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I started working at a lingerie bar and I keep getting bad rashes!!!?

  • Posted on April 24, 2011 at 5:23 pm

I’m not a stripper. I just dress in lingerie and walk around and give guys lap dances. I don’t take anything off. Shortly after I started doing this I started getting really itchy on my butt and thighs. It eventually turned into a rash and I had to go to the doctor and get antibiotics for it. This has happened to me twice. The second time it was so bad that I was prescribed vicodin for the pain and was told that I may have to have surgery to drain the puss out of one of my bumps. Although it wasn’t necessary, I am scared of going back to work becauase it may happen again, BUT I REALLY NEED THE MONEY!! Without it I wouln’t be able to afford all of my bills. I only make $1800 a month from my regular job and that barely covers rent and day care. I don’t qualify for public aid. So my question is…. HOW DO I STOP GETTING RASHES??? I assume it’s from rubbing against these guys. Please don’t be mean I’m seriously struggling to take care of my daughter. I tried waitressing, but I didn’t make enough. This is working because I only have to do it one night a week and make an extra $400 for 4 hours.

Okay, please don’t judge me. I’m a single mom of a 3 year old and I recently split up with my boyfriend. He does not help with anything and I cannot afford my bills on my own. I’ve taken him to court but nothing ever happens. He’s a heroin addict and doesn’t have a job.
The doctor said that it was some kind of infection. I just told her that I didn’t know how it happened. She said that it could be a bug bite, change in laundry detergent, etc.

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How to keep a kid off of drugs?

  • Posted on April 23, 2011 at 7:21 pm

I know a family that is cracked out and on heroin and meth. All except for the 2 youngest a 17 year old girl and a 10 year old boy. I have talked to them all and given them all good advice and they know this. Their is mom on it son 22 on it daughter 21 on it and prostitute ( i am worried about her trying to pimp out her sister i have seen prostitutes turned pimp try and even pimp me and i am a guy). They girl is experimenting with weed it seems like its only to hang be part of the group i forgot to tell her she does not need to smoke or do drugs to hang out and the boy is very young and innocent i played catch with him. What can i do to keep them off drugs.
I already gave the mother an indisputable knowledge so that she knows their is a God( One God that created all that is in the heavens and the earth) and still she does not get it she said i will go to church(i told them they must be righteous do good and live by the Quran(complete truth), the Book(Bible)Or the Torah if they wanted to inherit paradise) then called her son to tell him she is going to get meth. It takes more than just church on Sunday to be and do good.
What can i do to help the 2 kids stay off of drugs long enough to get away.(I would prefer the girl does good and then takes care of her little brother.)

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Why do people keep voting for Ted Kennedy?

  • Posted on April 14, 2011 at 3:23 pm

Why do people keep voting for Ted Kennedy?

July 18, 1969 a drunk Ted Kennedy would drive off a bridge and leave a young girl (Mary Jo Kopechne) to die in the back seat of his car. He did not report the accident for 9 hours. Kennedy was guilty of manslaughter as anyone would be if they killed a passenger while driving drunk (He had been drinking rum and coke and Heineken beer from 4:30-11:15). Yet never went to jail. Hell, there was never a trial. What the hell, make him a senator. He is a RICH, WHITE LIBERAL and a KENNEDY. What if Mary Jo were your daughter?

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Alcoholic husband..do they ever actually keep their promises..I don’t want to get hurt again!!?

  • Posted on March 2, 2011 at 12:17 pm

so me and my husband have been married for almost two years. when I met him he had a drinking problem. when I got married and got pregnant things only got worse. long nights of sitting up when he wouldn’t come home since he was out at bars with his friends, money missing, coming home from work to a passed out husband, it has been a long road. last summer we had split up after he had left to supposively go to iowa where his mother is to look for work and got incacerated after 2 days of being there for public intox. at that time I had made up my mind and told myself i was done! well six months went by and he started doing good. i talked to him everyday and he got a job and started sending money and i let him come back home. since january he hasn’t drank but I could never give hima fresh start and always brought up the past. his dad who is an alcoholic is on person though I never trusted him around becuase he just was a bad influence on him and I knew what would happen. well off of a sudden he started sneaking around my back and started talking to him and having him meet him up at his work. I would get mad and we’d fight, so bad that I’d even come up to his work starting things. I just never trusted him and couldn’t let the past go. well come to find out my husband started talking to another girl and I’d hear accusations that he was wanting to leave me, that he just couldn’t take the fighting anymore. I just had a hard time, to me I felt I gave you all this time to straighten up and over the years I took so much emotional abuse that my mind was so messed up and I just couldn’t trust him, where was my time?? well my mom and dad start hearing the accusations and I begin to hear more and more that he just wasn’t in to me and didn’t want to be with me so we split up. 2 months has went by and he is now begging me to give him another chance and to try to work things out if I can give him that fresh start but I just don’t know what to say? all these accusations that were made, my parents hate him! how could it ever work,could they ever forgive him?? we are getting divorced no matter what, but what can I say to him. he calls me crying everyday, he sends money to help support our daughter, he isn’t drinking, nor is he trying to see anyone else right now. I also don’t know what was true, al these accusations of things he supposively said and did, I feel like how could he do this after so much I went through with him and tried to be there and stay with him. I just don’t know, so far all I told him is that right now we should be friends. since we spilt up I had to move back in with my parents and if they even had a clue I was talking to him they would probably disown me as their daughter and want us out! I can’t jeopardize a roof over my head right now nor my relationship with them… I’m just so confused and son’t know where to go from here????

