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Teens and drugs–Parental advice needed?

  • Posted on April 23, 2011 at 7:21 pm

Okay, my daughter is taking drugs. She’s only 16. I didn’t realize it until it got bad enough. I found out after finding it in her car. It would have been a lot easier to deal with pot or acid. I did that shot in the early eighties. I know that she’s not addicted to the drugs she on. She has taking and experimented with different kinds she confessed after she denied it. I know I’m still going to have face her with consequences for her actions. So a liitle help with ways to do so. Is much appreciated.

I don’t know if you need to know the drugs but here itt started off with weed which I don’t think is all that bad, heroin ice acid cocaine mushrooms.

She confessed to drinking at parties I didn’t even ask her that… So advice please

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Cps shows up to our house drug tested my wife and i they closed the ivestigation but said we needed to get ?

  • Posted on January 4, 2011 at 1:21 pm

Drug and alcohol abuse after testing positive for cocaine and marijuana will they take my daughter away if i don’t comply even after staying clean

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Advice needed; how do I get along with my impossible neighbours over the holidays?

  • Posted on September 14, 2010 at 4:17 am

I am so fed up with the trashy neighbours I have in my trailer park; they are the most despicable, Christmas-hating bunch around! It isn’t easy being a welfare mom in this economy, and I just want to make sure that my kids have a good Christmas, but it isn’t easy with this bunch, let me tell ya!

For instance, Mrs. Clarkson is all up in arms because my 16 year-old, Britney Sue, was in the back of her husband’s pickup kissing said husband. There was MISTLETOE in the truck bed, for cryin’ out loud! You would think that Mrs. Clarkson would understand this, and besides, if her husband chose to give my daughter fifty bucks towards her massage-therapist college fund in the middle of her french-kissing him, what business is it of hers? She seems to want to paint my daughter as some sort of “bad girl” or something. Get a life, lady!

My twins, Buford and Buford #2, have caught hell from these Scrooges, too. How in the hell are they supposed to understand that Santa didn’t decide to leave their presents under the Garcia’s Christmas tree? It makes sense, given that there really isn’t room for presents under our beer can tree. Besides, they are just kids! They don’t know any better! By the way, I do NOT appreciate Mr. Garcia telling them there is no such thing as Santa; their poor, 14 year-old hearts are broken! I am going to check out if I can sue Mr. Garcia for mental stress–I’ve had to binge on the malt liquor since this mess began. Maybe I can use the religious angle and play up that my civil rights were violated; who’s to say we don’t worship St. Nicholas? As far as I’m concerned, baby Jesus rode to heaven in a sleigh pulled by reindeer!

Beyond this, I STILL haven’t gotten my pay-off check from my slip-and-fall at WalMart last week. Seems that they think it looks suspicious to have this happen every year at the same time four years running. You would think that one of my neighbours would step forward to vouch for my character, but no one is putting themselves out. I guess they are all upset over my roast possum feast from last year, like it’s my fault that that stupid possum had rabies. How was I to know? It looked healthy when my station wagon backed over it, and no one complained when they were eating it, but the minute Sissy Ellen Roundhouser starts foaming at the mouth, they all start calling for my head. If you ask me, all those shots in the stomach at the hospital added to their Christmas last year; not one of those bastards turned down the free hospital pudding, I noticed.

Anyway, you can see that I’m in a bad situation with such grinches as these for neighbours. What can I do to survive this holiday season and not end up bare-knuckling it on the steps of the church with a few of them like happened at the Christmas Eve service in 2006? I’d really appreciate any advice; despite having my Christmas lights on the trailer since Labour Day weekend, I just don’t feel in the holiday spirit. :(
Louis, there are no misspellings–I use the King’s English–and the paragraphs are fine.

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Pregnant addict daughter – help needed to find detox facility?

  • Posted on August 19, 2010 at 1:22 am

My 21 year old daughter is 7 weeks pregnant (1st child) and a herion addict. She has gone through detox several times in the past but never able to stay clean.
She wants to keep the baby but doesn’t know where to turn for help with her pregnancy in regards to the drug abuse (mainlining). Does anyone have suggestions? We live in IL, she has no job, insurance, etc.

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Could my teenage daughter be using heroin?? advice needed asap.?

