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I think my mum’s boyfriend is a pedophile?

  • Posted on November 20, 2010 at 7:23 pm

My mum has been dating this guy for about 15 months now, he lives with us, just him, although he does have 2 kids of his own. A girl, 28, and a boy, 26. The girl moved up to our state just recently and stayed with us for a few months, she kept having dramas with her father and moved out. A few months ago, it was revealed that when she was 13 he was intoxicated and was lying on the bed… she went over to him and patted him on the back, he took things to the next level and fondled with her breasts and put his hands inside her pants. According to him, he said as soon as he found out it was his daughter he stopped and felt terrible. But according to her it is a different story. Now ofcourse he is going to deny everything. He has nothing to lose and everything to gain. After this little family drama was over – we all talked about it and decided that what was in the past was in the past. Let bygones be bygones. My mother had given him the benefit of the doubt, althought she was worried for mine and my brother’s safety, she had a gut feeling that he wouldn’t try anything though. I am 17 and my brother is 13.

Over the past month I’ve noticed some changes in my mum’s boyfriend’s behaviour. My brother had his bestfriend sleep over a few weeks ago and my mum’s boyfriend made a comment because my brother’s bedroom door was closed… he said, “what are you doing in there? comparing the size of your penis’s?” he has also said, “what are you doing in there? having sex?”.

The other day I got a phone call from my biology teacher and my mum’s bofriend answered, and when I came to the phone, he said loudly, “tell her I taught you about the birds and the bees”.

He has also made comments about my breasts. He said to me, “you have boobs just like your mother” – and I was wearing a tee-shirt with no bra on. He has also asked my mother if I wore a padded bra.

And the most recent… my boyfriend and are best friends. We’ve known eachother since I was 11 and we are really close. We are more like close bestfriends than boyfriend and girlfriend. My boyfriend has a great relationship with my mum and a ok one with her boyfriend. But last night my boyfriend came over and my mum’s boyfriend was curious to know what we were doing in my room. He said to my mum, “whenever I am here they are always in her room… what are they doing in there?”

What do you think???
I just think it is all a little creepy to me.

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I think my mum’s boyfriend is a pedophile?

  • Posted on November 19, 2010 at 9:23 pm

My mum has been dating this guy for about 15 months now, he lives with us, just him, although he does have 2 kids of his own. A girl, 28, and a boy, 26. The girl moved up to our state just recently and stayed with us for a few months, she kept having dramas with her father and moved out. A few months ago, it was revealed that when she was 13 he was intoxicated and was lying on the bed… she went over to him and patted him on the back, he took things to the next level and fondled with her breasts and put his hands inside her pants. According to him, he said as soon as he found out it was his daughter he stopped and felt terrible. But according to her it is a different story. Now ofcourse he is going to deny everything. He has nothing to lose and everything to gain. After this little family drama was over – we all talked about it and decided that what was in the past was in the past. Let bygones be bygones. My mother had given him the benefit of the doubt, althought she was worried for mine and my brother’s safety, she had a gut feeling that he wouldn’t try anything though. I am 17 and my brother is 13.

Over the past month I’ve noticed some changes in my mum’s boyfriend’s behaviour. My brother had his bestfriend sleep over a few weeks ago and my mum’s boyfriend made a comment because my brother’s bedroom door was closed… he said, “what are you doing in there? comparing the size of your penis’s?” he has also said, “what are you doing in there? having sex?”.

The other day I got a phone call from my biology teacher and my mum’s bofriend answered, and when I came to the phone, he said loudly, “tell her I taught you about the birds and the bees”.

He has also made comments about my breasts. He said to me, “you have boobs just like your mother” – and I was wearing a tee-shirt with no bra on. He has also asked my mother if I wore a padded bra.

And the most recent… my boyfriend and are best friends. We’ve known eachother since I was 11 and we are really close. We are more like close bestfriends than boyfriend and girlfriend. My boyfriend has a great relationship with my mum and a ok one with her boyfriend. But last night my boyfriend came over and my mum’s boyfriend was curious to know what we were doing in my room. He said to my mum, “whenever I am here they are always in her room… what are they doing in there?”

What do you think???
I just think it is all a little creepy to me.

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I think my mum’s boyfriend is a pedophile?

  • Posted on November 7, 2010 at 1:23 am

My mum has been dating this guy for about 15 months now, he lives with us, just him, although he does have 2 kids of his own. A girl, 28, and a boy, 26. The girl moved up to our state just recently and stayed with us for a few months, she kept having dramas with her father and moved out. A few months ago, it was revealed that when she was 13 he was intoxicated and was lying on the bed… she went over to him and patted him on the back, he took things to the next level and fondled with her breasts and put his hands inside her pants. According to him, he said as soon as he found out it was his daughter he stopped and felt terrible. But according to her it is a different story. Now ofcourse he is going to deny everything. He has nothing to lose and everything to gain. After this little family drama was over – we all talked about it and decided that what was in the past was in the past. Let bygones be bygones. My mother had given him the benefit of the doubt, althought she was worried for mine and my brother’s safety, she had a gut feeling that he wouldn’t try anything though. I am 17 and my brother is 13.

