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Alcoholic husband, do they ever actually keep their promises?

  • Posted on March 1, 2011 at 2:17 pm

so me and my husband have been married for almost two years. when I met him he had a drinking problem. when I got married and got pregnant things only got worse. long nights of sitting up when he wouldn’t come home since he was out at bars with his friends, money missing, coming home from work to a passed out husband, it has been a long road. last summer we had split up after he had left to supposively go to iowa where his mother is to look for work and got incacerated after 2 days of being there for public intox. at that time I had made up my mind and told myself i was done! well six months went by and he started doing good. i talked to him everyday and he got a job and started sending money and i let him come back home. since january he hasn’t drank but I could never give hima fresh start and always brought up the past. his dad who is an alcoholic is on person though I never trusted him around becuase he just was a bad influence on him and I knew what would happen. well off of a sudden he started sneaking around my back and started talking to him and having him meet him up at his work. I would get mad and we’d fight, so bad that I’d even come up to his work starting things. I just never trusted him and couldn’t let the past go. well come to find out my husband started talking to another girl and I’d hear accusations that he was wanting to leave me, that he just couldn’t take the fighting anymore. I just had a hard time, to me I felt I gave you all this time to straighten up and over the years I took so much emotional abuse that my mind was so messed up and I just couldn’t trust him, where was my time?? well my mom and dad start hearing the accusations and I begin to hear more and more that he just wasn’t in to me and didn’t want to be with me so we split up. 2 months has went by and he is now begging me to give him another chance and to try to work things out if I can give him that fresh start but I just don’t know what to say? all these accusations that were made, my parents hate him! how could it ever work,could they ever forgive him?? we are getting divorced no matter what, but what can I say to him. he calls me crying everyday, he sends money to help support our daughter, he isn’t drinking, nor is he trying to see anyone else right now. I also don’t know what was true, al these accusations of things he supposively said and did, I feel like how could he do this after so much I went through with him and tried to be there and stay with him. I just don’t know, so far all I told him is that right now we should be friends. since we spilt up I had to move back in with my parents and if they even had a clue I was talking to him they would probably disown me as their daughter and want us out! I can’t jeopardize a roof over my head right now nor my relationship with them… I’m just so confused and son’t know where to go from here???? he has made so many promises in the past and broke everyone of them!!!

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Nine Ways to Make Your Ex Hate You

  • Posted on July 2, 2009 at 10:40 pm

Are you thinking of ways to win back your ex? Take care not to make things worse, they might run for the door instead of falling back into your arms. Here are things that you can do to make them hate you more.

Call them several times a day. This will bug them like crazy and may cause them to block your number. You can always get more numbers, though. Disposable phones and using friends cell phones are easy ways to get this done.

Keep writing them and letting them know how much you miss them. Letters, Emails, and Text Messages can hit them from several directions. Leave notes on their windshield. This is a great way to get their attention (and wrath).

Awaken memories of past promises. Just because you are no longer together doesnt mean you cant hold them to it. It just probably slipped their minds. Remind them regularly that it wasn’t a bad idea to break up with you.

Follow them around; let them know you are everywhere. Watch them like a hawk. Wear a silly grin if they see you coming. That will lead them to think you have lost your mind and leave them frightened. Expect a restraining order on the way.

Bug their friends and get updates about where they plan to hang out and be there all the time. They will probably avoid you too like the plague. Give the current flame a call and tell them that your ex is still in love with and you are determined to get your ex back. Harassing them both would only strengthen their relationship and dislike you more.

Call their parents and try to be their parents best friend. You will only get the parents mad at you as well or drive a wedge between your ex and his parents. Either way, you have given your ex more reason to hate you.

Try dating their best friend. Your efforts to make them jealous may end up ruining another of their relationships. Sooner or later the best friend will realize that you are just using them and you will be alone again.

Call their workplace and ask about him or ask to talk to him. That will be a great way to get your ex back hating you, especially if it costs them their job.

You can still make your ex love you again but you need some good advice on how to do it right. Get professional help or talk to people who have good long lasting relationships with their partner. Listen to your heart if you want to get your ex back. Make sure you are careful to think things through before you act on your plans. Not everything you do can make them love you again.

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