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Alcoholic husband, do they ever actually keep their promises?

  • Posted on March 1, 2011 at 2:17 pm

so me and my husband have been married for almost two years. when I met him he had a drinking problem. when I got married and got pregnant things only got worse. long nights of sitting up when he wouldn’t come home since he was out at bars with his friends, money missing, coming home from work to a passed out husband, it has been a long road. last summer we had split up after he had left to supposively go to iowa where his mother is to look for work and got incacerated after 2 days of being there for public intox. at that time I had made up my mind and told myself i was done! well six months went by and he started doing good. i talked to him everyday and he got a job and started sending money and i let him come back home. since january he hasn’t drank but I could never give hima fresh start and always brought up the past. his dad who is an alcoholic is on person though I never trusted him around becuase he just was a bad influence on him and I knew what would happen. well off of a sudden he started sneaking around my back and started talking to him and having him meet him up at his work. I would get mad and we’d fight, so bad that I’d even come up to his work starting things. I just never trusted him and couldn’t let the past go. well come to find out my husband started talking to another girl and I’d hear accusations that he was wanting to leave me, that he just couldn’t take the fighting anymore. I just had a hard time, to me I felt I gave you all this time to straighten up and over the years I took so much emotional abuse that my mind was so messed up and I just couldn’t trust him, where was my time?? well my mom and dad start hearing the accusations and I begin to hear more and more that he just wasn’t in to me and didn’t want to be with me so we split up. 2 months has went by and he is now begging me to give him another chance and to try to work things out if I can give him that fresh start but I just don’t know what to say? all these accusations that were made, my parents hate him! how could it ever work,could they ever forgive him?? we are getting divorced no matter what, but what can I say to him. he calls me crying everyday, he sends money to help support our daughter, he isn’t drinking, nor is he trying to see anyone else right now. I also don’t know what was true, al these accusations of things he supposively said and did, I feel like how could he do this after so much I went through with him and tried to be there and stay with him. I just don’t know, so far all I told him is that right now we should be friends. since we spilt up I had to move back in with my parents and if they even had a clue I was talking to him they would probably disown me as their daughter and want us out! I can’t jeopardize a roof over my head right now nor my relationship with them… I’m just so confused and son’t know where to go from here???? he has made so many promises in the past and broke everyone of them!!!

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Ways to keep my 8 year old hydrated after going to Er for dehydration?

  • Posted on February 9, 2011 at 11:24 am

Ok, long story short my daughter has been having weird stomach cramps off and on for the last month. They come and go in waves. I called her Dr who thought it was her lactose intolerance flaring up ( she had probs with it when younger) and to watch her dairy intake. Which I did. I noticed she would get constipated, her stomach would cramp up and she’d be running to the bathroom to have a massive BM. So I figured it was all bowel probs. She never went to the Dr
Over the past few days her pains started getting worse and not even having a BM would relieve her. Well, yesterday afternoon I got a call from ehr daycare that she was sick…doubled over in pain, no fever, but couldn’t move and was dry heaving ( but never actually puked). I called her Dr and made an appointment for today before I realized how bad she was.
Once I picked her up and saw how bad she was I immediately rushed her to the ER thinking it was appendicitis. Still, no fever. ER gave her meds to help the nausea and ran tests and started a saline drip.
Dr came back, said all tests were negative, except her urine was extremely concentrated and she is very dehydrated. In fact, once the IV fluids kicked in it was like she was a whole other person. Instant energy and high spirits. He discharged her after giving the IV fluids to hydrate, with instructions to keep hydrated and a prescription for Pepcid to prevent ulcers due to all the bowel probs, etc.
I immedialty took her to the store upon being discharged to get the script filled ( 1 a day for 30 days), get soup for dinner and get her some Gatorade. She was doing better this morning, so I sent ehr to daycare, but talked to the director to say what happened and have them watch her extra close.
ER said if she doesn”t get btr or shows signs of getting bad again I have to take her back for more IV. My question is…do you know any ways to keep this from happening again? ER DR thinks she has been dehydrated the past month, causing the cramps and bowel issues and it just got way worse and out of hand. he literally told me I “brought her in just in time”.Another 24 hours coulda caused severe probs such as kidney issues.
I packed her with plenty of Gatorade to keep hydrated at daycare. But she goes to the local Y and they are outside and on field trips a lot. My dghtr drinks water, but DR said she sweats most of it out..causing the dehydration. How can I keep this from happening again, or even getting worse as today the temp is expected to reach 97 and rise each day from now. By the end of the week we are supposed to be in the 100′s and it’s only June.
I was told dehydration can literally shut ur body dwn and I dnt want to see that happen to her…she was in so much pain as it was yesterday. Today her face is swollen, esp around her left cheek and eye. She feels hungry, but gets a tummy ache after only a few bites. Is this from the dehydration and body trying to adjust? Someone please help! Any advice or ideas will be helpful. Please!
and sorry this was so long, I thought that letting you know how it started a month ago may be helpful to you to help answer.

