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Please help!!! Rebel Teenage Daughter!!?

  • Posted on December 11, 2010 at 1:21 pm

My teenage daughter is 17 years old. She has a job and her own money to spend. At the weekend she does her own thing and gets so drunk she can’t even see straight and I have even found cocaine in her room, which she said wasn’t hers (obviously she would say that). I have tried grounding her to stop her drinking, i’ve tried taking everything out of her room that I have bought her such as cd player, tv, wii etc. . . (i can’t take the things she has bought out of her room like her hair straighterers. . .). I’m at my whits and with her, nothing seems to work. She just shrugs everything off then goes out and gets drunk and who knows what else! any ideas would be very helpful and appreciated! thankyou
When she’s grounded she sometimes runs off or sneaks out. Or when I lift her grounding she’ll go out and drink.

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Please help! Rebel teenage daughter and I don’t know what to do !!?

  • Posted on December 10, 2010 at 1:22 pm

My daughter is 16 years old. I had her when I was very young (14), and now I think she is punishing me for it. I came across a video of her on youtube and she was kissing (with tongue) another girl. I thought she may have been gay and instead of talking to her about it I sent her to her room and told her she could not see any of her girl friends, leave the house or go on the computer (I jumped to conclusions, I was shocked). So last night when I came home from work I walked up to her room to talk to her about it and I found her having sex with a boy that i had never seen before. I was so angry I dragged her off of him and dragged her downstairs and started yelling at her. I was so mad that when she said ‘at least you know i’m not gay anymore’ I got so angry and I slapped her. She rebels all the time she drinks and she has tried a few drugs such as cocaine, ecstasy and a few more but only when she is drunk at parties. No matter how much I ground her or take her mobile or computer way nothing works. Any thoughts for a mum out of ideas?? Did I over-react or would other mums have done the same thing? I don’t want her to make a mess of her life like I did by getting pregnant. We don’t need therapy she tells me everything (well almost). She said that she kissed the girl for a quarter bottle of vodka, but why would you do that?? Is it normal for teenage girls to do that now? I’m just at my whits end and I feel so bad for pulling her off that kid while having sex. I would have hated my mother to do that to me at her age (and even at my age) so why did I do that??. I’m so angry with myself for letting it get to this stage, any advice on what to do ?? I know she does some stupid things but she does them smart, for example, she has the implant so she cannot get pregnant, and when I pulled her off that kid, I noticed that he had a condom on, so she can’t really be that bad, can she ?

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Please help! Rebel teenage daughter and I don’t know what to do !!?

  • Posted on December 9, 2010 at 1:21 pm

My daughter is 16 years old. I had her when I was very young (14), and now I think she is punishing me for it. I came across a video of her on youtube and she was kissing (with tongue) another girl. I thought she may have been gay and instead of talking to her about it I sent her to her room and told her she could not see any of her girl friends, leave the house or go on the computer (I jumped to conclusions, I was shocked). So last night when I came home from work I walked up to her room to talk to her about it and I found her having sex with a boy that i had never seen before. I was so angry I dragged her off of him and dragged her downstairs and started yelling at her. I was so mad that when she said ‘at least you know i’m not gay anymore’ I got so angry and I slapped her. She rebels all the time she drinks and she has tried a few drugs such as cocaine, ecstasy and a few more but only when she is drunk at parties. No matter how much I ground her or take her mobile or computer way nothing works. Any thoughts for a mum out of ideas?? Did I over-react or would other mums have done the same thing? I don’t want her to make a mess of her life like I did by getting pregnant. We don’t need therapy she tells me everything (well almost). She said that she kissed the girl for a quarter bottle of vodka, but why would you do that?? Is it normal for teenage girls to do that now? I’m just at my whits end and I feel so bad for pulling her off that kid while having sex. I would have hated my mother to do that to me at her age (and even at my age) so why did I do that??. I’m so angry with myself for letting it get to this stage, any advice on what to do ?? I know she does some stupid things but she does them smart, for example, she has the implant so she cannot get pregnant, and when I pulled her off that kid, I noticed that he had a condom on, so she can’t really be that bad, can she ?

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Please help! Rebel teenage daughter and I don’t know what to do !!?

  • Posted on December 8, 2010 at 1:21 pm

My daughter is 16 years old. I had her when I was very young (14), and now I think she is punishing me for it. I came across a video of her on youtube and she was kissing (with tongue) another girl. I thought she may have been gay and instead of talking to her about it I sent her to her room and told her she could not see any of her girl friends, leave the house or go on the computer (I jumped to conclusions, I was shocked). So last night when I came home from work I walked up to her room to talk to her about it and I found her having sex with a boy that i had never seen before. I was so angry I dragged her off of him and dragged her downstairs and started yelling at her. I was so mad that when she said ‘at least you know i’m not gay anymore’ I got so angry and I slapped her. She rebels all the time she drinks and she has tried a few drugs such as cocaine, ecstasy and a few more but only when she is drunk at parties. No matter how much I ground her or take her mobile or computer way nothing works. Any thoughts for a mum out of ideas?? Did I over-react or would other mums have done the same thing? I don’t want her to make a mess of her life like I did by getting pregnant. We don’t need therapy she tells me everything (well almost). She said that she kissed the girl for a quarter bottle of vodka, but why would you do that?? Is it normal for teenage girls to do that now? I’m just at my whits end and I feel so bad for pulling her off that kid while having sex. I would have hated my mother to do that to me at her age (and even at my age) so why did I do that??. I’m so angry with myself for letting it get to this stage, any advice on what to do ?? I know she does some stupid things but she does them smart, for example, she has the implant so she cannot get pregnant, and when I pulled her off that kid, I noticed that he had a condom on, so she can’t really be that bad, can she ?

