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Rage, love, Meth and getting even. Im mad as hell and wont get cops involved?

  • Posted on November 19, 2010 at 11:20 am

This gal and I were high school sweethearts. Havnt seen her for years. I saw her parents for the 1st time since 2years ago when everything was going great for there daughter when she was out of state. My sweethearts parents told me that shes been with this guy for 2 years and she has changed totally. This guy got her into meth and he hits her and shes so far gone that she doesnt care anymore. Her parents were asking for my help and they were crying. Keep in mind(this is a beautiful girl,honest, many friends and had scholoarships).
I got an address from her parents, went to the house and didnt even recongize my sweety. She was happy to see me and wanted to go with me,but her boyfriend was messing with me acting all tough. I didnt want to really do anything because I didnt want my old sweety be mad at me because I want to help her. the guy said he would never let her leave.What do I do?I
just want to tare this guy up and know I could.Never been so mad before, not even in hockey.
Im going to let the answers come in for a couple days before I decide what to do. Seeing the look on her parents face wont go away. We were all so close. Im the one that broke it off back in 95 and even tho we cant be together, I need to get her out of this anyway without anyone getting hurt. Im still mad as fire, Im scarying myself. lol

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Anger Management Counseling and It’s Benefits

  • Posted on July 1, 2009 at 9:04 pm

Anger. One of most volatile emotions one feels. To some, it happens, but it is not an emotion that takes them over. It is maybe a slight irritation. It is something they can get under control. For others, it can cause intense fury and rage. When that happens it gets out of control and turns destructive. This leads to problems at work, in personal relationships, and in general their overall life. A person is at the mercy of this emotion and its unpredictableness if they let it get out of control.

With my experience in anger management counseling I would like to explore a couple of ways to control this emotion. The goal of is to reduce the emotional feelings the physical arousal that anger causes.

First thing you can do is relax. One relaxation technique is to breath deeply. You can also you calming images. Another tool to use is to repeat slow calming words. You don’t have to just use these techniques for anger. Try to make it a practice everyday if you feel you have an anger issue.

Second is to change the way you think. Simply put, the anger may cause you to talk loudly, swear, and cause you to express yourself colorfully. These really are just your inner thoughts expressed. What you must do is change the irrational angry thoughts into rational ones. Instead of telling yourself how terrible or an injustice something is, try telling yourself it is not the end of the world.

Third, you have to communicate more effectively. When a person gets in a heated discussion or gets angry, the communications often breaks down.Rather than thinking before speaking, their emotions let them say whatever. Slow down so you can think about how you are going to communicate your thoughts.Finally, try to change the environment you are in. When we find ourselves angry or frustrated, often times, just stopping and going to another place can change our moods. Changing your environment might just be enough to make your emotions calm and control your anger.

Although not the final word, these bits of advice can help you start to control your anger. If you find it does not, you will want to go get some professional help.

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