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How do you break your addiction to a person?

  • Posted on March 12, 2011 at 1:21 am

I feel like returning to my ex-husband. He was both verbally and physically abusive with me. We have a daughter who lives wtih him in another state.

I don’t know how to break my addiction to him. When I think of restarting my life with someone else, I feel guilty about hurting him. I constantly feel that since Ieft I should put the family back together.

He is now sick with different things (high cholesterol, etc) and I feel that its because I have not been there to take care of him.

Yet, now when I talk to him he says that I am “messed up” and not “marriageable material.” I have not grown or developed over the years according to him and am not loyal to the family or house. I have to learn to think according to “we” and not just about “me.” I don’t know right from wrong and am not smart enough to understand the “right” things to do for a family. I am all about money and me and have emotional problems according to him.

I miss being part of a family though.

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what drives a person to murder??

  • Posted on February 11, 2011 at 7:22 am

its so sad now a days we turn on the news to see another murder of a house wife & mother of 3, or a drunk teen kills another teen. what makes a husband kill his wife & 3 kids, dont these people have any sense not to drive drunk? what is wrong with a person that hits a 6yr old child and keeps driving,dont they have any feelings inside when a man looks his kids in the eyes and shoots them. what about the people who are fighting for our country what is the point. dont we have enough death with all the illnesses this world has.i admire those who have the courage and strength to fight while more than half of america stays home,raising families supporting them my heart goes out to all those families who have lost a loved one from war or an unecessary death, i have been fortunate and thank lord that he keeps my loved ones safe but i cant hold back tears or a thought, of a wife loosing her husband a child loosing his father, a family lossing a daughter and grandchildren. i pray for everyone.

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Can alcoholic blackouts happen…when a person is sober??

  • Posted on January 25, 2011 at 6:18 pm

IMy daughter says that I bought something with her…yet I do not remember at all. She says I was sober, yet I do not recall doing this, yet I have some evidence that I did. This has got me completely spooked.Any suggestions here?

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Do you think you can ever gain respect for a person you’ve disrespected your entire life?

  • Posted on January 10, 2011 at 5:23 am

Copious amounts of times I’ve expressed my criticism to my father on his displays of favoritism towards my older sister.

He was an alcoholic for years and while he played the victim to gain everyone’s sympathy, I pitied him and told him how I’m ashamed to be considered his daughter.

One morning, when I was at my boyfriend’s apartment, my sister called. She said my father got into a bad car wreck, as a result of driving while intoxicated.

I suspected she was gently trying to tell me that he was “in a terrible accident” and died. My heart and my stomach didn’t sink. Of all the feelings I felt, none of them consisted of sadness, worry, or concern. I didn’t care.

I remember when I was younger, I would refer to him by his first name because I had so much disrespect for him.

He is an example of everything I hate in a person.

He is truly worthless.

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Do you think you can ever gain respect for a person you’ve disrespected your entire life?

  • Posted on January 9, 2011 at 7:23 am

Copious amounts of times I’ve expressed my criticism to my father on his displays of favoritism towards my older sister.

He was an alcoholic for years and while he played the victim to gain everyone’s sympathy, I pitied him and told him how I’m ashamed to be considered his daughter.

One morning, when I was at my boyfriend’s apartment, my sister called. She said my father got into a bad car wreck, as a result of driving while intoxicated.

I suspected she was gently trying to tell me that he was “in a terrible accident” and died. My heart and my stomach didn’t sink. Of all the feelings I felt, none of them consisted of sadness, worry, or concern. I didn’t care.

I remember when I was younger, I would refer to him by his first name because I had so much disrespect for him.

He is an example of everything I hate in a person.

He is truly worthless.

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Do you think you can ever gain respect for a person you’ve disrespected your entire life?

  • Posted on January 8, 2011 at 9:24 am

Copious amounts of times I’ve expressed my criticism to my father on his displays of favoritism towards my older sister.

He was an alcoholic for years and while he played the victim to gain everyone’s sympathy, I pitied him and told him how I’m ashamed to be considered his daughter.

One morning, when I was at my boyfriend’s apartment, my sister called. She said my father got into a bad car wreck, as a result of driving while intoxicated.

I suspected she was gently trying to tell me that he was “in a terrible accident” and died. My heart and my stomach didn’t sink. Of all the feelings I felt, none of them consisted of sadness, worry, or concern. I didn’t care.

I remember when I was younger, I would refer to him by his first name because I had so much disrespect for him.

He is an example of everything I hate in a person.

He is truly worthless.

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how do i get past the total hatred i have for this person?

