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I have serious internet addiction, and it’s ruining my life.?

  • Posted on April 14, 2011 at 7:21 pm

I lost my wife, my job, and my 4 sons and 3 daughters because of my addiction. i’m now living with my mom until i can find another job. i’m using my mom’s laptop right now. My wife tried for years to get me help, but i refused her help because i didn’t think i had a problem back then. i beat my kids several times for saying i have a problem and that’s why my wife and kids left me. i can’t stop crying right now. all i do on the internet is watch youtube and play runescape. i’m on for over 14 hours daily. i got so fat and ugly, i hate my body and my life.

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I have serious internet addiction, and it’s ruining my life.?

  • Posted on April 9, 2011 at 4:21 am

I lost my wife, my job, and my 4 sons and 3 daughters because of my addiction. i’m now living with my mom until i can find another job. i’m using my mom’s laptop right now. My wife tried for years to get me help, but i refused her help because i didn’t think i had a problem back then. i beat my kids several times for saying i have a problem and that’s why my wife and kids left me. i can’t stop crying right now. all i do on the internet is watch youtube and play runescape. i’m on for over 14 hours daily. i got so fat and ugly, i hate my body and my life.

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My sister (the whore) is ruining my marriage.. Please help..?

  • Posted on August 10, 2010 at 3:21 am

My sister is married and her husband just moved out a month ago, They separated because she is screwed up and cannot get herself together. He left and she acted devastated. She should have won an oscar. They have a daughter who is at my house because her mother (my sister) took off with his old roommate from college to New York and does not want anyone to know where she is. I have to lie to her husband about where she is and he does not even know that I have his daughter with me. He thinks that she took their daughter with her. He does not know that she is strung out on oxycontin’s.. If I tell him that his daughter was with me and she was gone, she will lose custody of her. It has been 5 days since I have even heard form her. At what point do I cross the line and tell on your sister for being a screwed up parent? When she gets sober will she ever forgive me?
Okay, she has been gone for a little over a week. Her husband thinks they went to my mothers up north and that is not true. I have not kidnapped her child from her father. I was asked to watch her while she went out of town and not to say where she is.
And she is ruining my marriage because all my husband want sto do at this point is kill me because I am doing this. He will not even speak to me.

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My dads alcoholism is ruining my family.?

  • Posted on January 8, 2010 at 4:07 pm

I am a single mum and still living with my family ( Mum, Dad, and brother ).
My dad is an alcoholic and my mum has got depression and bi polar. Me and mum have been promised countless times by dad that he will stop drinking, we have learnt to just ignore it.
EVERYTHING revolves around dads drinking, It has made my mum mentally unwell, she is currently in psychiatric hospital for the 2nd time in 3 months, the 1st time she was only home for a month before she went back in.. she just couldnt handle it at home.
They have finacial difficultys, dad doesnt help around the house because hes always too busy drinking.. When we bring it up dad gets really angry and starts accusing us of having the problem. He doesnt even think he has an alcohol problem. He goes to work everyday and says he works for his money so he can spend it on whatever he wants.
My mum has got to the point she wants to kill herself because she has simply had enough.. She is currently on suicide watch at the hospital for this reason.. its heartbreaking..
I dont know what to do, i am trying to look after the house / bills aswell as look after my 2 year old daughter…
Mum thinks leaving dad isnt an option.. she loves him… and of course i would be devastated to see him or mum leave.
There is so much stress around home at the moment worrying about my mum, and making sure the bills are paid and the mortgage so we dont loose the house that my periods are all over the place, it stopped not long ago for over 4 months..
I dont know what to do, do i sit back and watch my family fall apart and my mum kill herself, what can i do!! absolutely nothing works. We have tried resenting him… nothing..
I also feel guilty telling dad to stop his drinking because he had a hard childhood, and a hard life..and i think it has contributed to it.. and he often talks about how shit his life is… i dont wanna make it worse for him.. Im just worried im gunna loose my family or my mum =(
My dad would never in a million years go to rehab or counselling because he doesnt even think he has a problem

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