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Reporting someone to child services?

  • Posted on March 2, 2011 at 1:21 pm

I have been debating with myself whether or not I should report someone to child protective services. I was hoping if I gave ya’ll some insight you might be able to help me make my choice. I know a man who has no problem staying up all night long and doing cocaine while his daughter sleeps in the next room. I also know for a fact that his daughter has seen him having sex with at least a couple different women. He has brough several different girls into his daughter’s life in the past year and sees no problem with it. I also know for a fact that he drives drunk with her in the car and also has done cocaine on his armrest while his daughter sleeps in the back seat.

I want to report him to social services but I don’t want him to know it was me and come after me. He’s hurt me physically before and I’m scared.

I know he needs to be reported but I’m really scared of what he’ll do to me. He’s tried to get me fired from my job several times, etc.

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How to get my 17 yo daughter home from staying with her 20 yo boyfriend without reporting her as a runaway?

  • Posted on January 30, 2011 at 9:22 am

Situation: They live in towns about 80 miles apart. She met him 9 months ago and spent time with him.Then he has a fling with an older girl he claims was “just a booty call”. This girl gets pregnant, and decides to have this baby, and raise it on her own. She moves to NY. About a month later my daughter gets pregnant by him also, after much upset she firmly decides to have his baby. Sadly, her pregnancy ends in miscarriage.
She now has dropped out of school, and has him pick her up to stay with him for days at a time. She tells me he is “safer” for her to be with than her girlfriends: “they like to pick fights in bad hoods, drink and drive, and pop pills on the weekend.”
She says he does none of this. He dosen’t have a job, a high school diploma, or drivers license either. She and I have always had a very open and loving relationship, but now she is hostile and verbally abusive when I tell her to come home.
How do I get her to come home short of reporting her as a runaway?

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