  • Posted on July 26, 2010 at 11:21 am

My daughter is 16 years old. I have reason to believe she is using drugs.

She admitted to me she had been smoking marijuana and that she hasn’t done it in 2 months, i asked her to stop as i didnt want her getting hooked on things like crack or heroin.

Anyway i’ve found clingfilm and foil in her purse, also my old mobile phone has gone missing, also money is going missing. she went out the other day to sell some of her dvds (she hardly has any left now)

She then told me she was stayin at her friends house anyway 3 days went by and i hadn’t seen her so i rang the friend she was supposed to be with and he said he hadn’t seen her in months. This led to me to believe she was with a guy i told her to stay away from as he is a well known heroin addict. I asked her if she was with him she denied it and told me she was with her second cousin stayin there in his new flat.. i also found this to be a lie cause i found out where he lived and it wasn’t anywhere near where she said.

Her eating isn’t the same she either doesn’t eat at all or she will havea binge and eat alot at one time. she is very pale and getting quite alot of spots (acne) she is also coughin and spitting alot.

Anybody in our family refuse to give her money, i know if i ask her she will not admit to anything, i know she is lying about more or less everything, also her attitude towards me is getting very bad she has no respect.

What do i do… do you think she may be using, heroin or crack cocaine..maybe both..?? Please help i don’t know what to do anymore.

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Why My Family Needed a Water Filtration System: a True Life Experience

  • Posted on January 8, 2010 at 4:20 pm

My family needed a water filtration system for our home.  The chlorine content that the treatment facility says is “safe” makes our drinking water taste terrible.  My wife went to make spaghetti and found that yellow residue was all over the bottom of the pot. 

I thought she was exaggerating, but you could see the yellow dust sink to the bottom as the water heated up.  She threw it out and cooked something else that night.  I put off going to the store that night.  It was late and I didn’t think that the need for a water filtration system was that severe.  I definitely thought it was safe for the dogs. 

I went ahead and filled up their bowls and went to bed. During our morning walk, much to my dismay I found that all three of them had developed diarrhea and there was a distinctly yellow color to it, so it was pretty easy to identify the problem.

So, I went to the store and bought that water filtration system that screws on to the kitchen faucet.  After a couple of days, it started leaking.  I’m pretty handy, so I know that I installed the thing correctly.  By the end of the week, water was spraying everywhere whenever we tried to use it.  The dogs had gotten better, so we decided to give them bottled until I could do a little research and find a better quality water filtration system.

In the meantime, my daughter’s asthma got worse.  She would have several attacks every day, but only at home.  During an after hours visit to her pediatrician, I read in a health magazine that chlorine vapors trigger asthma attacks and that the effects are worst in the bathroom during a shower, but that the vapor can linger in the house throughout the day.  This added to my dilemma.  I didn’t even know that there was such a thing as a shower head water filtration system.

Through the internet, I found performance comparison charts and learned about things like certifications for the in home water filtration system.  It’s purely voluntary, but companies can have their products evaluate by independent laboratories and post the results. 

I also learned that in addition to chlorine, there are thousands of other chemicals to worry about, along with things like cysts.  I had to look it up.  It refers to the “oocyst” stage of microscopic organisms.  During that stage, they are resistant to even chlorine disinfection.  So, the stuff that was making my daughter and my dogs sick wasn’t even protecting us from parasites or bacterial infections.

I found that there was a water filtration system for the whole house that could better protect my family’s health.  Since my wife and daughter both like to take baths, rather than showers, I thought it was a good investment.

 
Just wanted to share my story, in case you need a water filtration system, remember to do a little research first.  There are really good ones and really bad ones, so you really have to be careful. 

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Please, your opinion is needed. Daughter not peeing as much as she used to?

  • Posted on January 5, 2010 at 12:07 am

I’m sorry to ask this question again, but I need more opinions please.

I started noticing couple of weeks ago that my daughter sometimes in 1 day she only makes 2 or 3 pee pee. Some days her diaper stays on for more than 7 hours during the day and dry.

How should I explain this? should I be concerned? there are no other symptoms.

She will be 2 in August, could it be that children start making less pee pee when they get older.

Please help.

She does drink plenty of fluids especially now it is summer and it is too hot she keeps asking for water.

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