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Help, please! My son’s ex-girlfriend joined the army and wants her mom to have my grandson instead of my son.?

  • Posted on October 21, 2010 at 5:23 pm

I’m so worried & confused… my son & his girlfriend have a 1 yr old son, and she just graduated from high school last month & joined the army. My son graduated last year and is a full time welder. They are always fighting, breaking up, getting back together. They aren’t married, & now they’re broken up. We just found out yesterday that she left for the army and signed over temp custody of her mom, who, by the way acts like she’s in jr. high, fighting, slashing tires, does crack, even gave her daughter to her ex mother in law to raise, and now she’s got my grandson. My son is also immature, he wanted to go into the military last yr but he didn’t so they could be a family, but they kept on fighting all the time. I’m 40, I’m a church secretary, my husband is a welder, I have a 9 yr & 11 yr old, my 18 yr old just graduated from h.s. & my 19 yr old has his own apt, 2 cars, he’s a hard worker, but he has a baby with this girl who just joined the army. I don’t understand why the army would let her give the baby to her mom instead of the baby’s father, my son, I’m sure I will raise the baby, which is what I want, since my son now wants to join the air force, he made a real high score on his asbab (can’t spell it) test. The air force guy said that he can’t join the military because the other parent beat him to it. What do I do? I know I’m gonna end up w/the baby eventually (which I’d love to have happen), except I don’t want the baby to be abused or negliected until then. I had a horrible childhood, I was raised by a drug addict single mom & just about everything bad that could happen, happened to me, but I turned out good, I went to college & gave my kids a better life than I had, I don’t want my grandbaby to go thru what I went thru. What should I do? My son’s too immature to raise his baby, but all his ex’s family has all had cps cases. Sooner or later the baby will be taken away from the other grandmother because she’s always in trouble with the law, dwi’s & what not. My son said he wants me to have the baby if he is able to join the military. What do I do??

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can i leave my daughter to my parents instead of her father in a will?

  • Posted on September 13, 2010 at 12:17 am

I am currently in a relationship with the father of my child. We are not married but his name is on her birth certificate. Im worried that if something happens to me he is not responsible enough to take care of her properly and to teach her the things she needs to be taught. He is only nineteen and is border line alcoholic. Is there any way possible i can make out a will to leave her with my parents if i were to die or become incapacitated?

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How do I tell my daughter she drank my pee instead of apple juice?

  • Posted on January 2, 2010 at 10:33 am

Me and my husband we’re having sex and he made me pee in a glass. He forgot to drink it, so my daughter had it.. WHAT SHOULD I DO? SHE CAN’T BREATHE.
That’s my daughter Scarlett Johannsen
I know sweethang.!

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what do you think about my daughter drinking my breast milk after she is 3 but from a cup instead of the breas?

  • Posted on January 1, 2010 at 7:37 pm

a lot of people are skeptical about mothers breastfeeding children after 3 saying all sorts from it causing psychological problems etc. but what do people think if i expressed the milk and my daughter drank it from a cup instead. that way she can continue to enjoy my breast milk for as long as she wants without being bullied etc. at school. infact she would not even have to know she was still drinking breast milk.
I just want to mention to all those who are telling me to just give my daughter cows milk we do not drink cows milk in out home. cows milk is to nurture cows and human milk is to nurture humans. she will not ever have cows milk until she is old enough to make her own decision instead she will be fed foods other than cows milk which are also abundant with calcium and so i feel that while she is young and fussy my breast will be her main source of calcium. she eats a lot of brocoli and other foods that we eat to keep up her calcium but she cannot eat as much.
i would also like to add that my daughter is only 1 at the moment i am planning for the future she is not attached to the breast and often takes a bottle. she self soothes ans no longer needs me to go to sleep and she has never even been introduced to a pacifier. and the reason for my question is because i need to know if this is something i should allow poeple to know about or if i should keep it behind closed doors so thankyou for your answers. i now know not to let poeple know

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My daughter claims she is on Aderall. How can I test her to make sure she is not on methamphetamines instead?

  • Posted on January 1, 2010 at 7:00 pm

I understand Aderall has emphatimes in it which on regular urine test it will show the same way as meth. Is there a test that would show the two drugs separately?

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