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Please give some info and helpful answers…and keep an open mind.?

  • Posted on February 4, 2011 at 9:20 pm

My mother has been trying to take my daughter age 12 from me since she was born. I have had countless restraining orders, a 2 year order of protection for both me and my daughter and I have moved to several different states only for her to find me and cause more trouble. I have recreationaly used marijuana in the past (which I know is a “no, no”) However I have never used in the presence of my children. The last time I smoked I did not know at the time that I was pregnant and as soon as I discovered that I was I never touched it again. Unfortunately mother discovered where I lived a month later and began secretly meeting with my daughter at a community theater play that she was rehearsing for. Knowing my past history with marijuana she convinced my daughter that if she went to school and complained that I was a drug abuser that CPS would come and take her away and then she would be able to come and live with her. CPS came and removed my children from my home and requested a hair follicle test that we all know can go back up to three years. I began to cooperate with CPS for the return of my children who were placed with my Mother In law instead of my mother. When my mother discovered that she would not be getting or considered for custody of my kids she pressed the issue with the police to arrest me for harming/neglecting my unborn fetus. And I was. CPS did not push for this arrest, my mother did. My question is this. I never harmed or neglected my children. They were well taken care of. I never did any other drugs like crack, heroin, meth, ect. Nor did I ever knowingly smoke marijuana while pregnant. What the hell can I do to fight this??? What can I do to fight her. I know that this is not the end of her tyrant and vendetta against me. Please give me some advise.
Thanks RJ and JC’s Mommy…. I have been doing exactly what you advise. I also have a lawyer, a beautiful home, I don’t drink, smoke cigarettes, ect. I also have the finances to take care of them all. The only the CPS and the law have found me “guilty” of is a positive drug test for THC. I appreciate your understanding…it gives me strength.

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Why does my 1 year old keep throwing up her food?

  • Posted on December 31, 2010 at 3:23 am

My daughter is almost 13 months and she throws up a lot. She had an allergy testing when she was about 8 months and it came up with only a nut allergy, so obviously I don’t give her nuts. She uses Nutramigen formula because it helps her eczema. Is it normal for children her age to throw up( she does it about once a day sometimes once every few days) I thought it could be a milk allergy, but yesterday she drank some of my milkshake and nothing happened–and on the other hand, today she drank a little bit of milk and threw it all up. She has the same pattern with cheese, sometimes she throws it up and sometimes she doesnt. When she throws up it is NOT spitting up, she heaves untill its all out and she dry heaves a few more times–and everything comes out-even things she ate hours before. Has anyone had this kind of behavior and know anything about it?

No rude comments please–I report those.

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How to keep 17 month old from banging her head.?

  • Posted on November 6, 2010 at 3:22 am

I have a 17 month old foster daughter who bangs her head when she is mad REALLY bad! Her biological mom has a heroin problem so it is a good possibility that she was exposed in utero. No matter what I do she WILL NOT stop – I have tried redirecting her, telling her NO, ignoring her, etc. Just now she was really mad so I took her outside thinking she would like that – oh no, she sat down on the concrete & BANGED HER HEAD! I’m at my wits end with this one. I’ve raised a lot of kids but never had this issue before. HELP!

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Is it wrong for me to keep my 21/2 year old daughter from her father who has a gambling addiction?

  • Posted on October 26, 2010 at 10:21 pm

He pays his court ordered child support but we are already doing the thing where he does not show up because he is a t the casino. Sometimes he is snippy with her cuz he wants to be a t the casino.,then there are the times when he is in a bad mood cuz he lost all his money at the casino. When he does get her he never has any money for a ice cream cone or anything cuz he gave it all to the casino. He is 70,000 in debt from this and I just want to know when is enough ENOUGH!!!!

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