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Do all Moon/Pluto people have mother (parent) issues? Please tell me it ain’t so! No astrology bashers PLEASE!?

  • Posted on December 19, 2010 at 4:32 pm

I come from a very plutonian/neptunian family. I am one myself. My son has moon in scorpio and my daughter has moon square pluto. I know this is only a small piece of the personality. But, every moon/pluto person I know was either emotionally or physically abused or had a parent suffering alcoholism. My mom abandoned me. My dad was great most times, but he was a liar, manipulator and he physically assaulted me and every wife or girlfriend he has ever had. I know that’s strange to say that he was great most times, but it’s true. I could “see” his heart, which was great, but his ego was out of control! My kids’ also have moon square pluto and he can never have a “real” conversation with his mom; she never validates his feelings and experiences. she also used to cry before he could even express his perspective of her. He’d say, “mom, in childhood I couldn’t go out with friends and….” but she would have tears rolling down her face before he could finish his sentence. “Well if you think I’m a bad mother, why don’t you right down all the horrible things you think about me and I’ll stay away since I’m not wanted,” she would reply. Our parents/family labeled us as the sensitive one, but they were the ones being abusive or pouting all the time.

Now we are afraid that we will be like our parents. Can we change for our children? Even if we do better than our parents is it fate for our kids to feel the same about us as we do our own parents. Sometimes it seems that, based on a person’s inherited personality traits, he or she will interpret the parent(s) based on their own outlook-he or she will “hold onto” certain parts of the parent. Because, as I said, my dad had many great qualities. I just can’t let go of the hurtful ones!

I want to be a good mother. Even more than that, I don’t want to do anything to cause deep psychological scars to my babies. I know no parent is perfect, I just need any type of HELPFUL info! We can’t go to our families for advice; those plutonians don’t want to HEAL!
Lorraine, my kids’ father has moon square pluto and moon square saturn-serious mother problems!
ADDED: Jolie, that gives me hope! I’m sure even without astrology I would try to be more self-aware because that’s what my heart wants. Thanks

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Do all Moon/Pluto people have mother (parent) issues? Please tell me it ain’t so! No astrology bashers PLEASE!?

  • Posted on December 15, 2010 at 4:32 pm

I come from a very plutonian/neptunian family. I am one myself. My son has moon in scorpio and my daughter has moon square pluto. I know this is only a small piece of the personality. But, every moon/pluto person I know was either emotionally or physically abused or had a parent suffering alcoholism. My mom abandoned me. My dad was great most times, but he was a liar, manipulator and he physically assaulted me and every wife or girlfriend he has ever had. I know that’s strange to say that he was great most times, but it’s true. I could “see” his heart, which was great, but his ego was out of control! My kids’ also have moon square pluto and he can never have a “real” conversation with his mom; she never validates his feelings and experiences. she also used to cry before he could even express his perspective of her. He’d say, “mom, in childhood I couldn’t go out with friends and….” but she would have tears rolling down her face before he could finish his sentence. “Well if you think I’m a bad mother, why don’t you right down all the horrible things you think about me and I’ll stay away since I’m not wanted,” she would reply. Our parents/family labeled us as the sensitive one, but they were the ones being abusive or pouting all the time.

Now we are afraid that we will be like our parents. Can we change for our children? Even if we do better than our parents is it fate for our kids to feel the same about us as we do our own parents. Sometimes it seems that, based on a person’s inherited personality traits, he or she will interpret the parent(s) based on their own outlook-he or she will “hold onto” certain parts of the parent. Because, as I said, my dad had many great qualities. I just can’t let go of the hurtful ones!

I want to be a good mother. Even more than that, I don’t want to do anything to cause deep psychological scars to my babies. I know no parent is perfect, I just need any type of HELPFUL info! We can’t go to our families for advice; those plutonians don’t want to HEAL!
Lorraine, my kids’ father has moon square pluto and moon square saturn-serious mother problems!
ADDED: Jolie, that gives me hope! I’m sure even without astrology I would try to be more self-aware because that’s what my heart wants. Thanks

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Do all Moon/Pluto people have mother (parent) issues? Please tell me it ain’t so! No astrology bashers PLEASE!?

