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What’s wrong with Little Miss Sunshine?!?

  • Posted on January 4, 2011 at 5:21 pm

I came across someone talking negative about it. I;ve seen the movie so many times now && i love it! First, the grandfather who in fact is a heroin addict loves his grandchildern && never did the drug in front of them && in fact told Dwyane NOT to do it! Dwyane took the vow of silence to show just how serious he was about flying && that he was not going to give up his dream for it, even after he had found out he was colorblind. Frank was family, sure he may have been suicdal but he was still family! Are you telling me that if one of your family members became suicdal you would turn your back on them? Olive wanted to be in the beauty pagent! They didnt force her to be in it. Before she went on stage they even asked her if that truly was what she wanted to do, and she has said yes. If your daughter wanted to be in one and she was fat && not gorgous would you tell her no? It;s a movie, get over yourselvs! It just shows NO family is perfect. All our familys have our own problems.

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I love my wife, I hurt my wife, I need my wife, I miss my wife, when does the this all go away?

  • Posted on December 10, 2010 at 1:23 am

Hello, one year ago I married the prettiest lady in the county. I met her at a local church. At that time I was in a drug and alcohol treatment center. After my wife found out that I was in treatment she accepted me with open arms. She stated to me that my recovery is her recovery as well. going into the relationship I bagan to use again. My wife found out and thats when things started getting bad in our relationship. My wife supported me through this ordeal of relapsing, and she even started going to meetings with me. I did not show any appreciation for her standing behind me. I began to become verbally abusive to her and her kids. I had the ambition to start a lawn business and she supported me with that. She financed me two trucks in which I still drive, She open up credit cards in which I abused. she also emptied her retirement because of me. On one day four months ago, I came home intoxicated, and high, I hit my wife that night and went to jail. she took out a temporary restraing order out on me. that night was my bottom and I admitted myself back into rehab. Even after taking out the restraining order she still allowed me to come over to spend time with the kids.I took advantage of that and became more selfish and controlling. I would call her a hundred times a day, texting her constantly, never taking no for an answer. She finally told me that she needs her space and time to heal. I did not understand that, realizing that I am currently in recovery and I need time to heal myself. My wife is very pretty, smart, intelligent, loving, and most of all she is a true christian lady. she has a 15 year old daughter and son that is going to be 10 in about a week. I love those kids like they were mine. I would express to them the importance of their education, I talked to them about life issues like a real father would. I spent alot of quality time with them, taking them out on fridays and doing the things they desired to do. I love those kids and I miss them. My wife has been out of a job for almost 31/2 months, the only income she is receiving is unemployment. I have been helping her as much as I can, but I lost my job, now I can’nt help her like I was. We both go to the same church, but she told the officials that she has a temporary restraining order and that we should be attendig different services. now she has totally shut me out of her life. she don’nt answer my calls, she don’nt call me, she may e-mail me if it something importat or she is mad. She is very bitter towards me and I have become afraid of her. she still allows me to drive the two vehicles thats in her name and I still have a few of my things in the house. Today, I am doing good in recovery, I am deeply involved in the church, and I am growing in the word of god every day. I am doing it for me now.These are the questions I need help with, she is not telling me anything like she wants a divorce or what our future will be like, when wiill she talk to me again,? I am giving her space and time to heal, when do I know when to contact her? I Got a part time job this week, do I tell her? What do I do now? I have acknowledge my wrongs and I take full responsibility for what I did. I love her and she is the lady I want to be with for the rest of my life. No one knows how I feel besides God. I truly love her. I just want us to live a joyous and happy spirutual life now. And I want to rebuild what I tore down of hers. She is currently atending co-dependency classes and various other groups. When do i ask her will she attend marriage counseling with me after I finish with my individual counseling? At what point do I give up and file for divorce? Or do I just hang in there? Please help me, i need and want my family back.

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HELP!!! i miss my daughter! i need some input?

  • Posted on November 11, 2010 at 5:59 pm

I had Custody of my daughter for the first 2 years of her life.I was employed and went to school full time. Then me and her dad got divorced. I started drinking and going out . Also, I always had my mom watch my daughter while I was doing that She was keeping her alot. soon I was told by my family to sign some papers and trusting them I did without reading what I signed. but no matter if I would have signed or not I always left my daughter with my mom bc i knew I was going through a difficult time and had to get my life back together.so i signed.Also, they tried to get her Dad to sign the papers too and he said he was going too but the papers never went thru. I caught him smoking pot and he had an addiction to porn on the computer when we where married. Later on about 6 mos down the road I was told I had signed my full costody over!!!So now all i had was supervised visitation i could not believe it. I was only 22 at the time And my family failed to inform what I was signing they pressured me and pressured me and where almost demanding I sign saying my mom was going to “temporarily keep karlye. .Now I am about to be married I have a son who is 16 mos old I have raised him with my new fiance ever since he was born .l.my daughter comes to visit everyother weekend.the past 2 years I would get her 1 weekend and her dad would get her the other weekend and my mom her grandma kept her mon night tue and wed and thur. but she went to school tues and thurs. this has been going on 2 years. I feel like I have been left in the dark on a lot of things. I was adopted at birth so she is not my biological mother. My mom has a lot of money she even has her own Lawyer for my daughter !That she fails to ever mention what she says to that lawyer to me. she recently put my daughter in tTHERAPY .and now her dad is taking her to his apt to live basically. Me and my mom do not talk anymore we never really have since the whole situation or relationship is uncomfortable..I just miss my daughter and love her and I do not feel 2 or 3 days everyother week is enough time. And if you only knew what kind of person her dad really is!! What should I do? What are my chances ? what would a judge think about this? what is your overall opinion about this situation?

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Desperately in need of an excuse to a parent to miss school.?

  • Posted on October 11, 2010 at 9:19 pm

Please answer quickly, I need these answers by atleast 5:45am!

I normally don’t miss school. Im usually just late because I miss the bus or something. I haven’t even missed school all year actually. But I have issues with procastination.. its really becoming quite a problem. I’m going to talk to my guidance counselor next week because (im a freshman in high school now) i’ve had it since like 5th grade and it just seems to be escalating. it affects my grades.. i mean i could have had a 97-98 in 2 classes but because of procastination i got a 94 and an 88.

but please don’t answer that. I have to miss because I have 2 big projects, one that is already late, and another due today that I totally didn’t do. I have school in 2 hours from now and I wasted all of yesterday and I even woke up at 2am to do hw but once again i procastinate so nothing is done. and then i also dont have my math homework done so im just screwed all over and because this is Friday it would be perfect to go back to normal again over the weekend. other than that we arent doing anything big in class so im not too worried about that.

please i need excuses! i have no idea what to do. im really tired since i’ve been sleeping for 4-5 hours and not getting much done all week. but i’ve slept in before and it just pisses my mom off and she eventually drives me back to school. so i cant do that. i guess i could fake a headache or stomachache but idk how to do that right. i just had my period so unfortunately i cant do that either.

HELP! for a worthy cause. im not sure if i should just tell her the truth. she’d probs get pretty mad at me.. she knows i procastinate but idk if she’d want me to go to school and face the consequences or want to help her daughter not fail in school! ughhhh.

Its so annoying how i procastinate. like theres so much to do online. when i come back from school im stressed and usually tired from not sleeping much so I either fall asleep and wake up early and not do much, or I release stress by binge eating, watching tv, and going online. its horrible and is really starting to affect my life and i hate it. i’ve gotten a packet on how to manage time better but it didnt do squat. i suck at doing schedules like “do this from 7-8pm” too

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