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Looking for info on John Wesley Farmer, LaHabra, CA?

  • Posted on April 14, 2011 at 3:23 pm

I am doing the family history- My oldest child(born 1975) father is John Wesley Farmer (birth 06/04/1953). We have not had contact since 1976 but had heard he was in prison in 1985 or so. His Mom’s name was Wanda Pasley Hathorn( I know she remarried , widowed but can’t remember her names, sister- Bobbie-(married to Larry Leiva and daughter Star) and brother Gene. Larry and Gene went to Vietnam-got strung out on heroin and brought the bad habit home. John became involved and I left. I went back after he was born to try and work it out but it was crazier than ever. I last saw John in lock-up at the mental hospital on suicide watch. We were all living in LaHabra,CA. I can’t let this go on anymore now that I have started doing geneaology it needs to be correct. I married and had more 4 children-it was never an issue-he was 8 when married into a wonderful family who treated him as their own from the start. Any help would be so greatly appriciated
Thanks for the info- would there be a way of knowing if he had more children? and his parents’names?

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Please give some info and helpful answers…and keep an open mind.?

  • Posted on February 4, 2011 at 9:20 pm

My mother has been trying to take my daughter age 12 from me since she was born. I have had countless restraining orders, a 2 year order of protection for both me and my daughter and I have moved to several different states only for her to find me and cause more trouble. I have recreationaly used marijuana in the past (which I know is a “no, no”) However I have never used in the presence of my children. The last time I smoked I did not know at the time that I was pregnant and as soon as I discovered that I was I never touched it again. Unfortunately mother discovered where I lived a month later and began secretly meeting with my daughter at a community theater play that she was rehearsing for. Knowing my past history with marijuana she convinced my daughter that if she went to school and complained that I was a drug abuser that CPS would come and take her away and then she would be able to come and live with her. CPS came and removed my children from my home and requested a hair follicle test that we all know can go back up to three years. I began to cooperate with CPS for the return of my children who were placed with my Mother In law instead of my mother. When my mother discovered that she would not be getting or considered for custody of my kids she pressed the issue with the police to arrest me for harming/neglecting my unborn fetus. And I was. CPS did not push for this arrest, my mother did. My question is this. I never harmed or neglected my children. They were well taken care of. I never did any other drugs like crack, heroin, meth, ect. Nor did I ever knowingly smoke marijuana while pregnant. What the hell can I do to fight this??? What can I do to fight her. I know that this is not the end of her tyrant and vendetta against me. Please give me some advise.
Thanks RJ and JC’s Mommy…. I have been doing exactly what you advise. I also have a lawyer, a beautiful home, I don’t drink, smoke cigarettes, ect. I also have the finances to take care of them all. The only the CPS and the law have found me “guilty” of is a positive drug test for THC. I appreciate your understanding…it gives me strength.

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suboxin….any info for a heroin addict?

  • Posted on October 18, 2010 at 7:21 pm

i have a 3 yr old and a month ago out of the blue her idiot father shows up strung out. not only had he been paying no support for our daughter, let alone see, her, but had a 18 yr old buddy living in these slimy motels. i find out he had been shhoting up dope. well no insurance limits getting help. well i helped him, got him into a suboxin clinic. he isnt taking both pills daily and has now gone back to his nasty self. i charge him no rent in my 800 townhome and believe you not its good. whats keeping me from booting him is my daughter is so happy to see him. i need help please.

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I’m filing for divorce at husband’s request and am very worried about his threats. Anyone have info or exp?

  • Posted on October 8, 2010 at 4:33 pm

My husband’s alcoholism has gone from bad to worse, causing constant fighting and arguing. He told me to file for divorce, which was not what I really wanted.
We are still in the same house. It is in my name alone, bought before the marriage, and he signed a quit claim leaving it as my sole and separate property when I refinanced.
I have been responsible for the mortgage payment and most bills. I have used 100% of my net pay on taking care of the bills (over $5000 a month). He would put in about $300 a week for groceries, outings, and gas, when he felt like it.
I am being nice by not getting a restraining order. He is very abusive, and there are about 10 incident reports with the sheriff’s dept. I don’t want to force him out, evict him, or anything like that. But my daughter and I can’t even live in peace because he comes to her room to harrass me every single evening (I stay in her room since we only have 2 bedrooms)
Here are the main financial details. I refinanced when prices were high. The value has dropped about 150K from 360K to 210K, and I owe 219K, so there’s no equity in the house whatsoever. There are also loans, credit cards, and car payments. The credit cards are all in my name because of his bad credit, but he has used them and accrued thousands in debt, which he has never tried to pay. The debt is about 110K. I am currently able to pay all of the bills, and with some adjustments, probably do so even without any of his income, since he gave me so little.
To me it seems like if he went after the house (my sole and separate property), we would both owe about 110K to pay off the mortgage and another 50K to pay the bills.
To me it just seems like leaving my house to me and letting me assume all the debts makes more sense. He can easily live off his income in an apartment, and have money left over. But he says he will get alimony because he is used to vacations, Lakers games, and other things.
He says his parents are hiring a lawyer because he is getting half the house (that has no equity), alimony because he is used to a certain lifestyle (even though 2 years of our 6 year marriage were spent in prison), and he is going to make sure that my daughter and I have no where to go.
What could a lawyer possibly do to benefit him in this situation? There is no equity and no money, but there is over 100k in debt. He is making so many threats that I feel like I will be on the streets.
Why would a lawyer want a case like this?
If you have any experience with this or know anything about this from a legal standpoint, please please share your infomation with me. I will greatly appreciate it.

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I found on my daughters dresser a cream named ,Hempz does anyone has any info on that?

  • Posted on September 9, 2010 at 10:23 pm

When i found the cream my husband was very angry He told me that the cream is made from the marijuana leave and that You could get high of it and that if anyone in my family by accident put on this cream and in our jobs any of us had a drug test we will fail it. He is telling me that my daughter is addicted to this drug because of it. Do es anyone knows more about it because I dont.

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Mothers and drinking alcohol while child is in your care??Read Info……?

  • Posted on September 1, 2010 at 3:26 am

I have two daughters a 2 1/2 yr old and a 10 month old. I babysit my niece who is also 2 1/2 yrs old. The problem is that my sister in law was drinking heavily last weekend when a family member brought my niece back to her after a birthday party, she also had 3 other males in the home with her drinking. My sister in laws father went to the home and tried to get my niece out of there and she refused to give her up so he called the police and they came and said yes she was intoxicated but she was in her own home so they could do nothing about it, she was the ONLY parent there!! She is playing it off like she is allowed to have a few drinks while she is taking care of her daughter, I think it is irresponsible and completely wrong, but I would like to know your guys feedback on this?? I am to the point that I don’t even want to watch my niece because that forces me to see my sister in law to whom I want nothing to do with at this point. I would never drink with my children in my care!!
She is a single parent 23 yrs old, that father is in the picture he keeps her mon. tues. and weds.10am to 9 pm. I keep her thurs. fridays and every other saturday. The father claims that he is trying for custody but has done nothing to get that going. This is not the first time she had done something like this, but it is the first time that everyone in the family knows about it and fears for my nieces well-being. I want to protect her so much I just dont know how to get through to my sister in law.
My niece does have a good father but for some reason seems nervous to pursue any custody, they have been separated for about 3 months. One thing that does scare me is that she has had to take her to the hospital quite a few time in the middle of the night, just two weeks ago she had to call 911 because my niece stopped breathing she a an allergic reaction. But I know of at least once she had been drinking and still had to take her to the hospital.

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