  • Posted on December 14, 2010 at 4:33 pm

I come from a very plutonian/neptunian family. I am one myself. My son has moon in scorpio and my daughter has moon square pluto. I know this is only a small piece of the personality. But, every moon/pluto person I know was either emotionally or physically abused or had a parent suffering alcoholism. My mom abandoned me. My dad was great most times, but he was a liar, manipulator and he physically assaulted me and every wife or girlfriend he has ever had. I know that’s strange to say that he was great most times, but it’s true. I could “see” his heart, which was great, but his ego was out of control! My kids’ also have moon square pluto and he can never have a “real” conversation with his mom; she never validates his feelings and experiences. she also used to cry before he could even express his perspective of her. He’d say, “mom, in childhood I couldn’t go out with friends and….” but she would have tears rolling down her face before he could finish his sentence. “Well if you think I’m a bad mother, why don’t you right down all the horrible things you think about me and I’ll stay away since I’m not wanted,” she would reply. Our parents/family labeled us as the sensitive one, but they were the ones being abusive or pouting all the time.

Now we are afraid that we will be like our parents. Can we change for our children? Even if we do better than our parents is it fate for our kids to feel the same about us as we do our own parents. Sometimes it seems that, based on a person’s inherited personality traits, he or she will interpret the parent(s) based on their own outlook-he or she will “hold onto” certain parts of the parent. Because, as I said, my dad had many great qualities. I just can’t let go of the hurtful ones!

I want to be a good mother. Even more than that, I don’t want to do anything to cause deep psychological scars to my babies. I know no parent is perfect, I just need any type of HELPFUL info! We can’t go to our families for advice; those plutonians don’t want to HEAL!
Lorraine, my kids’ father has moon square pluto and moon square saturn-serious mother problems!
ADDED: Jolie, that gives me hope! I’m sure even without astrology I would try to be more self-aware because that’s what my heart wants. Thanks

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Can you think of a really drastic event that effects mainly two people?

  • Posted on December 4, 2010 at 12:17 pm

Eg. An alcoholic single mother who has to explain to their daughter why they need to be taken into care.

Eg. A woman dying of AIDS who has to tell her young son that he has inherited the condition.
I was looking more for a negative event.

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My 2-year-old’s Mother puller her daughter’s arm out of its socket. People say this is not uncommon. Still…

  • Posted on November 20, 2010 at 6:17 pm

I decided to let it go because I’ve been told that this happens commonly. Then her ex-roommate told me that it wasn’t an accident, that the Mother was angry and pulled too hard. Then the Mother refused to take her to the doctor for fear of being reported (until she was pressed to do so).

Her ex-roommate wanted to report her to CPS, but has waited. The Mother never told me about the incident, then when she accidentally let it slip, played it off like an accident. She has also become an alcoholic, has left the daughter home alone by accident, and is generally unnurturing. Everyone agrees that she is not heeding the warning signs of her own neglect and totally refuses to take advice.

Would you report your child’s parent as unfit? Particularly if you yourself are not in the position to take responsibility and don’t have a large role in the child’s life? (Wish I had more time, but that’s another story.) I could be called a hypocrite because she has more responsibility than me.

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Why isn’t alcohol illegal and why the hell do people think it’s ok to do METH AND OTHER DRUGS?!?”?

  • Posted on November 12, 2010 at 6:21 pm

“29-year-old Robert E. Hensley of Unicoi, Tenn. is accused of slapping his girlfriend’s 8-year-old son. He’s also accused of duct taping his girlfriend’s pug to the dog’s body and rubbing the dog’s butt in the kids’ faces. Prescription drugs and alcohol may have been involved”

” 43-year-old Manuel De Jesus Rosales of Lehigh Acres, Florida is a brutal killer.
He’s accused of slitting the throat of his own daughter while in a drunken rage. Not content of just slitting the throat of his own daughter while she looked on he also slit the throat of his 3-moth-old grandson, the daughter’s son. Unfortunately the baby did not survive the attack. After slitting the baby’s throat he allegedly presented him to his daughter saying “here’s your bastard. ”

“25-year-old Randy Thomsen of Las Vegas, Nevada has been charged with beating and kicking his 4-month-old son and putting him in a freezer and closing the door on him. The infant suffered a fracture skull and broken ribs which Thomesn allegedly tried blaming on a fall. ”

“Police in Grapevine, Texas arrested Julio Cesar Garcia, 20, and Branda Duran, 19, after witnesses at a party allegedly saw them passing a bong to their 13-month-old son. Witnesses say that the boy put his mouth around the top of the bong and was playing with a bowl of weed.”

“20-year-old Anthony Parra of Queens, New York is accused of putting his girlfriend’s daughter into ICU by scalding the 11-month-old girl. These stories are almost becoming old hat. It has all the usual elements. Boyfriend was babysitting while mom was at work, baby starts to cry boyfriend flips out and harms the child. ”

“McALLEN, Texas – A man accused of fatally beating his 2-year-old stepdaughter when she wouldn’t stop crying as he watched a World Cup game has been charged with capital murder.”

“29-year-old Peter James Wilson of is accused of slashing the throat of his 5-year-old step-daughter while on vacation in Hoodsport, Washington.

