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Help, please! My son’s ex-girlfriend joined the army and wants her mom to have my grandson instead of my son.?

  • Posted on October 21, 2010 at 5:23 pm

I’m so worried & confused… my son & his girlfriend have a 1 yr old son, and she just graduated from high school last month & joined the army. My son graduated last year and is a full time welder. They are always fighting, breaking up, getting back together. They aren’t married, & now they’re broken up. We just found out yesterday that she left for the army and signed over temp custody of her mom, who, by the way acts like she’s in jr. high, fighting, slashing tires, does crack, even gave her daughter to her ex mother in law to raise, and now she’s got my grandson. My son is also immature, he wanted to go into the military last yr but he didn’t so they could be a family, but they kept on fighting all the time. I’m 40, I’m a church secretary, my husband is a welder, I have a 9 yr & 11 yr old, my 18 yr old just graduated from h.s. & my 19 yr old has his own apt, 2 cars, he’s a hard worker, but he has a baby with this girl who just joined the army. I don’t understand why the army would let her give the baby to her mom instead of the baby’s father, my son, I’m sure I will raise the baby, which is what I want, since my son now wants to join the air force, he made a real high score on his asbab (can’t spell it) test. The air force guy said that he can’t join the military because the other parent beat him to it. What do I do? I know I’m gonna end up w/the baby eventually (which I’d love to have happen), except I don’t want the baby to be abused or negliected until then. I had a horrible childhood, I was raised by a drug addict single mom & just about everything bad that could happen, happened to me, but I turned out good, I went to college & gave my kids a better life than I had, I don’t want my grandbaby to go thru what I went thru. What should I do? My son’s too immature to raise his baby, but all his ex’s family has all had cps cases. Sooner or later the baby will be taken away from the other grandmother because she’s always in trouble with the law, dwi’s & what not. My son said he wants me to have the baby if he is able to join the military. What do I do??

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