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How to Recognize the Signs of a Panic Attack

  • Posted on July 1, 2009 at 10:12 pm

Panic attack is one of the most distressing conditions that a person can experience. The signs of an impending panic attack can include the following: tremendous waves of fear, rapid heartbeat and increase in breathing rate. A fully fledged panic attack (within 1-2 minutes after the initial signs) will amplify the above symptoms, you chest starts to hurt, you are finding it difficult to breathe, you start feel dizzy and you sense that something terrible is about to happen and you are powerless against it.

Despite the uncomfortable sensations, you need to understand that panic attack is not an illness, it is a behavioral condition. Therefore, you cannot die or even be harmed by these symptoms. In fact, they are nothing more than your body’s natural reaction during periods of high anxiety. They are disturbing, painful and terrifying – but harmless!

The downside of these symptoms is that your body will feel tired and fatigue after the end of your panic episode. You may continue to feel muscles tension and stiffness in your chest, neck and shoulders. Your chest may continue to feel tight and you continue to be short of breath.

However, do not let panic attacks get the better of you and let it rule over your life. Most sufferers can be so traumatized by the incident that they start avoiding places of situation which they “think” or “feel” might trigger their panic attacks. This is a wrong approach as it will not stop your panic attacks in the slightest bit, as a matter of fact, it only serves to reinforce your fears and make you more susceptible to another panic attack.

In essence, remember that anxiety and panic attacks are nothing more than your body’s natural panic reaction. You are supposed to feel and react this way when you are in danger – it needs to be there. Panic attack is just a confused bodily sensation, there is no visible danger but your brain perceived otherwise and sends out a wrong signal – a mistake. Do not reinforce and continue to repeat that mistake by exaggerating the symptoms into MAJOR significance.

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Potty Training Girls – Is it Much Different Than Potty Training Boys?

  • Posted on July 1, 2009 at 9:05 pm

I’ve been potty training girls – and boys – for the last three decades I can tell you with great confidence that there is very little significant difference between the two. In fact, the approach is exactly the same.

For instance, you’ll need to make sure that your daughter is chronologically and developmentally ready. The American Academy of Pediatrics says that most normal, healthy toddlers are ready for potty training between 16 and 27 months (18 months is the average).

However, experts are also careful to point out that developmental maturity is a much better indicator of readiness than is chronological age.

Following are several signs that your daughter is ready.

She might:

* Recognize simple words and phrases such as, “pee pee,” “poop,” “potty,” etc. * Demonstrate awareness of her body parts (and others’) – especially genitals * Imitate others – especially Mom, Dad and siblings

* Dress or undress herself

* Express her need for independence – For instance, I knew my granddaughter, Sevy, was “there” as soon as she starting saying, “Sevy can do it!” many times a day. (As a matter of fact, she said it so often I told her that her name should be “Sevy-Can-Do-It”!

As I indicated, these are just a few of the many clues you’re likely to witness. However, if you have questions regarding this, I suggest that you consult with your pediatrician or take one of the many potty training assessment quizzes found on the Internet.

Once you’re sure that it time to potty train your little girl, you’ll want to arm yourself with a solid plan of action – in other words, a potty training system that will help you achieve your goal (no diapers!) successfully, joyfully, and completely.

Fortunately, achieving great results with any potty training system is not dependent on fancy potty chairs, toys, or dolls. They’re simply not necessary. However, there’s certainly no harm in providing a few extras, if you’d like.

Here are a few “nice-to-have” potty training tips specifically for little girls.

1. Outfit your daughter in dresses during potty training. Why pull down pants, undo buttons, or unzip zippers when your little one has to use the potty? Instead, use potty training as an opportunity to make your little girl feel pretty and make it easier on you to get them to the potty on time!

2. Allow your daughter to choose her “big girl” underwear. Why not celebrate this wonderful rite of passage with a shopping trip to your local department store for pretty underwear? Your little girl will love picking out her favorites and you’ll have a natural opportunity to talk with her about potty training. Everyone wins…

3. Consider purchasing potty books specifically developed for little girls. There are many great potty books and DVDs available on the Internet and in stores – some are quite general, while others are strictly for girls. Are these books mandatory? No – at least not in my opinion. However, if you’re set on purchasing one, it makes sense to buy one that comes closest to what your child will experience.

Bottom line – Potty training girls is identical in methodology to potty training boys. Yes, there are several minor differences, but the approach, support, timing, and need for consistency are all the same. I wish you great success and joyful potty training!

Mary E. Eule, BA, MS is a professional writer and researcher who has spent the last three decades helping parents potty train their children in 48 hours or less. She is the developer of the BRIEFS potty training system and author of the e-book, “The Official BRIEFS Potty Training Guide.” Visit her website: http://www.AskThePottyTrainer.com to purchase her e-book, download her free potty e-course or to get more free information about potty training girls.

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