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Noticing Nature In The Now

  • Posted on July 1, 2009 at 10:12 pm

When did you take the time to notice how much your immediate environment impacts upon your sense of well-being? Most of us are too busy these days to notice the things which are vitally important to our equilibrium. And so it is no wonder that so many people suffer from stress and anxiety, and lack a feeling of balance and groundedness. We do things on a “need to do” basis and yet do not consider what should be our most basic needs.

We do not, after all, live in a “vacuum”. We are constantly affected by a steady stream of sensory input. We see, hear, smell, taste and feel our way through life, and our minds are so quick and bright that they make sense of this input in a fraction of a second. Without realizing it our energy levels are affected by every tiny little bit of this sensory perception. Each sound vibrates with its own frequency of energy, and we receive energy signals from all around us.

If you spend a lot of time in a hectic or negative environment you will be picking up on this energy and will eventual adjust to resonate with it. It is not surprising that it becomes easy to feel “out of sync” or “out of kilter”. Your own energy is in effect being pushed off balance, away from your norm, away from a feeling of equilibrium. You can feel like a small sailing boat being buffeted by a storm. The choices one has when caught in a storm are limited; you could take the sail down and ride the storm out, or perhaps your boat has a powerful engine which can take you safely back to shore, or perhaps you no longer have the presence of mind to think straight and thus leave your sails up…

Everyone needs balance and internally craves to be in a place where they can feel comfortable and grounded. Yes, we need to step outside our comfort zones in order to grow and develop. But was also need to be able to return to a feeling of peace and tranquility. Our energy needs to be replenished from time to time, and an easy way in which to do this is to take a walk in beautiful surroundings, in the fresh air, amongst growing plants, flowers and trees. The energy from these natural growing and flourishing leaves and petals will reach out to you and you will instinctively resonate with it. And it’s not only the energy from the plants that you will benefit from, it’s the quality of natural light from being outside, the feeling of sunlight on your skin, the peaceful way in which water moves to and fro. All of this has an inevitable power to relax and relieve your stresses and strains.

The simple fact is that the things which are natural in our environment have the power to recharge our energy and revive us. Things which are unnatural can never quite imitate this natural reaction. If you are feeling “out of sorts” you can try a simple thing – go for a walk, somewhere in the countryside if at all possible, and intentionally notice everything around you. Take each of your senses in turn and notice what comes into your awareness. Really notice every moment – be “in the now”. In doing this you are achieving more than you may think was possible. Firstly, you are directing your focus upon nature and in doing so you will feel greater impact from the energy this provides. And secondly, as your attention is absorbed “in the now” you are effectively distracting yourself from worries, tensions or fears.

It may take some effort on your part to keep your attention focused in the now, but you will get better with practice. You can also obtain hypnosis downloads which will speed up this process and make it more and more automatic for you. Another benefit of hypnosis downloads is that you can mentally “go for a walk” when you are unable to do so in physical reality. Hypnosis is a state which allows greater ability to imagine things and you can visualize a perfect natural landscape and in effect create a “mental holiday” for yourself. Hypnosis is a state of relaxation and allows you to take a step back, enabling you to get back “in sync” and bring balance back into your life.

Roseanna Leaton, specialist in hypnosis downloads for your well-being.

With a degree in psychology and qualifications in hypnotherapy, NLP and sports psychology, Roseanna Leaton is one of the leading practitioners of self-improvement. You can get a free hypnosis download from http://www.RoseannaLeaton.com and peruse her extensive library of hypnosis downloads

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Self Improvement Solutions – 5 Tips For Maintaining Your Self Esteem

  • Posted on July 1, 2009 at 7:56 pm

Self esteem can be very hard to build and once you have it, it can be a burden to maintain. Everyday life will test your self-esteem; see how much you can take before it finally gets through to you. Never let it get the best of you and never let it destroy you because once you lose all self esteem, you’re back to square one and the journey will be long to regain you esteem. In this article discover 5 things you should avoid to keep your esteem high.

1 – Negative Environment
This is the place where non – appreciative people thrive. Everyone will have one of these in their life may it be work, school or even at home. Any work you do is not appreciated even if you worked yourself to the bone. This environment will have you feeling bad so avoid it at all costs as it will ruin your self-esteem.

2 – Other People’s Behaviour
If someone is in a bad mood leave them alone. People who are in bad moods are most likely to attack if provoked. Anyone that sends out a bad vibe you should immediately back off from as it may affect you too or they could attack (verbally) denting your esteem.

3 – Changing Environment
This isn’t avoidable but it is something you should look out for. Sometime in your life you will experience a change may that be house, school, job or even relationships. Changes will be hard to adjust to and some big changes can seriously hurt your self-esteem (a change to a lower paid job because you weren’t as good at your last one) but remember that with change you can easily adapt to it.

4 – Past Experience
This is a major self-esteem crusher. Some things happen in the past and every now and then we will rethink these events and some will even cry. A good example and probably most common past experience that would crush you would be a divorce from your parent (you feel you caused it) or your parents leaving you for adoption. Sure the past can come back to haunt us, but the past is the past and you have to put that behind you and think about the future.

5 – Negative World View
The world is full of negativity; war, famine, poverty…All this can hurt you as you know you can’t do anything to help but you can. You may donate clothes, food or even money to help people who need it more and you are guaranteed to get a major boost of esteem.

Don’t get knocked on your feet by people who are trying to pull you down. We are given our options and it is us who choose which one =s to take. Follow this guide to make sure that you don’t get pulled down by the world and so that you can keep on top.

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