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need help quick with child custody issue?

  • Posted on May 9, 2011 at 1:20 am

anyone know a quick for sure way i can get my 3yr old daughter removed from mothers custody?she is many diffrent me staying the night at her home my daughter tells me about it.she uses meth around child,she mentaly and physical abuses her and tells her to tell me she hates me and im friggin stupid,dumb,mean and so on.ive got tape recordings of child saying all this got pics of abuse and been to dss,cps,police and had lawer and they let her walk on 3 diffrent felony neglect and abuse charges!no one will take any action agianst her for the terrible things my child is going through i think she is a informant for the police and they protect her plz someone tell me something i can do to get my child out of there and to my saftey!plz anyone?godbless you

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me and my friend need some help convincing her sister?

  • Posted on May 8, 2011 at 2:21 am

my friend Lauren and i are really trying to convince her sister Amanda not to name her daughter Crystal as her boyfriends last name is Meeth and her daughters name would be Crystal Meeth, would sounds and looks like Crystal Meth. She says she doesnt want to name her daughter anything else because ever since she was a little girl she has wanted to name her daughter Crystal if she had a girl and her son Kendall if she had a boy. What should we do? Her child will go through hell in school

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I’m a parent and i need help..with my daughter plz help?

  • Posted on April 26, 2011 at 1:23 pm

my daughter just got ungrounded from drivin with teenagers and then right after that she drove with them agian and went to a party and got drunk now she has been grounded for 3 weeks and get to do some stuff she relized what she did was wronge and she promised she wouldnt drink anymore. it is summer for her and she is going crazy becuz she wants to do stuff with her friends and she says im making her life horrible all i want to do is ungrounded so i can trust her agian but i dont no for sure if i want to.also i havent told her when she is al that way ungrounded now she gets to do somethings with friends but only 1 timea week and cant spend the night anywere. i was never that stricked on her and now that i am she is going crazy alot of her attidute has changed.she used to be able to tell me stuff but now she is geting father and father away and she is acting diff she used to never be all upset now she crys at least evryother day and says things she dont mean i dont no wat to do anymore

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Need some help please?

  • Posted on April 25, 2011 at 3:23 pm

I asked this question earlier and only got one question that was helpful at all:
Last night my husband and I went to bed at around 10. We said good night to our 16 year old daughter Tory, who was watching TV in her room and was dressed for bed – pajama pants, camisole.
This morning I got up at about 6. I went to use the bathroom and Tory was lying on the floor next to the toilet, which was full of vomit. She woke up and was clearly hungover. She kept insisting that she was sick and had gotten up in the night to puke, which I’d like to believe…except that she was dressed for going out. Makeup, jeans, heels, all that jazz. I also checked the cars and one of them has a scrape on the side that certainly wasn’t there before and one of the mirrors is missing. My husband had to go into work today, so I told her she needs to stay in the house while I figured out what to do. She tried to take the car and leave, but I told her I’d have the cops pick her up and it’s too far to town for her to walk anywhere, so she’s sulking in her room with the door locked. I tried to talk to her and figure out what happened last night (beyond the obvious) but she won’t say anything or unlock the door. Does anyone have any ideas on what to do now? She does deserve to be punished (underage drinking, driving drunk, lying about it, sneaking out), but I also want to find out what happened.
It’s been a while now, and I’ve been knocking on her door but she’s not answering. I’m considering going into her room through the window. Please help!

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I’m a parent and i need help..with my daughter plz help?

  • Posted on April 24, 2011 at 5:23 pm

my daughter just got ungrounded from drivin with teenagers and then right after that she drove with them agian and went to a party and got drunk now she has been grounded for 3 weeks and get to do some stuff she relized what she did was wronge and she promised she wouldnt drink anymore. it is summer for her and she is going crazy becuz she wants to do stuff with her friends and she says im making her life horrible all i want to do is ungrounded so i can trust her agian but i dont no for sure if i want to.also i havent told her when she is al that way ungrounded now she gets to do somethings with friends but only 1 timea week and cant spend the night anywere. i was never that stricked on her and now that i am she is going crazy alot of her attidute has changed.she used to be able to tell me stuff but now she is geting father and father away and she is acting diff she used to never be all upset now she crys at least evryother day and says things she dont mean i dont no wat to do anymore

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my mom is an alcoholic.. i had a talk with her and she didn’t hear me, do i need to do anything else?

