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My boyfriends sister is a morally reprehensible person? Is it a dealbreaker?

  • Posted on December 24, 2010 at 5:22 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 yrs, he recently moved from an apartment with his friends back home with his parents until we find a house together. His sister is 27 (we are 23) and she has a 3 yr old daughter whom she is neglectful and abusive towards. My boyfriend is ignorant of the situation, but I know it eats him up inside. His sister had this child by having sex in exchange for drugs, which she told me one night when she was intoxicated, but my boyfriend is basically in denial of this. She is living at home with her parents and they take care of the kid while she boozes and parties. She hooked up with an exboyfriend not too long ago and shortly before she also went to Vegas with me and some of my friends and she slept with two different men. Now she is pregnant and claims it is the ex-boyfriends, and she is supposedly moving in with him. He is also a very wealthy stockbroker, and I’m pretty sure she’s doing it to get her ticket out of the parents house…
It’s also hurtful because I got pregnant by accident 2 yrs ago and had a miscarriage w/ complications and was told I couldnt have kids. Since my boyfriend and I are planning on getting married and we have saved enough for a down payment on a house, we decided to keep trying to have a baby since we knew it could be hard for us. We had three more miscarriages, so it is somewhat of a sore subject for me especially. And it hurts to see his sister using this pregnancy as her meal ticket to being taken care of financially, especially when she abuses the child she already has. I’m at the point of running away screaming, but my boyfriend and I have a wonderful loving relationship, and he is nothing like his psychotic sister, he kind of just got sucked in by moving back in. Now he’s not sure if we can move out because he thinks he may have to help take care of kid # 2 since it may not be the ex-bf’s. I don’t know if it’s worth it to deal with all of his family drama?

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My boyfriend’s sister does morally reprehensible things? Is it a dealbreaker?

  • Posted on November 4, 2010 at 7:23 am

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 yrs, he recently moved from an apartment with his friends back home with his parents until we find a house together. His sister is 27 (we are 23) and she has a 3 yr old daughter whom she is neglectful and abusive towards. My boyfriend is ignorant of the situation, but I know it eats him up inside. His sister had this child by having sex in exchange for drugs, which she told me one night when she was intoxicated, but my boyfriend is basically in denial of this. She is living at home with her parents and they take care of the kid while she boozes and parties. She hooked up with an exboyfriend not too long ago and shortly before she also went to Vegas with me and some of my friends and she slept with two different men. Now she is pregnant and claims it is the ex-boyfriends, and she is supposedly moving in with him. He is also a very wealthy stockbroker, and I’m pretty sure she’s doing it to get her ticket out of the parents house…
It’s also hurtful because I got pregnant by accident 2 yrs ago and had a miscarriage w/ complications and was told I couldnt have kids. Since my boyfriend and I are planning on getting married and we have saved enough for a down payment on a house, we decided to keep trying to have a baby since we knew it could be hard for us. We had three more miscarriages, so it is somewhat of a sore subject for me especially. And it hurts to see his sister using this pregnancy as her meal ticket to being taken care of financially, especially when she abuses the child she already has. I’m at the point of running away screaming, but my boyfriend and I have a wonderful loving relationship, and he is nothing like his psychotic sister, he kind of just got sucked in by moving back in. Now he’s not sure if we can move out because he thinks he may have to help take care of kid # 2 since it may not be the ex-bf’s. I don’t know if it’s worth it to deal with all of his family drama?

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