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The things that my alcoholic mother says and does hurt really bad. How do I help my family and myself?

  • Posted on April 23, 2011 at 6:18 pm

She left me in Mexico with my grandparents when I was a child. At the age of 18 I came to the USA looking for a mom, I found an alcoholic mother who always had a mess in her house. I joined the Army and left. I have a 7 year old daughter but got divorced 3 years ago. I came to live at my mom’s house in California after my divorce and took half of all expenses. My mom’s husband past away a year ago and she lost her house to a foreclosure. Now her, my brother and sister live with me. She drinks every day, the arguments have gotten worse every day specially because I don’t want a mess in my house and I don’t want to see her drunk in my house. Finally today we had the biggest argument, I don’t think I will ever speak to her again and I want her out of my life already. What should I do? I do have heart and feel bad, but this toxic environment everyday is driving me crazy!

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My husband says if I’d have went with him, he wouldn’t have got so drunk…?

  • Posted on March 25, 2011 at 11:24 am

I know I’m now his babysitter, and I have responsibilities at the house (he wanted me to bring our child with us when she needed to do schoolwork). He made his choices, and I made mine. I chose to not go to my family’s get together because of my prior commitments for the past weekend. I suspect there being something mixed in with his drinks or that there was a bad reaction with his medications, he says he drank a lot more than he remembered drinking after calling someone else who was there. I still don’t trust the situation. The guy could have been telling him that he went off alone with someone else or did something else, but my husband told me supposedly what the guy said. If my husband was accurately truthful, then all he did was he went out for a long time on a bad note with me. To me, that is not faithfulness and comittment to the marriage and our family and our plans we had which we ditched. He says he is sorry. He had me worried about him and I thought he could have alcohol poisoning or something else, which is serious, and also especially since I did not know where he was and could not come pick his sorry but up and check on the situation to make sure if a promiscuous woman was taking advantage of him or not or if he was acting wrong otherwise. I don’t think I could have stopped him even if I had been there, or even if I had made ultimatums before he left. He has had another time years ago he left me stranded at a hotel for I don’t know how many hours while he was supposedly test driving the car for problems. He supposedly went to his partying relatives house (in the daytime). But I still have suspicions that something else may have gone on, even if he did go to those particular relatives. I didn’t want him to put me in another situation and worse to involve our daughter with seeing a bunch of drunks or people cursing and stuff…..
My questions are these: Do you think I did anything wrong by not going with him and by not getting myself and our child stuck in this situation with him? Do you think he is right that he would not have gotten so messed up if I had been there with our child? And can you understand (even if you don’t agree) how I see this as being not faithfully committed to the family, even if he was accurately truthful and did not do something sexual with another woman?
Sorry this is so long, but please try to read before answering….

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Joe once says to Mike. My elbow hurt like hell.?

  • Posted on March 18, 2011 at 1:21 pm

So, Mike took him to a Diagnostic Computer that printed Joe’s problem exactly.
It printed

“You have tennis elbow.
Soak your arm in warm water
Avoid heavy activity.
It will improve in two weeks”

Joe thought of fooling the computer so he mixed some tap water,a stool sample from his dog,urine samples from his wife and daughter,and a sperm sample for good measure and poured it into the machine. The machine printed these

1. Your tap water is too hard.Get a water softener.
2. Your dog has ringworm.Bathe him with anti-fungal shampoo.
3. Your daughter has a cocaine habit.Get her into rehab.
4. Your wife is pregnant.Twins.They aren’t yours.Get a lawyer.
5. If you don’t stop playing with yourself,your elbow will never get better.

BYE – Imtiyaz G

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i have a friend who’s 16 year old daughter was caught smoking pot. what would you say to her when she says…

  • Posted on January 16, 2011 at 10:20 pm

i would never do man-made drugs (meth, crank etc…) what’s wrong with smoking weed? i like the way it makes me feel. when her daughter asked why she should stop, her mom told her because i said so. well that was not good enough. she has been caught smoking weed with friends and in her backyard.
thanks so much for all the answers. her mom did have her take a drug test and she didn’t hesitate to admit she is smoking pot. it’s almost like she is proud of the fact that she smokes.

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i have a friend who’s 16 year old daughter was caught smoking pot. what would you say to her when she says…

  • Posted on January 15, 2011 at 11:20 pm

i would never do man-made drugs (meth, crank etc…) what’s wrong with smoking weed? i like the way it makes me feel. when her daughter asked why she should stop, her mom told her because i said so. well that was not good enough. she has been caught smoking weed with friends and in her backyard.
thanks so much for all the answers. her mom did have her take a drug test and she didn’t hesitate to admit she is smoking pot. it’s almost like she is proud of the fact that she smokes.