  • Posted on January 7, 2011 at 11:21 am

i hate my grandmother’s best friend, Erica and i can’t stand her daughter, Amalie, why she named her Amalie when that literally means work when she depends on a welfare check every month and refuses to get a real job, i have no idea.

this woman is everything i’m against, plus she dont like me. every time she sees me she gives me the dirtiest looks ever. i heard her talking about me too. how rude and nasty and out of control i am. pfh im horrible? atleast i dont have to see a shrink and be on meds like her daughter. atleast i dont mess around and make babies with heroin addicts like her. atleast i dont spend my time hating on someone whos about 40 years younger.

i really dont like laziness and not trying. i always tell my cousins when i watch them that i can accept when they cant do it and fail but i cant and wont accept when they dont even try. and this lady is so ugh i cant stand her. she always comes over at dinner time and my mom being a “good person” and “not a bxtch” gives her some food. like wtf? free loader much??

another thing i dont like is poor table manners and her daughter has NO table manners what so ever. shes freaking FOURTEEN almost FIFTEEN and she can’t eat with out food coming out of her mouth. and her mother talking about her first period during dinner? disgusting much?

so how do i get rid of this total hatred i have for Erica and Amalie and just be whatever. every time i see them i can feel the hatred, i never hated anyone like that before
they are rude, disgusting, arrogant, people and they think the taxpayers owe them something. i heard her talking one time about how she deserves every penny she gets from the government

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Do you think you can ever gain respect for a person you’ve disrespected your entire life?

  • Posted on January 5, 2011 at 3:23 pm

Copious amounts of times I’ve expressed my criticism to my father on his displays of favoritism towards my older sister.

He was an alcoholic for years and while he played the victim to gain everyone’s sympathy, I pitied him and told him how I’m ashamed to be considered his daughter.

One morning, when I was at my boyfriend’s apartment, my sister called. She said my father got into a bad car wreck, as a result of driving while intoxicated.

I suspected she was gently trying to tell me that he was “in a terrible accident” and died. My heart and my stomach didn’t sink. Of all the feelings I felt, none of them consisted of sadness, worry, or concern. I didn’t care.

I remember when I was younger, I would refer to him by his first name because I had so much disrespect for him.

He is an example of everything I hate in a person.

He is truly worthless.

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If you are a person who likes to read books.?

  • Posted on December 30, 2010 at 5:21 am

Tell me if you would be interested in this book.if their is anything you would changes any ideas corrections any help is appreciated thanks.

The story starts off as a happy couple with a daughter just living together peacefully. Man is having trouble at work and blames wife. they fight and he goes for a walk. he gets attacked by a bum and accidentally injected wit heroin. He freaks out goes home and passes out feeling wonderful. He wakes up groggy and never wants to do it again. His wife hates sex and finds it not needed unless for children. The man has an affair and rushes out leaving his wallet. The other woman finds him and confronts his wife sayin he raped her. the wife goes to her mother taking the daughter and the man goes out looking for more heroin. He soon works things out with his wife but becomes addicted to heroin. Eventually the wife finds out and leaves him for good. He’s so depressed he ends up overdosing in a alleyway, starts into convulsions and eventually dies. Right after he dies his phone rings and a picture pops up indicating its his wife. She leaves a voice mail saying that she will get him help and stand by him because her love is that strong for him.

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My boyfriends sister is a morally reprehensible person? Is it a dealbreaker?

  • Posted on December 24, 2010 at 5:22 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 yrs, he recently moved from an apartment with his friends back home with his parents until we find a house together. His sister is 27 (we are 23) and she has a 3 yr old daughter whom she is neglectful and abusive towards. My boyfriend is ignorant of the situation, but I know it eats him up inside. His sister had this child by having sex in exchange for drugs, which she told me one night when she was intoxicated, but my boyfriend is basically in denial of this. She is living at home with her parents and they take care of the kid while she boozes and parties. She hooked up with an exboyfriend not too long ago and shortly before she also went to Vegas with me and some of my friends and she slept with two different men. Now she is pregnant and claims it is the ex-boyfriends, and she is supposedly moving in with him. He is also a very wealthy stockbroker, and I’m pretty sure she’s doing it to get her ticket out of the parents house…
It’s also hurtful because I got pregnant by accident 2 yrs ago and had a miscarriage w/ complications and was told I couldnt have kids. Since my boyfriend and I are planning on getting married and we have saved enough for a down payment on a house, we decided to keep trying to have a baby since we knew it could be hard for us. We had three more miscarriages, so it is somewhat of a sore subject for me especially. And it hurts to see his sister using this pregnancy as her meal ticket to being taken care of financially, especially when she abuses the child she already has. I’m at the point of running away screaming, but my boyfriend and I have a wonderful loving relationship, and he is nothing like his psychotic sister, he kind of just got sucked in by moving back in. Now he’s not sure if we can move out because he thinks he may have to help take care of kid # 2 since it may not be the ex-bf’s. I don’t know if it’s worth it to deal with all of his family drama?

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