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Help my bf is n recovery & now I spend more time w/his daughter than w/him. He thinks I’m jealous of recovery

  • Posted on September 15, 2010 at 7:21 am

He goes to meetings twice a day almost everyday most weeks. I get home from work around 6:15pm, he leaves home around 7:15 or 7:30 pm and returns home around 10:00pm. On the weekends, he attends a morning meeting and if the recovery group is having an event, he hangs out with them for most of the day and then goes to a night meeting. On Sundays he does community service and goes to a meeting. I stay up late at night just 2 spend time with him. I am miserable and he thinks that I am jealous of his recovery. I am so fed up with it. I just would like to have some decent time with him. Before he started recovery, I would ask him 2 do things and he never wanted to do anything, now recovery monopolizes his time. I know it is important, but his daughter and I are important to. We really need a balance. To make matters worse, now i have a support group to help me deal with the fact that it appears his addictions have been replaced with a new addiction to the recovery community.

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