Allegedly Wilson argued with his wife over how the children should be disciplined and then told his wife “not to worry that he would take care of it.”

“19-year-old Marlon M. Hines of St. Charles County, Missouri, has been charged in the May 31st death of his 12-week-old daughter.

Hines is accused of ‘applying pressure’ to his daughters chest while he was trying to change her. He was allegedly ‘frustrated’ because his daughter soiled herself several times. Hines allegedly applied so much pressure that he fractured his daughter’s ribs and lacerated her liver. The cause of death was internal bleeding from the liver.”

“Police in Salinas, California have arrested 20-year-old Samantha Tomasini and 38-year-old Patrick Fousek after they allegedly tried to sell their baby to a pair of women in the parking lot of a Wal-Mart for $25.

Police say the pair appeared to be tweaking on meth. Tomasini allegedly admitted to even breastfeeding the baby while high on meth. ”

“New York State Police were called to the Vienna, New York home of Adam Theall’s parents. The 21-year-old Theall was threatening to kill his 3-month-old son if police responded. He made good on his promise. When a New York State Trooper arrived at the scene Theall shot his infant son with a shotgun without hesitation.”

“Police in Wells Township, Ohio have arrested an unnamed 49-year-old woman for prostituting her 14-year-old daughter so the woman could get crack. It’s alleged that she started pimping out her daughter at the age of 10.’

“Police in Louisville, Kentucky have arrested 29-year-old Bobbie Nelson, 38-year-old Denise Haynes, and 48-year-old Tommy Harris for allegedly not only running a meth lab with kids in the house but having the lab in the kids’ room.”

“19-year-old Staci Lynn Barbosa and 23-year-old Jonathan Edward Vandergriff of Bullhead City, Arizona have been arrested in the brutal death of their one-month-old

The boy was brought to the hospital with extensive injuries and the baby died from his injuries. The baby had broken ribs, a broken femur, malnourished, dehydrated and showed signs of shaken baby syndrome. Police also say that the baby was raped by his own parents. ”

“23-year-old Kayla Neighbors of Greenwood, Indiana was arrested last week for slamming her infant to the ground while tweaked out on meth.

Her neighbors were concerned because she was screaming about dropping her baby. When her neighbors found her baby and handed it to her she looked at the baby then threw it on the parking lot pavement.”

“34-year-old Stephanie Rochester of Boulder, Colorado has been charged in the smothering murder of her 6-month-old son Rylan. She allegedly killed her own son over fears that he may have Autism. ”

“11 month-old Kayla Marie Taschler from Palmerton, Pennsylvania died back in January after being left unattended in her

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Why are people so weird about abortion?

  • Posted on October 18, 2010 at 7:23 pm

I’m a guy so I shouldn’t know anything right? I like to put things in a different perspective. So for example: Say you have a teenage daughter and if you don’t then just pretend you do for a second. Ok so say your daughter amy was going to spend the night at her friends house. You tell her to call you in the morning and soon enough she calls. When you pick up the phone you hear her crying and ask whats wrong? She was so intoxicated that a guy that stayed over raped her. This may not be the only scenario and to sum everything up. If a women wants to get an abortion, LET HER. Would you really want to put Amy through the pain of pregnancy? Don’t say something like “it’s a beautiful thing” because I think having a baby that you didn’t even want isn’t beautiful. The hardest part is if she does have the baby then you’re either going to keep the baby or let someone adopt the baby. I may not be a girl/woman but If I was to me that would be a long emotional process.
Ok I’m tired of this sexist crap. Just because you’re a girl doesn’t mean you know the emotional process of being raped and then becoming pregnant with that child. And if you were then I guess you prove me wrong. Just because I’m a “man” or “guy” doesn’t mean I cant express my opinion. If you’re a girl and you dont believe abortion. Even if you were raped? You would have the baby because its the right thing to do? And to the people saying it has arms legs right when “it” goes inside you. It is called a fetus until about 22 – 24 weeks which is also when “rights” come into effect
Oh and I’m not saying it is not emotional both ways but apart from emotional if you do have the baby you will have to take the responsiblity by paying. I haven’t had a child but I’m pretty sure its not 5$ a week.

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Given how they abuse their positions, how can Cops expect the respect of THE PEOPLE or themselves?

  • Posted on October 14, 2010 at 4:33 pm

Yesterday, after being held in jail for seven hours for committing the “crime” of being rear-ended by a cop’s daughter, I noticed a poster handing in the police station with a glorified picture of a police officer and the word “respect” written accost it.