  • Posted on April 21, 2011 at 1:23 am

if you want back story here is my last question, it’s kinda long.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aq6Ox6230N0Ktt9pTrc5ll3sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091229195801AASrNVv

anyways i talked to her about the problems her drinking has caused.
poor judgment, being at the bar instead of with family on holidays, the poor example it sets for my kids…

she blamed me of course. she said i was judging her and i have no place to judge her for what she does on her free time. she even said my husband and i drink in front of our kids like on thanksgiving. well yeah, i had a glass of wine. but she spent thanksgiving at the bar and didn’t show up until hours after the meal… big difference. i am somewhat familiar with an alcoholic deflecting onto others.. she blamed everyone but herself, talked bad about everyone in my husband’s family (who by the way are wonderful people) so she didn’t look so bad… and then proceeded to ask for my daughter this weekend. -this was the basis of this talk in the first place. she can’t have either of my kids like this..

so from any of your experience, is there anything else i can or should do to make myself clear to her or is it a lost cause? part of me telling her about her problem was also so i could absolve myself of any guilt if/when she kills someone while driving drunk.. so should i just leave it at that and wait for her to come to her senses someday before i talk to her again? i’m just not sure, i feel like i owe her something, but at the same time i know i owe her nothing and that she will make her own bed.. i just don’t know.. my husband is ready to write her off. i don’t blame him and i almost agree. i just want to know i have done all i could.
your experience with an alcoholic is appreciated. thank you.

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Getting a divorce and need some financial advice?

  • Posted on April 20, 2011 at 8:20 pm

He is cheating on me with a meth addict. We have a young daughter.

I have him nailed to the wall. BUT!!!

I’m the stay at home mom who never had anything in her name, no credit, no job…nothing.

He is fixing to file. If I beat him to the punch, I come off better.

I can’t afford to pay the startup attorney fees.

I will be starting a job soon, but not soon enough.

He has taken all things of value out of the home minus a few odds and ends that, when pawned/sold, would bring about $600-$800 *IF* I’m lucky.

I need $2000 for the attorney and $1000 for the private investigator. How does one go about doing this?

There is no one I can borrow from. I have no collateral. Nothing.

There’s no hope for me, is there??? :(

I will answer any questions and add info where necessary, so please check back in and try to help me.
I tried legal aide and they said they are too busy to take my case but could help me in a couple of months. We are in a small town and he has the best lawyer on retainer, but hasn’t filed for separation or anything.

I have no solid proof because his friends and family are helping hide what he is doing.

He was born and raised here and knows everyone.

The only lawyer I could find within a reasonable distance says he needs a start up fee and that my ex would have to pay the rest.

He can guarantee that.

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my mom is an alcoholic.. i had a talk with her and she didn’t hear me, do i need to do anything else?

  • Posted on April 20, 2011 at 3:22 am

if you want back story here is my last question, it’s kinda long.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aq6Ox6230N0Ktt9pTrc5ll3sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091229195801AASrNVv

anyways i talked to her about the problems her drinking has caused.
poor judgment, being at the bar instead of with family on holidays, the poor example it sets for my kids…

she blamed me of course. she said i was judging her and i have no place to judge her for what she does on her free time. she even said my husband and i drink in front of our kids like on thanksgiving. well yeah, i had a glass of wine. but she spent thanksgiving at the bar and didn’t show up until hours after the meal… big difference. i am somewhat familiar with an alcoholic deflecting onto others.. she blamed everyone but herself, talked bad about everyone in my husband’s family (who by the way are wonderful people) so she didn’t look so bad… and then proceeded to ask for my daughter this weekend. -this was the basis of this talk in the first place. she can’t have either of my kids like this..