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my mom says i’ll be an alcoholic when i’m older?

  • Posted on November 12, 2010 at 12:18 pm

i told her the wine at church tasted good, and she says, “great, now my daughter’s gonna be an alcoholic”

does liking wine mean i’ll be an alcoholic?

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Do you beleive this drunk illegal alien lawyer says had no intention of stealing the car with woman & child?

  • Posted on October 5, 2010 at 11:26 pm

Do you beleive this drunk illegal alien lawyer says had no intention of stealing the car with woman & child inside ?An illegal Mexican immigrant was drunk last month when he got into a car in Murrysville with a woman and her 10-year-old daughter and had no intention of hijacking the vehicle, his defense attorney said in court Tuesday.

District Judge Charles Conway of Murrysville dropped a robbery charge against Noe Tovar Baltazar but held him for trial on attempted robbery following a preliminary hearing.

The 23-year-old illegal alien is being held in the Westmoreland County Prison because he could not post the $20,000 bond. Federal authorities have lodged a detainer against Baltazar, who likely will be deported to Mexico once the case against him is completed.

Public Defender L.A. Smith argued that because he was intoxicated on March 18, Baltazar had no intention of stealing the car occupied by Rachel Reidel and her daughter, who were parked at the Village of Murrysville plaza.

“This clearly did not happen,” Smith told the judge. “The man obviously doesn’t understand English and the customs and culture of our country. He may be looking for a ride.”

Assistant District Attorney Mike Pacek said Baltazar attempted to reach for the steering wheel or the keys. That proves Baltazar’s intention, he said.

“In any culture, a man getting into a car with a woman and child is unacceptable. No culture in the world would accept that,” Pacek said. “He intended to get a ride from these ladies — if necessary, by force.”

The diminutive Baltazar sat quietly next to Smith listening to the testimony as an intepreter translated.

Charles Hirschy testified he was sitting in his car in the parking lot waiting for his wife when he saw Baltazar “come out of nowhere.” Baltazar was standing behind Reidel’s car and began to move along the passenger side, he said.

“I was watching him. He slowly moved to the passenger’s side … and began to walk to the side of the car,” he testified.

Hirschy said Baltazar opened the door and got into the car where the girl was sitting. He said Reidel got out of the car screaming.

“I heard her say, ‘This is a carjacking,’ or something to that effect,” Hirschy testified.

Murrysville police Officer Christopher Smith testified the girl attacked Baltazar.

“She started to scream, kick and actually elbow the man in the stomach,” Smith said.

Baltazar fled toward the rear of the plaza where another officer found him crouching behind a Dumpster, Smith said. He was taken into custody and was identified by Reidel, her daughter and Hirschy.

Smith said a subsequent investigation revealed that Baltazar was an illegal alien.

http://www.pittsburghlive.com/x/pittsburghtrib/news/westmoreland/s_675224.html

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a court order says my ex is not to be alone with my daughter unsupervised?

  • Posted on September 13, 2010 at 9:20 am

I had not at the time proven patarnity so they gave custody to my ex`s parants.because my ex tested POS. for meth.but as soon as they walked out of the courtroom my daughter was given back to my ex by the gdranparants.my question is . is that not contempt of court? since my ex and my daughter dosnt live with the grandparants? and how do I go about getting this brought to the attention of the court. I have witness`es who will testifyto this fact
I was not on the birth certificate.so the court gave custody. to the parantsof my ex but I have proven to be the father by dna testing I do have A lawyer but it takes time to get into court . mean while my daughter is living alone with her against the court order.can I go directly to the DA and file this so it is on record? or do I have to wait for the busy lawyer?

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I caught my husband eating Chittlens, apparently he is addicted to eating them and says he can not stop?

  • Posted on September 2, 2010 at 10:22 pm

Should I fear for the life of my daughter, what if late at night he wakes up in a Chittlen craze cant find any and goes after our little Chittlen? Do you think he will be able to control himself, or should I leave him just to be safe?

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Ex has our daughter every other weekend. her stepmother treats her badly. and says daddy drinks and drives.?

  • Posted on August 6, 2010 at 1:22 am

My 7 year old daughter has been going to see her dad everyother weekend for over 6 years.Over the past 3 years her stepmother since she had her baby has been horrible to her. She yells at her. Lies to her father to get her in trouble. drops her off at grandparents to get family pics done without her. I have talked to her father over and over. He says he wont leave her and be a weekend dad. She tells my daughter i put dirty cloths on her. I got an ex parte motion for suspended visitation. He says wont will and it will blow up in my face. My daughter aslo just told me he drinks and drives with her in the car. How do i prove all of this stuff. I cant afford a lawyer He also got a dwi a few years back. and is way behind on child suppot. He thinks the law dosnt include him. Please help me.

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