Over the past month I’ve noticed some changes in my mum’s boyfriend’s behaviour. My brother had his bestfriend sleep over a few weeks ago and my mum’s boyfriend made a comment because my brother’s bedroom door was closed… he said, “what are you doing in there? comparing the size of your penis’s?” he has also said, “what are you doing in there? having sex?”.

The other day I got a phone call from my biology teacher and my mum’s bofriend answered, and when I came to the phone, he said loudly, “tell her I taught you about the birds and the bees”.

He has also made comments about my breasts. He said to me, “you have boobs just like your mother” – and I was wearing a tee-shirt with no bra on. He has also asked my mother if I wore a padded bra.

And the most recent… my boyfriend and I are best friends. We’ve known eachother since I was 11 and we are really close. We are more like close bestfriends than boyfriend and girlfriend. My boyfriend has a great relationship with my mum and an ok one with her boyfriend. But last night my boyfriend came over and my mum’s boyfriend was curious to know what we were doing in my room. He said to my mum, “whenever I am here they are always in her room… what are they doing in there?”

What do you think???
My mum doesn’t love him as she used to after she found out that he had molestered his daughter. She has told me she will never look at him in the same way again. As you wouldn’t. I have spoken to her about the issues with him and his comments and she went off at him. We are bestfriend’s also and tell eachother everything. He cried to her and said he has had to live with the guilt of doing things to his daughter and, according to him, he regrets it. The daughter and the son said to my mum that if she was to leave him (like his kids have) he would probably do something stupid. She is in a situation where she doesn’t know what to do.

As for her boyfriend’s comments on me and my boyfriend… he is fully aware that I am a proud virgin. I am saving mysef for a time when I think I am ready. So for him to take an interest in what we do in my bedroom really disturbs and concerns me.

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Pedophile with child at the beach. Would you have done something in my situation?

  • Posted on September 16, 2010 at 1:23 am

I asked this in parenting section, but would like to see different responses in grade school, for parents who have children who are still in school:
Note this MIGHT sound a bit creepy so please consider yourself warned.

Last summer while at the beach there was a young couple right beside us, the beach was PACKED. I was there with my 14 year old son and 9 year old daughter, and I couldn’t help but notice this couple beside us were acting a little “TOO” affectionate/intimate with each other in public.It was almost impossible to “not” notice them. They were both on their front sides and constantly touching eachother, rubbing her fingertips through his hair and kept giving each other small kisses and it just seemed to get a little too overboard. I heard little things they were saying and discussing, it seemed obvious that they were high on drugs because it was all about intimacy, their pupils were enlarged to the point you can only see white and black, and no color, the woman looked at me a couple times and smiled. I noticed the woman putting a pill into his mouth and giving him water, and vice versa; MORE than just once. I’m certain it was ecstasy. Later the woman reached out and grabbed sunscreen from her bag and sort of nagged “let me put some on you!” so she started putting it on him while he’s laying down from his feet to his neck, and flipped him over and proceeded his front side. She took her time and it seemed a bit sexual. What REALLY got to me was when she was done and I heard the exact words from the guy “so (her name) how did you feel while rubbing down a 15 year old in sunscreen?” and immediately I started feeling sick to my stomach and stopped myself from listening to anymore.

I would see them get up from their towel holding hands going into the water slowly, and at that point It was so obvious they were completely rigged out of their minds on E smiling at everything. The woman was very attractive, tall, slim and looked 21-25, NO YOUNGER than 20. The boy did not look 15 at all, way too developed and also looked like he was abusing steroids, but when I heard “15″ I started feeling sick. They looked like they were either in a relationship or just newly dating. At that point my kids were staring at them so we left and moved to a different spot. I really felt like saying something or doing something about this but I didn’t really know, but I couldn’t stop thinking about this for a while, it really disturbed me.

If you were me in this situation, would you have done something or said something, or would you have just moved? I thought this was completely wrong in everyway, especially with a minor doing drugs like ecstasy. Thanks for reading.
I HEARD 100% he said 15. With my own ears, I bet my life on that.

I felt I wasn’t the only one who noticed them, I definitely wasn’t the only one. And they did not even notice me looking, they were WAY too out of it to notice anything around them and that too was extremely obvious.

The beach also has no life guards on duty, but I hadn’t even thought about that.
No, the woman was not a teenager. If you saw the woman you would know she was NOT a teenager. If I had doubts about her age I would have not felt sick but this got me sick to my stomach because I knew she wasn’t a teenager like the boy was.
He was 15. He was WAY too submissive with her, if you actually saw it you would think differently.

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