so from any of your experience, is there anything else i can or should do to make myself clear to her or is it a lost cause? part of me telling her about her problem was also so i could absolve myself of any guilt if/when she kills someone while driving drunk.. so should i just leave it at that and wait for her to come to her senses someday before i talk to her again? i’m just not sure, i feel like i owe her something, but at the same time i know i owe her nothing and that she will make her own bed.. i just don’t know.. my husband is ready to write her off. i don’t blame him and i almost agree. i just want to know i have done all i could.
your experience with an alcoholic is appreciated. thank you.

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I need to know what is considered child abuse?

  • Posted on April 19, 2011 at 5:21 am

‘My boyfriend introduced you to a guy who was married but had another female companion living with them in which they share the same bed with and an 8 month old daughter who sees this sexual acts taken place along with the child’s father who smoke marijuana and heroin, he also has a photo studio set up in which he invites different women for sex and pornography..is that considered child endangerment and abuse? We suspect the other woman may be a sex offender, she was spotted touching the child a few times, when I tried talking to the mother about ti she told me to mind my business. I live in Rochester NY where cops don’t care and CPS is ran by humans services which isn’t considered competent Child services it is run by the same Office that does welfare assistance and you don;t need a degree in child care to do this type of work. What can I do?
Okay I live in Rochester,NY where CPS in not doing it’s job correctly. I have called for a woman who did not clean up her house there were moldy food containers on the floor her children smelled terribly she lived in a roached infested environment. Guess what? CPS did not do anything for those poor kids. They looked the other way. So I highly doubt they will do anything about this.I’m so scared I did send an email. I even sent pictures. The child looks healthy but the father was kicked out of college for fondling another student he tried groping my breast once. My boyfriend moved his hand away. People in this town are strange and cold and distant. It is always cloudy the crime rate is ridiculous here. I want to post a picture on here that to me looks disgusting it doesn’t look like fatherly love. http://i66.photobucket.com/albums/h255/frankibus/unaturallookpeter.jpg

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Is this funny or am I in need of a funny movie?

  • Posted on April 7, 2011 at 1:21 pm

WALMART HAS EVERY THING

One day, in line at the company cafeteria, Joe says to Mike behind him,

“My elbow hurts like hell. I guess I’d better see a doctor.”

“Listen, you don’t have to spend that kind of money,” Mike replies.

“There’s a diagnostic computer down at Wal-Mart. Just give it a urine

sample and the computer will tell you what’s wrong and what to do about

it.

It takes ten seconds and costs ten dollars . . . A lot cheaper than a doctor.”

So, Joe deposits a urine sample in a small jar and takes it to Wal-Mart.

He deposits ten dollars, and the computer lights up and asks for the urine

sample.

He pours the sample into the slot and waits.

Ten seconds later, the computer ejects a printout:

“You have tennis elbow. Soak your arm in warm water and avoid heavy

activity. It will improve in two weeks.
Thank you for shopping @ Wal-Mart.”

That evening, while thinking how amazing this new technology was, Joe began wondering if the computer could be fooled.

He mixed some tap water, a stool sample from his dog, urine samples from

his wife and daughter, and a sperm sample for good measure.

Joe hurries back to Wal-Mart, eager to check the results. He deposits ten

dollars, pours in his concoction, and awaits the results.

The computer prints the following:

1. Your tap water is too hard. Get a water softener. (Aisle 9)

2. Your dog has ringworm. Bathe him with anti-fungal shampoo. (Aisle 7)

3. Your daughter has a cocaine habit. Get her into rehab.

4. Your wife is pregnant. And has Twins. They aren’t yours. Get a lawyer.

5. If you don’t stop playing with yourself, your elbow will never get

better!

Thank you for shopping @ Wal-Mart

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