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I got drunk at my sister in-laws wedding and ended up touching her in sexual manner..?

  • Posted on January 23, 2011 at 11:23 pm

Last week me and my wife went to my sister-in laws wedding.My wife had been driving me crazy for day’s to prepare for this wedding(cloths, presents, drinks etc..) When we got there my wife went to greet the best man (my father in-law) when we started to talk, my father in-law talked about “how boring and stressful this day has been and how he COULDN’T WAIT for it to be done and over”,(i couldn’t of agreed with him more) So before the wedding started me and my father in-law started to drink couple of beers together, while my wife went to go comfort the bride. (1 beer became 2 beers 5 beers ect…) Until me and my father in-law where completely wasted.. So at the Wedding reception my father in-law came up to me (completely drunk) and said “come meet my daughter) So i walked over to my sister in-law(drunk) and my father in-law said “You see does breast touch’em” (while pointing at my sister in-law so i go up to her and squeeze her breast (in sexual manner) her newly wed husband hits me
away and my sister in-law screams “what the hell are you doing!?” I kind of got control of my self and ran away (my wife chasing after me) when we get home my wife gives me the “third degree” Screams “what the hell where you thinking”? I told her “i was drunk and her father encouraged me”.. She is still pissed at me now and i haven’t talked to my sister in-law or any of her family since… How should i feel? I was drunk and couldn’t help my self? Whats your opinion? How should i handle this situation?

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What to think, what to do regarding living with future in-laws!!?

  • Posted on October 16, 2010 at 4:33 pm

I have been living with my boyfriend of 5 years for the past 4 years of our relationship. Now that we’re engaged and marriage is looming in the next year or two, I’ve had a hard time coming to grips of our living situation. I basically goes down like this:

My fiance and his twin brother own the house they currently live in. It’s a mother-daughter type house were the first floor’s a separate apartment from the 2nd and 3rd floor. And while the house is quite comfortable and spacious, it isn’t occupied only by my fiancee and brother. Their parents live there as well. Since the father’s an alcoholic and the mother’s a housewife, they’re pretty much financially dependent on my fiance and his brother. His parents have a house of their own in Mexico (where they’re from) but have no desire to live there full-time. So they’re living with them full-time here in New York. Since I’ve gone this far (4 years) of living with them and haven’t ripped my hair out, I figure I can live in peace with them. For the most part they’re very helpful around the house. The mother cooks everyday, the father takes care of the up-keep of the house (his alcoholism isn’t as severe as in the past) and they’ve never EVER disrespected me. They’re very friendly and cordial. However the only thing that rubs me the wrong way sometimes is the lack of independence and privacy I feel whenever I want to be with my fiance.

Many times they depend on my fiance or his brother to drive them places (they can’t afford their own car), sometimes invade our privacy and other minor things that can be annoying. And while these things are minor, they can build up and I’m just not sure if this situation is going to continually be a good one. The main factor that’s stopping my fiancee and I from getting our own place is the economy. It’s nearly impossible to get approved for a home mortgage and unless I magically hit the lottery, we’ll be living like this for a few more years.

Sorry this question is more like a long monologue, but I just really need some insight as to what I should be feeling about things. I am madly in love with my fiance and KNOW that I want to spend the rest of my life with him. It’s just unfortunate that due to circumstances that are out of our power to change, are keeping things on edge.

What would you do in my situation? Any feedback would be much appreciated!

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Would you go to the funeral? My in-laws have a friend whose daughter has been a heroin addict for the last 15?

  • Posted on August 1, 2010 at 9:21 pm

years. Her 19 year old son just OD’d yesterday. I know them from a few holiday events over the years and really thought the kid had potential. The fact that we suspect his mom introduced him to heroin is what is really making this hard. I should go for him, but I really blame his mother and don’t know what I’ll do if I see the scumbag.
Would you go?

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