He had a past relationship with her during or shortly after the divorce of her husband. He is 27 years old and she is 41 (I am 45). He is healthy and I am a bit over weight. Her and I both smoke and he doesn’t. He let her borrow upwards of $10,000 over a three year period so she could provide for her daughter. She hasn’t paid him back much at all, only a couple hundred dollars.
He encouraged her to get a job and she got one at the bar I own. I moved in on her and she and I are now together. She told the 27 year old that she was still with her husband for several months before telling him the truth about us. He drove up to our bar to see who i was. There was some drama about a girl I was flirting with that is a waitress, I put a napkin down her shirt. My GF and I were fighting about that. The 27 year old left with a bad feeling about me, and said he was worried about her. She exploded at him because he said he was concerned. He became closer friends with us again and I wanted him to come up to prove that im better than what happened last time. This time when he came up there was a woman who was rubbing her butt against my knees. But he didn’t say anything because she is a skanky bar girl. But she was telling of old times when she spent time in my hot tub and I gave her my email address.
My GF tried to get him to drink a lot. He drinked a lot and we got him drunk. She took his keys to his camaro and drove it to a safe spot. He slept on our couch. When he woke up our daughter (15) came in. I mentioned a dildo i got for my birthday to her and she laughed. He didnt look too impressed and quickly talked about her school and everything was going at school. He told her to reach her goals and to work hard. Before he left, my GF asked if he could stay for lunch but he said no. He gave her daughter a big hug and said “remember what we talked about” and then she said ok. He drove off.
When he got home, he added her sister and daughter to facebook and she exploded at him for it. He said he was concerned about her and she said she loved me and for him not to pretend he needs to save her. Her daughter removed him from facebook a week later but I am not sure if she wanted to or not.
He sent us both a list of his concerns about our daughter. He said I shouldn’t of mentioned the dildo and cussing in front of her. He said she (her daughter) is a woman but not an object and she needs to know that women aren’t object. He said I need to be more careful around the other women. My GF really laid into him. She is really pissed. Her and I are going to Vegas this week.