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Please Help! Rebel Teen, I Don’t Know What To Do !!?

  • Posted on November 19, 2010 at 7:23 pm

My daughter is 16 years old. I had her when I was very young (14), and now I think she is punishing me for it. I came across a video of her on youtube and she was kissing (with tongue) another girl. I thought she may have been gay and instead of talking to her about it I sent her to her room and told her she could not see any of her girl friends, leave the house or go on the computer (I jumped to conclusions, I was shocked). So last night when I came home from work I walked up to her room to talk to her about it and I found her having sex with a boy that I had never seen before. I was so angry I dragged her off of him and dragged her downstairs and started yelling at her. I was so mad that when she said ‘at least you know i’m not gay anymore’ I got so angry and I slapped her. She rebels all the time she drinks and she has tried a few drugs such as cocaine, ecstasy but only when she is drunk at parties (I have searched her room and there is no evidence of drugs). No matter how much I ground her or take her mobile or computer way nothing works. Any thoughts for a mum out of ideas?? Did I over-react or would other mums have done the same thing? I don’t want her to get pregnant I want her to have a good time while she can before she has kids. We don’t need therapy she tells me everything (well almost). She said that she kissed the girl for a quarter bottle of vodka, but why would you do that?? I’m just at my whits end and I feel so bad for pulling her off that kid while having sex. I would have hated my mother to do that to me at her age (and even at my age) so why did I do that??. I’m so angry with myself for letting it get to this stage, any advice on what to do ?? I know she does some stupid things but she does them smart, for example, when I pulled her off that kid, I noticed that he had a condom on, one positive is she is being sensible, please help?

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Please Help! Rebel Teen, I Don’t Know What To Do !!?

  • Posted on November 17, 2010 at 4:22 am

My daughter is 16 years old. I had her when I was very young (14), and now I think she is punishing me for it. I came across a video of her on youtube and she was kissing (with tongue) another girl. I thought she may have been gay and instead of talking to her about it I sent her to her room and told her she could not see any of her girl friends, leave the house or go on the computer (I jumped to conclusions, I was shocked). So last night when I came home from work I walked up to her room to talk to her about it and I found her having sex with a boy that I had never seen before. I was so angry I dragged her off of him and dragged her downstairs and started yelling at her. I was so mad that when she said ‘at least you know i’m not gay anymore’ I got so angry and I slapped her. She rebels all the time she drinks and she has tried a few drugs such as cocaine, ecstasy but only when she is drunk at parties (I have searched her room and there is no evidence of drugs). No matter how much I ground her or take her mobile or computer way nothing works. Any thoughts for a mum out of ideas?? Did I over-react or would other mums have done the same thing? I don’t want her to get pregnant I want her to have a good time while she can before she has kids. We don’t need therapy she tells me everything (well almost). She said that she kissed the girl for a quarter bottle of vodka, but why would you do that?? I’m just at my whits end and I feel so bad for pulling her off that kid while having sex. I would have hated my mother to do that to me at her age (and even at my age) so why did I do that??. I’m so angry with myself for letting it get to this stage, any advice on what to do ?? I know she does some stupid things but she does them smart, for example, when I pulled her off that kid, I noticed that he had a condom on, one positive is she is being sensible, please help?

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Please Help! Rebel Teen, I Don’t Know What To Do !!?

  • Posted on November 16, 2010 at 7:23 am

My daughter is 16 years old. I had her when I was very young (14), and now I think she is punishing me for it. I came across a video of her on youtube and she was kissing (with tongue) another girl. I thought she may have been gay and instead of talking to her about it I sent her to her room and told her she could not see any of her girl friends, leave the house or go on the computer (I jumped to conclusions, I was shocked). So last night when I came home from work I walked up to her room to talk to her about it and I found her having sex with a boy that I had never seen before. I was so angry I dragged her off of him and dragged her downstairs and started yelling at her. I was so mad that when she said ‘at least you know i’m not gay anymore’ I got so angry and I slapped her. She rebels all the time she drinks and she has tried a few drugs such as cocaine, ecstasy but only when she is drunk at parties (I have searched her room and there is no evidence of drugs). No matter how much I ground her or take her mobile or computer way nothing works. Any thoughts for a mum out of ideas?? Did I over-react or would other mums have done the same thing? I don’t want her to get pregnant I want her to have a good time while she can before she has kids. We don’t need therapy she tells me everything (well almost). She said that she kissed the girl for a quarter bottle of vodka, but why would you do that?? I’m just at my whits end and I feel so bad for pulling her off that kid while having sex. I would have hated my mother to do that to me at her age (and even at my age) so why did I do that??. I’m so angry with myself for letting it get to this stage, any advice on what to do ?? I know she does some stupid things but she does them smart, for example, when I pulled her off that kid, I noticed that he had a condom on, one positive is she is being sensible, please help?

