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Caught husband downloading porn with daughter in room?

  • Posted on January 1, 2011 at 7:21 am

How bad is this? I mean I’m incredibly upset but I know a lot of you out there that don’t think porn is a big deal maybe think this is not a big deal too? I am so sickened by this that I want to get out of the relationship. Is there anyone out there that can defend this behavior or is it inexcusable? He had my 2 yr old daughter in a high chair turned to the TV while he was behind her on the computer looking at porn/downloading movies. Whenever I leave the house I know he immediately starts looking at porn, but I NEVER thought he would actually do it with my toddler in the room. (she’s usually at daycare when he does it otherwise, or is sleeping) Is this a sign of addiction? Should we go to counseling over this? BTW he has no interest in having sex with me but I CONSTANTLY catch him masturbating/looking at porn. I know there are other issues involved–but that’s my perspective. any thoughts? thanks!
I know, it’s not the fact that he was doing it, whatever, just that he thought it was ok to do it when she was there–whether she could see it or not! (I even think it’s wrong if the baby and I are in the next room)

Believe me I would have sex with him every NIGHT but he’s always too tired, too stressed, never in the mood, or if anything wants it in the middle of the night. I have tried everything to get him interested. But of course he always has time for porn. And I’m not 800 lbs either, I’m a redhead, petite, (why do I feel like I have to defend MYSELF??) I just don’t get it. Thank you for the advice. We will have to go to counseling, I just think this is NOT RIGHT, no way no how. and I’m not crazy, right???

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shes addicted to porn?

  • Posted on October 3, 2010 at 4:19 am

My daughters best friend is addicted to watching porn, I don’t know what to do i am scared that my daughter is watching it too. One day i was looking at the computers history and there were sites like youjizz, porn hub, red tube and other really nasty hardcore things u asked my daughter what was the stuff she finally told me that her best friend said that she was addicted to porn AND SHE WANT TO STOP PLUS SHE SAID THAT she doesn’t want to do any of the things she sees she really needs help what can i do

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This question will be very controversial. How many of you men are addicted to Internet porn?

  • Posted on September 11, 2010 at 12:20 am

Are you trying to stop? What is it about internet porn that causes you to want to see it. Would you want your 10 to 13 year old son or daughter to see it? Would you want them or your wife to know about it or do you hide it? Have you talked to anyone about it?
1 Cor 10:13 says There is no temptation that has overcome us but that which is common to us all…( my paraphrase). Yes, I was addicted some 7 years ago to internet porn. I wasd not even looking for it until recently I stumbled on it looking for “angeltv.com” I could not believe what I saw, for free, and then I coudnot believe how I was drawn to it. Over the last 6 months I have viewed it maybe 5 times, and yes I want to stop. I am talking about it with some trusted men in my church and getting prayer.

Paul said The evil that I would not do I do and the Good that I would do I do not do. He found that inside him there was a war going on between his new man and the old or his spirit man -vs- his flesh. Romans 15:1 tells us that “We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak…” Lift a brother up when they fail, and provide encouragement from the scriptures.

This is my whole point in this question to challenge men to a higher standard. The call of Christ.

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Daughter addicted to porn?

  • Posted on January 1, 2010 at 10:02 pm

Twice I’ve put pop-ups, anti spam, and porn site blockers, but my daughter has always gotten past that. She is a real wiz at the computers.
She has looked up porn so many times!… I think she is just addicted to it. How can I stop her from doing this?! She is no longer “exploring” and she isn’t “curios!” She knows that love doesn’t work that way. She hasn’t seen pictures, she’s seen actual movies. I try every consequence in the book. She doesn’t do it at much at home now, I guess she goes to her friends, I’ve talked to her friends mother and she says she doesn’t know(big help.) Does anyone know how to deal with this? I way to embaressed to ask for therapy. She’s already lost her virginity, and I think this has gone far enough!(She’s lucky she didn’t get pregnant or get any STD/HIVs.) By the way, sorry if I sound mad, I’m so frustrated!
She’s 12 and she can look up porn when she’s outta my house!

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