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With reasonable circumstantial evidence, I asked my wife if she was having an affair. I was wrong, now what?

  • Posted on December 21, 2010 at 1:23 am

We have (had?) a perfect marriage. There are normal stress issues (life, house, money), but not major & before some get off base, in the 6+ years I never even thought about cheating myself much less done it. An old friend of hers recently came back into her life w/ text messages and long phone calls. I came home from a 5 day trip out of town, there were flowers on the table,(from a customer). She went out with some friends from work the next night till 3am (never does that). He came over that Sunday while I was home and again Mon. while I was at work. Mon., I find a female contraceptive device in the trash, (i was looking for a receipt), she says it was for me when I came home from my trip and she was too intoxicated on Sat to use it so she threw it away. I LOVE her and BELIEVE her. She was doing something nice for me and I screwed it all up. I dont think she will leave me or take our daughter, but but 24 hours, 3 dozen roses, and 100 sorry’s isnt mending it. So, now what?

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Is heredity a poor, good, or reasonable excuse for poor behavior?

  • Posted on January 5, 2010 at 11:06 am

I was watching “Intervention” and during the intervention this dad said:

(Some what)
“Well alcoholism does run in the family. I am one, my dad was one, and his dad. So is it my daughters fault if she has an addiction”

If a person with addiction in their family becomes addicted is it their fault. Is it right to expect people to not do things they are strongly born to do?

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