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Older parent……He don’t want my child?

  • Posted on January 3, 2010 at 4:02 am

I am a older parent. I had my daughter really late in life. My other children are grown and gone. One has two girls. My daughter is two. Her dad hid a crack addiction. I knew nothing about that drug. So I left when she was a baby. My other children’s dad just passed away. I started dating the man of my dreams. The problem is he is 8yrs older than I . He will retire in a few years. He told me this morning he does not want a young child in his life. That he is at the age he can do what he wants and he was looking for a woman to do things with him. But he did fall for me. He has he wants to give it time and see if he can adjust to having a small child around. But he also says he doubts it. So I eneded it with him. Now he is mad and saying I am a jerk for doing that. That he still would like to see me and we can remain friends. Friend sis not what I guess I want. I don’t blame him for how he feels. But it hurts alot. But I do have my daughter to raise. She is my life right now. But I do wish I can find someone to share my life with. Do I still see him and just be friends. Or let him go on and find a woman he can have fun with. I am 47 he 55.

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