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Can the convict REALLY be her “soul mate?”?

  • Posted on April 18, 2011 at 10:20 pm

My 20 year old daughter is convinced that her “soulmate” is THE ONE for her. THE ONE she plans to spend the rest of her life with…..once, of course….he’s out of jail. He’s in for a variety of things….assaulting his common law wife, meth use, parole violation……etc. He’s in his 30′s. I can see what he sees in her….WHAT does she see in him. She has a toddler at home, 1 1/2 year old girl. Thoughts? We don’t want A-N-Y-T-H-I-N-G to do with him and don’t want her to have a relationship with him either. OH, she’s a recovering meth addict who has just started taking bipolar meds. Help.

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The Central Principle of the Law of Attraction

  • Posted on July 2, 2009 at 7:15 am

Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the last 10 years, it is likely that you are familiar with a quirky little television program known as The Oprah Show.

If you watch the program often, you may have seen an episode in which they discussed the Law of Attraction Because the theory is so cutting-edge, the principle of the Law of Attraction can seem somewhat difficult to grasp if you don’t know the whole story.

The concept at the heart of the Law of Attraction is that we can control what life gives us by controlling our thoughts. The ideas cover everything from getting the job you want to getting the mate you want. People in both the scientific and spiritual communities accept the Law of Attraction as fact.

If you talk to a Quantum Mechanics scientist, you can discover the true depth of what the Law of Attraction is getting at. Quantum Physics demonstrates that the whole world is made up of energy, and our minds — which are also energy — can manipulate the energy of objects and thoughts outside ourselves.

But as you know, everything good has a reverse, and this includes the Law of Attraction. If you want something, but think about being afraid of NOT getting it, then there is a good chance that what you want to avoid will actually happen. Experiencing what we want to avoid may not seem like a good thing, and it isn’t, but it does help prove the principle of the Law of Attraction. When the relationship ends, it may seem to that person that the Law of Attraction failed them. Their desire to stop the marriage from ending didn’t come true. But in fact, the Law of Attraction worked perfectly. It doesn’t necessarily bring us what we WANT. It brings us what we CONCENTRATE ON. The married spouse concentrated on not wanting to lose their partner, and thus they attracted losing their partner.

There is no difference between what you concentrate on wanting and what you concentrate on not wanting. Concentration is concentration. So the Law of Attraction brings you the thing you focused your thoughts on.

To create the life you want using the Law of Attraction, you must banish all fear and concentrate only on moving toward exactly what you want. If you do, then what you want will move toward you, as well.

Kirk James is a technical writer, researcher, software developer, and happily married man. Understanding the heart of the law of attraction started him on his road to success, but it wasn’t until he understood the 11 Forgotten Laws of Attraction that the world became his for the taking. Discover the secrets that finally turned on the light of attraction at http://www.forgotten-laws-of-attraction.com.

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If You Think You Know What Love Is, Think Again!

  • Posted on July 1, 2009 at 10:12 pm

Love and the heart are some of my favorite subjects.  I love to see love expressed at any opportunity and by anyone who happens to be expressing it.  I think we all are richer by the love that is released into the world by each and every one of us. 

 

Love is on my mind lately, as well as in my heart, because of a project I have been working on for sometime.  It involves putting people together, helping people find someone to like or love.  In doing so, various people wander into my gallery and chat about their lives and in many cases the love that is missing in their lives.  These are wonderful people who just might be out of the loop of people and the opportunity of finding a partner.  It might be after a previous partner has moved on in some way.  I try to cheer them up and inspire them to keep a look out, for surely there is someone who equals their desire for a friend or mate.

 

That’s just one kind of love — people to people.  And then yesterday Mia wandered in.  Mia is a golden doodle of such genuine sweetness no one could miss it.  She is calm and patient and she instinctively knows who loves her.  I love her.  She comes right over to me and leans up against my leg, in a manner that is never aggressive or demanding, waiting for me to rub her neck and tell how wonderful she is.  And I do because she is.  Her owner, Cathy, has taken Mia to be trained for hospital work.  She will be such a help to those who are shut-in and have little opportunity to give and receive love.

 

Then today a friend sent me an e-mail about an extraordinary Washington state man named Jeff who, through his love and efforts, salvaged an injured baby eagle 10 years ago.  He called her Freedom and spent weeks hand-feeding her and nursing this little bird back to life.  Because of her injuries he knew she could never fly, so he glove trained her and took her to do educational programs at schools. 

 

Then Jeff was diagnosed with non-hodgkins lymphoma and under went 8 rounds of chemo.  During that time he took Freedom out for walks.  She also showed up in his dreams, seeming to help him fight the cancer.  On the day he was given a clean bill of health he took Freedom out for another walk.  She somehow knew of his triumph.  He said she looked at him and wrapped both her wings around him to where he could feel her wings on his back.  Then she touched his nose with her beak and stared into his eyes.  That was a magic moment for him.

 

There were many other extraordinary healings involving this bird.  It all came from the love this man had for this bird and this bird’s tremendous appreciation in return.  It is a story that one might not believe, but I saw the picture that proved it — Jeff with his Freedom snuggled up against his chest.

 

Love in any form is love.  The more the better for the heart and everyone.

Sally Huss’ Happy Musings are syndicated by King Features for newspapers. She makes them available FREE to her members, along with previews of her downloadable self-help books (10 Great Thoughts on Love and 10 Great Thoughts on Friendship) through her website.

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