2 years ago, my adoptive daughter who was 17 at the time expressed her desire to find her biological parents. Understanding, I aided her in her search and, we tracked her mother down. Her father had long since passed due to drug addiction. My daughter also discovered she has a younger half-brother. A year following the search, her mother and, brother moved out towards us.
As my daughter went off to college, I began to date her biological mother. We have been together for the last year and, I am thinking this may be the best relationship I have been in since my wife and, my daughter’s adoptive mother passed away. Though my daughter has stated she is fine with it, it is obvious that when she is here, she is sometimes uncomfortable.
I have recently been thinking of asking her mother and, her son to move in but, I’m worried my daughter will be to weirded out by it, she won;t want to come home during breaks from college. We’ve had talks about it but, I don;t want to be one of those parents who becomes involved with someone despite their child’s reservations.
Is this whole relationship, wrong? In the beginning I thought it was a bad idea but, fell in love. I’m uncertain on how to proceed. It;s actually keeping me up.
