There is a family history of molestation and this man I am talking about is close to me and I don’t trust him. I feel like he is a pervert but don’t have any substantial evidence. I know his own dad abused his kids. His son bothers me too and he wears sunglasses in my home. He only started doing this since my DD was born and since she was about a year old. I asked why he wore them and he doesn’t ever really answer. Also a few times when she was a year and a half he’d sit on the sofa in a semi reclined way and my daughter just learning to walk would use the couch to stand and would tap the couch like a drum. A few times when coming over to visit this man would not push her hands away if she started touching his groin area. Finally after several times, I had to tell him that was in appropriate to allow her to touch him there. He also mentioned to me that he’s done things in his life he can’t forgive himself for. The bottom line is I don’t trust him but don’t have evidence and don’t want to expose my kids to a potential molestation opportunity for this man. Also he’s a binge alcoholic and in denial about what has happened in his own family. He often tells my spouse and I that we should let him babysit so we can go out. We don’t feel comfortable with that though.
What do you think?
