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why do i feel im being manipulated and bullied by a 14 year old and her alcoholic father?

  • Posted on January 9, 2011 at 6:17 am

don’t know how to explain this! i feel ridiculously stupid even asking advice…but here it goes!!! i am living with a 53 yr old alcoholic, his 14 year old bitchy daughter and literally and i mean literally psycho 17 year old son, now i can take mild abuse from the 17 year old because after all he has been sectioned a number of times and does have major issues. but when my alcoholic landlord starts calling me a fat slag and plenty more inappropriate words for sticking up for my boyfriends son (age 9) who was being picked on by the 14 year old, i started believing him…this was 2 weeks ago and i still cry over what he said to me and my boyfriends son, i have been looking for a new home since the argument and whilst i am looking i am still getting petty digs now and again such as towels have been hidden from me and jerry (my boyfriends son) then the 14 year old will call us dirty for not having a bath, how does she know we havnt had a bath….???? because she hid the towel’s and….so on…something like this happens every day, i know it all sound petty or even pathetic but it is dragging me down…what do i do when i live in a family house and the whole family hates me????? i am a fun, happy bubbly person…even my boyfriend is getting fed up with my moaning…but he isnt here when it happens!!!

please give me some advice on GETTING MY OWN BACK BABY!!!!

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my ex has turned and manipulated my 8 year old against me to the point that he doesnt return him to me?

  • Posted on August 28, 2010 at 4:32 pm

we broke up over a year ago after a 9 year abusive relationship inc alcoholism we had two children together my daughter is 4 my son 8 . He spends loads of money onmy son every week nothing on my daughter my son gets everything he wants whenever and my ex is constantly in his ear about how im the bad person and you dont have to see your mum .
we did have half each custody of my son but it was only done through mediation and this is the 6th time he has denied me my son .My daughter resides with me most of the time and he only has her 3 days per fortnight . im now going to court to win full custody of my daughter as his influence is not good on her and i also want morew custody of my son what are my chances .( he is not physically abusive but very mentally manipulating and controlling he has a male shovinist attitude towards women and therefore i dont want him to be like this to my daughter my son is so manipulated by him that i dont know whats best but i think taking him away from him completely may not be the right answers )
does any one have any idea what will happen in court ????

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