Given how often and how egregiously police officers abuse their positions, lie, and generally prey upon the American citizens they swore to protect, they can expect any respect either from the American public or even from themselves when they look in the mirror (that’s assuming that they still can look in the mirror).

Specifically, I was rear-ended by the seventeen year old female offspring of a Passaic (NJ) cop while waiting at a red light in Wayne, NJ.

Immediately after the accident occurred, the girl began telling anyone who’d listen that she was the daughter of a cop (something her father likely trained her to do to ensure she received favored treatment from other cops).

Once the police arrived, she reiterated that she was the offspring of a cop and the (Wayne, NJ) police proceeded to take her statement first.

When the officers went to take my statement, they waited until I’d gotten half way through my first sentence and claimed that they smelled alcohol on my breath. This is odd because, due to a family history of alcoholism, I elected not to drink and, other then Communion, never have.

Without allowing me to finish my statement, the officers placed me under arrest, handcuffing me in front of all the witnesses to the accident, and placing me in the squad car. Despite the fact that I told the officer that my back was hurting from the accident, they refused to loosen the cuffs or cuff me in the front where my arms wouldn’t be pulling on my shoulders and back.

Once we arrived at the station, they told me that all the officers who were qualified to operate the breathalyzer were “busy” and that I’d have to wait in a cell until one of them had the time to administer the breathalyzer.

It turned out that all of them were “busy” for the next eight hours during which I was forced to sit in a damp disgusting cell, handcuffed to the bench, with my back throbbing.

When the breathalyzer was finally administered, it registered a BAL of .0002% (an attorney and friend of mine informed me that this reading could result from the inherent inaccuracy of the machine or from alcohol naturally released when food ferments in the stomach-something that happens when someone hasn’t eaten in a 10 hours) well below the legal limit of .08%*.

I was then released but still had to pay for the towing of my vehicle to the impound lot (the state CLAIMS that it will reimburse me for this in 10-12 weeks) and pay for a cab to take me to the impound lot (an expense I won’t be refunded).

After this disgusting display of corruption and favoritism, I found the “respect” poster highly ironic.

After engaging in behavior like this, how can police officers respect themselves???

Furthermore, how can these same police officers expect the public to respect them???

*Furthermore, my friend told me that while the actions of the cops were immoral, they can be made to appear technically “legal” and thus it wouldn’t be worth pursuing LEGAL action against these officers…I can’t say what would happen if I met any of them or the b*tch who started this by hitting me in a dark ally…

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Why are people so ignorant about the way they handle homosexual children?

  • Posted on October 11, 2010 at 4:22 am

I just posted a question about my daughter who has chosen to be gay and there seems to be a lot of people going berserk because we will not support her in this choice. Particularly that when she turned 18 asked her to move out and not support her education while she chooses to live this way.

How is this any different than someone with a drug addiction?

Would you enable a family member to an early grave?

I know all you liberals would, but I’m asking this to my fellow Christians.

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is my life story interesting? a lot of people say it is?

  • Posted on October 11, 2010 at 2:17 am

well, my dad died when i was 2, he shot himself. my mom started binge drinking after that and when i was 5 she started using heroin. she’d leave me at my grandma’s and then she’d go off and get high with various people.

she od’d when i was 11 and died. my grandma got sole custody of me, but it really messed me up. she wasn’t that old — 60, but i could tell she didn’t want me around. she was very religious and hated my mother and by extension — me. when i was 13 i got pregnant. my grandma was mad, but for some reason it totally changed her. i wanted to give it up for adoption, and she was with me 100%. i had a healthy baby boy who was adopted by a loving couple. they send me photos every year and i’ve seen him a few times. but there was a part of me that longed for my baby. so when i was 16, i asked my boyfriend if i could get pregnant. he said no, but i tricked him (wont go into details but it was mean and gross) and i got pregnant. i was happy, and told my grandma it was an accident and that i wanted to keep it. but i miscarried at 2 months, 3 weeks and a day. after that i got depressed, my boyfriend dumped me and i started cutting.

my grandma was worried about me and ultimatley i got send to an institution. it worked for me, and a year and a half later i was bunch better. i still missed my son and my misscarried baby, but i was no longer depressed. i got my high school diploma at 19, and then i got a degree to be a dental technician. i started working there when i was 20. i had a 1 night stand and it got me pregnant when i was 24. i decided to keep it. the dad i was pissed at me, and he threatened me with a knife. i called the cops and got a restraining order. he didn’t obey it and almost killed me. but he got 7 years in jail and i moved across the country. when i was 25, my daughter martine was born. i still worried about her father, and i finally moved us to canada. we are still there.

now martine is 2 1/2, i’m almost 28 and i’m engaged to a great guy. it definently turned around in the end.

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