because she has a child with my fiancee, but because she’s just an all around bitch!
She is 18, a senior in high school and is rude to me and others.
But my question is, do you think it’s absolutely important for my daughter to get to know her brother?

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I have been diagnosed as bi-polar, depressed, co-dependent. I have no idea what is wrong with me.?

  • Posted on September 10, 2010 at 4:17 am

But whatever it is, anti-depressants never help. I’ve tried several. Abilify made me want to crawl out of my skin and seroquel knocked me out. As a child I was shy and withdrawn, I hated school and was never interested in learning. I have had to quit several jobs throughout my life because I can’t handle losing a relationship and would be bedbound depressed. I have been married four times. one marriage was with my own sister’s ex-husband. I can’t function alone. When things are going good, I am the most responsible person but when I’m alone I get very fearful. I have been a binge drinker since I was fifteen. I am forty-one now. I had a car wreck six years ago and I have not been able to rebound from the depression. I literally spend my life in bed or in a recliner. I don’t even have enough energy to go to the grocery store. I started smoking pot after the wreck and I mean I smoke all day and night. Sometimes I go through stages of insomnia. I have had some boughts of irritability, but not often. I mainly have absolutely no energy. I’ve stopped smoking pot befor to see if that was what was causing it, but I felt just as depressed and tired all th time. No motivation to do anything. I was taking lortabs for back pain and they gave me some energy, but the doc tested me one day and discovered marijuana in my urine, so now I can’t even get lortabs. I am at my wits end. I have the potential to be a registered nurse–all A’s, but I haven’t been able to return to school due to the lack of energy and motivation. I had a nervous break-down after my carwreck. I managed to pull myself together without medical help when it happened, but I just can’t seem to rebound. My marriage is unahappy, I think we both feel stuck. I hardly ever see my daughter whio is now on drugs herself. When I was able and younger, I’d go out and binge drink sometimes when I was bored. But most of the time, as long as in a committed relationship, I didn’t drink. I fear if my husband and I were to ever divorce, I’d be a raging alcoholic or drug addict. I lived thirty-five years without ever experimenting with drugs, but now I’m so desperate to feel good, I don’t trust myself. I don’t have any friends. outside of work, I didn’t ever socialize, although I was very friendly and outgoing at work. I was a good worker, but I called in sick a lot. I don’t think I can be responsible on my own. Does anybody out there have any idea what my problem might be, is so please help, i am willing to try anything.

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