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what are my rights!!!please help!!!!?

  • Posted on September 1, 2010 at 8:17 pm

okay, i am living with my ex-husband, i put a stop on child support because we are trying to work our problems out, i have since moved back in with him, (a little history) i had an apartment, had a good job,in another city. i moved back in with him moved to another city,quit my job gave up my apartment, he has an alcohol problem(hence the divorce) we were divorced 2 yrs. he went through a halfway house, went to aa, while in the halfway house he did great, he has been out for about a year, in the meantime we have purchased and remodeled this house, got his business back on track, its been a bumpy road, well now the problem is i divorced him because of his drinking it was not the kind of environment i wanted to raise our daughter, but now the drinking is worse, our daughter is older and now understands whats going on, he disappears for like weeks at a time. he is on drugs now, the problem is worse. to help with everything i sold the car i had, i have since been driving a company car, i took all my 401 k and tied up in this house. its in his name only,1st mistake! now i want to get my daughter out of this situation, i have asked that he buy me a car, and give some of my money back, he tells me there is no money!! i can get the records of the checks i wrote to the company to show what i invested, i have the copies of the paperwork when i sold my car through his carlot, he wants or expects me to move with nothing he just threatened that the some of the checks i have wrote paying the bills and mortgage with his ck account that i signed he was going after me for signing his name, reporting the company car stolen, and he wont pay anymore bills on the house, now a couple weeks ago, i caught him in a motel with another woman, while he was on his binge. i have tried talking like adults to him, i dont want to live like this, this is not a good situation for our daughter,she saw also, he is blaming me!!! now i have never done drugs, and dont have an alcohol problem, i want out of this mess, is there anything legally i can do? since i moved i have been helping him with his carlot and taking care of our child. i feel like im going crazy when he left over a week ago he didnt leave us any money, i called him and asked for some he told me to go to hell, but yesterday called and said he was buying a whole new wardrobe, but there is no money, he says he doesnt have any!!! by law can he report this vehicle stolen? i have been driving this car for about 2 weeks, i change car frequently(hence carlot), can i get in trouble if i pawn anything in the house?(hence money) my family is out of state, i have nobody here to help me, he has his family here and they are siding with him, i expect that, but what are my rights!!! is there any thing or any suggestions on what to do? i will be going to reopen the child support, its been 3yrs since i closed it, i dont know what to do its like because he is so screwed up its all my fault, i feel like if he doesn’t want to be here and doesn’t want us here do the right thing!! am i being unreasonable? as wanting money and a decent car to be able to leave! i know its not my fault because he is a screw up and has a drinking and drug problem, more than i can deal with my daughter is scared of him, thank god he hasnt been home. what can i do to help protect us, i cant change the locks, it takes money, help!!!!

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