When i was young my mother and father both left me and my two siblings to be raised with my grandparents because of drug addictions…when I was 14 (i think…8th grade) my mom (and later my dad) cleaned up and were suddenly back in my life trying to take on the role of mother and father when they had never been there before…at first i had a VERY hard time with my mom…fighting everyday, and i mean BIG fights, screaming, cussing, sometimes even hitting…after about 2 years we had worked through all our problems and get along fine now (like a normal mother/daughter) im 17 now, a senior
I think that i did it because i honestly hated my mom, felt that she had abanded me, like she didnt deserve to by my mother..
so to the question
has anyone else ever been through this? did you feel the same way? did you eventually end up getting along? if so, how long did it take you? i just want to see if anyone else has gone through the same thing…
was i fair in doing what i did? feeling the way i did?
