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Military Question; Child From A Past Marriage Considering Marrying Felon Boyfriend; Need Advice?

  • Posted on October 6, 2010 at 9:22 pm

Ok, this is a bit of a complicated situation. I’m considering joining the Military. However I have a few concerns.

1) I’m considering marrying my Long-time boyfriend. However, He is a felon (Before we get judgmental; got into a fight with long-time friend while intoxicated, friend called cops, State prosecuted- no weans, no drugs, etc). Will this affect my career options upon enlistment or any of the Military benefits?

2) I am a Divorcée with legally “joint” custody of my 4 year old daughter. She visits her father once or twice a week- Lives with me. Will there be any issues regarding claiming my daughter as a dependant and having her life with my BF and I if we choose to Marry? Also, if I get deployed, would it be an issue for my daughter to be sent to live with her father in regards to the benefits?

3) Which Branch has the best Living conditions/benefits for Families? I’m considering; Coast Guard, Air Force, Navy
ALSO- Can my BF live on base if we are married? I’m unsure if it is a possibilty simply Because he IS a felon
Thank you for those of you who actually answered the question at hand. As for the others, this is not a question of morality. Do not presume to know another’s situation or goals in life. You just make yourself seem ignorant by randomly posting your ignorant, negative, and entirely irrevelevant opinions here. If you have no factual information to share with me or others who may be seeking similar information, keep your opinions to yourself. Thank you.

So, back to the question [just to clarify], his past will not affect me obtaining any type of Military/federal security clearance now or in the future?
Thank you for those of you who actually answered the question at hand. As for the others, this is not a question of morality. Do not presume to know another’s situation or goals in life. You just make yourself seem ignorant by randomly posting your ignorant, negative, and entirely irrevelevant opinions here. If you have no factual information to share with me or others who may be seeking similar information, keep your opinions to yourself. Thank you.

So, back to the question [just to clarify], his past will not affect me obtaining any type of Military/federal security clearance now or in the future?

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