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My boyfriend Banged my head against the wall when drunk and kicked me?

  • Posted on February 4, 2011 at 9:23 pm

I went out with my boyfriend on Saturday night to the pub for his Birthday night out.There was a group of us including my older brother, my boyfriends cousin and lots of friend. He had lots to drink and was getting into a heated argument in the pub with someone who was out with us both over football. He was very loud at this point which is unusual for him as he is probably one of the most laid back guys i have ever met in day to day life. Me, my partner and his cousin ended up going into town and when we was waiting to get into a club he ended up nearly having a fight with another guy for no reason. The police had to pull him aside and have a word with him. We entered the club and he saw his other cousin in the club and started having ago at him for not coming out for his birthday, then i saw a guy i knew i was saying hi to him and he went mad at my left the club and left a horrible voice-mail message on my phone calling me a slag and that he was off to get our daughter from his mums. I panicked and jumped into another taxi stopping home first to see if he was there and he was stood outside smoking a cigarette. He then went up to the taxi driver that dropped me off shouting saying ‘ring through your radio and find out which taxi driver has stolen my mobile phone’ The taxi driver drove off because my boyfriend was being so aggressive.My boyfriend decided to chase the taxi down our street shooting a kicking the taxi. He then ran back to our house where i was and started calling me a slag, saying i have ruined his life and hes gonna take our daughter away. Because i got mad at what he said he banged my head against the wall repeatedly till i went all dizzy, he then kept leaving and coming back and each time he either kicked me on the floor banged my head against the wall again or spat at me. He then kept driving off in our family car and then when he come back and he went for me again i just said”Go on hit me you cant hurt me anymore than what you already have” and he just stood there laughing at me as tears poured down my cheeks. He has broken my house phone, broken my bin and threw this at me and also punched holes in our house walls and smashed glass everywhere. He woke up the next morning crying, begging and apologizing. I now don’t know what to do. He is now being moody with me because im in a mood and keeps saying “what more do you want me to do, ive said sorry so many times, i know ive acted wrong and i will stop drinking like that to prove to you. But it isn’t the first time he has attacked me when drunk but this time is definitely the worse. I have two children, my oldest daughter isn’t his just my youngest. i need help i don’t no what to do i have been with him for 3 years and he is normally so nice to me. He even said the day after that he will get help now hes saying he doesn’t need help but that he is just not gonna drink as much as that ever again

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I kicked my jobless boyfriend and his daughter out. They contributed absolutely no money to the household.?

  • Posted on January 27, 2011 at 2:17 pm

He has been unemployed for 2 months and is an alcoholic and the drinking is worse. His daughter is 18 and doesn’t work either. They acted like they owned the house, which they didn’t. He never hit me, but we never did things together. I know I did the right thing, just need some reinforcement, he was a good man and would have been better if he didn’t drink. Before he left he was crying and told me he loved, but obviously not enough, because he wasn’t giving me any money towards bills and was spending all of his on cigarettes and beer. Are there any good men left out there? I wasn’t asking for too much was I?
The daughter is 18 and goes to college from 9 am to 2 pm, so she can’t (or won’t) work.

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Just kicked out my alcoholic husband and it is really the hardest thing I have ever done. Tell me the days?

  • Posted on January 13, 2011 at 8:17 pm

get easier. I feel like I am the co-dependent addicted to the alcoholic. I have a 6 month old daughter and don’t feel that is a safe environment for her to be in. I have tried everything going to counseling, meeting with the pastor, going to AA meetings with him. He was even on Antabuse and drank on that. I just don’t know if it is low self-esteem, but I need advice on moving past this situation and on to a better more fulfilled life with my daughter. My father passed away when I was 8 years old to brain cancer, so I will be able to relate to her as far as growing up without a dad. However her dad has a choice and mine didn’t.
We have been married for 7 years and together 9 years. He wasn’t an alcoholic when we married, because I wouldn’t have even stepped foot into that relationship. He was deployed to Iraq in 05′ for 18 months. He drank when he got back, but will tell you himself that he hid the fact that he drank more over the past year. We have quite a history. I just need to know that this is the best decision, because I have done all I can do. I feel he has to want to change I can’t force him to.

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