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newly single mother would love some advice?

  • Posted on November 15, 2010 at 7:21 am

my husband has shows MAJOR signs of bipolar schizophrenia. he mumbles to himself, he’s EXTREMELY paranoid, he has the extreme highs and lows of bipolar, he is very promiscuous, the list just goes onn and onn. with all of this on and off for 6 years he has been an alcoholic and has a major problem with oxycontin and we suspect heroin. when he doesn’t get the oxycontin he drinks rum by the gallons. i’ve known him for six years but he claimed and hid very well that he was clean and sober for over a year ( or i wouldn’t have even gotten with him in the first place). he relapsed 2 times that i know of. long story short i got pregnant and we got married and about 2 months in money started missing jewelry i had purchased for him started missing i started noticing the mumbling to himself and the pacing and the constantly having to touch things and position things a million times. he constantly lied before we got married about where he was going and what he was doing. he went through all of the money we had for baby things and every day was just a constant fight that he would start so he could leave. i warned him multiple times if it he kept relapsing i would leave him and he did exactly that full throttle. if anyone going through or has gone through the same thing? any advice? im not a crazy person that would keep their child away from them but im genuinely scared for my daughters safety.
its possible to have bipolar schiziphrenia. they just have multiple symptoms of different things
and yes i knew it was drugs i warned him if he did drugs again i would leave him but he still chose to do it and i havnt had the baby yet lol so i cant really talk to her as of yet which is what scares the heck out of me because she isnt old enough to speak up fo rherself.
thank you so much the last 2 people for those comments they truly helped me a lot. especially the last one. this is extremely hard for me but im extremely fortunate to have my family backing me in this and being extremely supportive and am very blessed and it feels good to hear from other people that im truly doing the right thing. he says he doesnt want to go to rehab because he doesnt want to tarnish his name…. daddys a big shot at the company that he works at… it just crushes me to find out that he was cheating and stealing and everything.

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