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Please Help! Rebel Teen, I Don’t Know What To Do!!?

  • Posted on November 12, 2010 at 7:23 pm

My daughter is 16 years old. I had her when I was very young (14), and now I think she is punishing me for it. I came across a video of her on youtube and she was kissing (with tongue) another girl. I thought she may have been gay and instead of talking to her about it I sent her to her room and told her she could not see any of her girl friends, leave the house or go on the computer (I jumped to conclusions, I was shocked). So last night when I came home from work I walked up to her room to talk to her about it and I found her having sex with a boy that I had never seen before. I was so angry I dragged her off of him and dragged her downstairs and started yelling at her. I was so mad that when she said ‘at least you know i’m not gay anymore’ I got so angry and I slapped her. She rebels all the time she drinks and she has tried a few drugs such as cocaine, ecstasy but only when she is drunk at parties (I have searched her room and there is no evidence of drugs). No matter how much I ground her or take her mobile or computer way nothing works. Any thoughts for a mum out of ideas?? Did I over-react or would other mums have done the same thing? I don’t want her to get pregnant I want her to have a good time while she can before she has kids. We don’t need therapy she tells me everything (well almost). She said that she kissed the girl for a quarter bottle of vodka, but why would you do that?? I’m just at my whits end and I feel so bad for pulling her off that kid while having sex. I would have hated my mother to do that to me at her age (and even at my age) so why did I do that??. I’m so angry with myself for letting it get to this stage, any advice on what to do ?? I know she does some stupid things but she does them smart, for example, when I pulled her off that kid, I noticed that he had a condom on, one positive is she is being sensible, please help?

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Please Help! Rebel Teen, I Don’t Know What To Do !!?

  • Posted on November 5, 2010 at 7:22 pm

My daughter is 16 years old. I had her when I was very young (14), and now I think she is punishing me for it. I came across a video of her on youtube and she was kissing (with tongue) another girl. I thought she may have been gay and instead of talking to her about it I sent her to her room and told her she could not see any of her girl friends, leave the house or go on the computer (I jumped to conclusions, I was shocked). So last night when I came home from work I walked up to her room to talk to her about it and I found her having sex with a boy that I had never seen before. I was so angry I dragged her off of him and dragged her downstairs and started yelling at her. I was so mad that when she said ‘at least you know i’m not gay anymore’ I got so angry and I slapped her. She rebels all the time she drinks and she has tried a few drugs such as cocaine, ecstasy but only when she is drunk at parties (I have searched her room and there is no evidence of drugs). No matter how much I ground her or take her mobile or computer way nothing works. Any thoughts for a mum out of ideas?? Did I over-react or would other mums have done the same thing? I don’t want her to get pregnant I want her to have a good time while she can before she has kids. We don’t need therapy she tells me everything (well almost). She said that she kissed the girl for a quarter bottle of vodka, but why would you do that?? I’m just at my whits end and I feel so bad for pulling her off that kid while having sex. I would have hated my mother to do that to me at her age (and even at my age) so why did I do that??. I’m so angry with myself for letting it get to this stage, any advice on what to do ?? I know she does some stupid things but she does them smart, for example, when I pulled her off that kid, I noticed that he had a condom on, one positive is she is being sensible, please help?

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Please Help! Rebel Teen, I Don’t Know What To Do !!?

  • Posted on November 4, 2010 at 1:23 am

My daughter is 16 years old. I had her when I was very young (14), and now I think she is punishing me for it. I came across a video of her on youtube and she was kissing (with tongue) another girl. I thought she may have been gay and instead of talking to her about it I sent her to her room and told her she could not see any of her girl friends, leave the house or go on the computer (I jumped to conclusions, I was shocked). So last night when I came home from work I walked up to her room to talk to her about it and I found her having sex with a boy that I had never seen before. I was so angry I dragged her off of him and dragged her downstairs and started yelling at her. I was so mad that when she said ‘at least you know i’m not gay anymore’ I got so angry and I slapped her. She rebels all the time she drinks and she has tried a few drugs such as cocaine, ecstasy but only when she is drunk at parties (I have searched her room and there is no evidence of drugs). No matter how much I ground her or take her mobile or computer way nothing works. Any thoughts for a mum out of ideas?? Did I over-react or would other mums have done the same thing? I don’t want her to get pregnant I want her to have a good time while she can before she has kids. We don’t need therapy she tells me everything (well almost). She said that she kissed the girl for a quarter bottle of vodka, but why would you do that?? I’m just at my whits end and I feel so bad for pulling her off that kid while having sex. I would have hated my mother to do that to me at her age (and even at my age) so why did I do that??. I’m so angry with myself for letting it get to this stage, any advice on what to do ?? I know she does some stupid things but she does them smart, for example, when I pulled her off that kid, I noticed that he had a condom on, one positive is she is being sensible, please help?

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