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Fiancee is living in the past & still aching for her fiance who died! Advice, MATURE ANSWERS?

  • Posted on February 17, 2011 at 5:21 pm

Im a 29yo firefighter and have been in love with my now fiance who is 26 for 7years. She was 19 when i met her and she had a 3yr old daughter with her then fiance who was a musician. I knew i never had a chance with her at that point as she was crazy in love with her then fiance who she dated since she was 13, she honestly couldn’t stop expressing her love for him, basically everyone knew how in love they were with each other, 4yrs ago he died of a heroin overdose and she completely fell apart. We ended up getting together and 2yrs ago and we are now engaged and her 10yr old daughter is so lovely i love both them but she always talks of her daddy. My fiance sometimes looks like she is falling apart, she never grieved for him and everyone says part of her died with him. I turned on her the other day for living in the past when i wanted to talk about having a baby together & she told me she wasn’t ready, i felt horrible after. She told me that she loses what she loves most both her parents,brother,nephew,aunt have died. I also asked her if she thinks we would have been together if he hadn’t of died and she just looked through me and didn’t say anything and i ended up walking out. I love this woman with all my heart and i feel close to her daughter, i wont give up on her. How can i help her get over this completely?

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Fiancee is living in the past & still aching for her old fiance! Advice, MATURE ANSWERS?

  • Posted on February 16, 2011 at 7:21 pm

Im a 29yo firefighter and have been in love with my now fiance who is 26 for 7years. She was 19 when i met her and she had a 3yr old daughter with her then fiance who was a musician. I knew i never had a chance with her at that point as she was crazy in love with her then fiance who she dated since she was 13, she honestly couldn’t stop expressing her love for him, basically everyone knew how in love they were with each other, 4yrs ago he died of a heroin overdose and she completely fell apart. We ended up getting together and 2yrs ago and we are now engaged and her 10yr old daughter is so lovely i love both them but she always talks of her daddy. My fiance sometimes looks like she is falling apart, she never grieved for him and everyone says part of her died with him. I turned on her the other day for living in the past when i wanted to talk about having a baby together & she told me she wasn’t ready, i felt horrible after. She told me that she loses what she loves most both her parents,brother,nephew,aunt have died. I also asked her if she thinks we would have been together if he hadn’t of died and she just looked through me and didn’t say anything and i ended up walking out. I love this woman with all my heart and i feel close to her daughter, i wont give up on her. How can i help her get over this completely?

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Fiancee is living in the past & still aching for her old fiance! Advice, MATURE ANSWERS?

  • Posted on February 13, 2011 at 3:20 am

Im a 29yo firefighter and have been in love with my now fiance who is 26 for 7years. She was 19 when i met her and she had a 3yr old daughter with her then fiance who was a musician. I knew i never had a chance with her at that point as she was crazy in love with her then fiance who she dated since she was 13, she honestly couldn’t stop expressing her love for him, basically everyone knew how in love they were with each other, 4yrs ago he died of a heroin overdose and she completely fell apart. We ended up getting together and 2yrs ago and we are now engaged and her 10yr old daughter is so lovely i love both them but she always talks of her daddy. My fiance sometimes looks like she is falling apart, she never grieved for him and everyone says part of her died with him. I turned on her the other day for living in the past when i wanted to talk about having a baby together & she told me she wasn’t ready, i felt horrible after. She told me that she loses what she loves most both her parents,brother,nephew,aunt have died. I also asked her if she thinks we would have been together if he hadn’t of died and she just looked through me and didn’t say anything and i ended up walking out. I love this woman with all my heart and i feel close to her daughter, i wont give up on her. How can i help her get over this completely?

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My whole life has been torn apart! Advice, MATURE ANSWERS!?

  • Posted on January 15, 2011 at 5:21 pm

Im 26 and was engaged to my amazing fiance who i had been with since i was 13yrs old. I gave birth to our daughter when i was 16 and she was the apple of his eye. My fiance was a musician in a band and he would write me songs or write music for our daughter. I love him so much, every time i seen him i fell more in love with him more. Last year my world came crashing down when he died of a heroin overdose, I tried to make him stop many times but he always told me he could handle it and he never used around our daughter, It was only a few months before he died that he started using heroin and i hated him for doing it. I never grieved for him and everyone says part of me died with him, I feel like i have lost my will to live. I started to write poetry about him and it gives me an outlet, Our daughter always mentions her daddy and listens to his music. I lay awake at night staring into space or break down crying and i feel like there is a huge hole in my heart. When he passed i took his last name and now use it. I find it hard to see his parents but my daughter is still close to them. I feel like a ghost of a person i was when i was with him.I don’t even want to talk to my family or friends about what happened i feel like im in denial. The guy that always had a crush on me is really nice to me and lets me get things off my chest. He was the love of my life and i don’t know how to life without him.

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Should Parents Buy Their Son/Daughter An Alcoholic Drink When They’re 18 If They’re Mature For They’re Age?

  • Posted on July 30, 2010 at 2:18 am

my uncle was asking me about this, becuase he wanted to know if he should for his son.. should he?

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Should Parents Buy Their Son/Daughter An Alcoholic Drink When They’re 18 If They’re Mature For They’re Age?

  • Posted on January 15, 2010 at 10:06 am

my uncle was asking me about this, becuase he wanted to know if he should for his son.. should he?

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