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Daughter told her father after 2 years why she cut her self.?

  • Posted on November 18, 2010 at 1:21 pm

My daughter finally told her dad why she cut herself 2 years ago.
She said she was doing and selling drugs, meth and cocaine. She also had S with the drug dealer twice. She said she cut herself because she was so angry with herself about it, she claims she does not do it anymore. I’m not going to say anything to her about it, I will wait for her to tell me or let me know when she is ready to talk about it. It’s one of the hardest things ever.

How do I know she has stopped? Is it possible to be on drugs like that and not have any help to come off them?

I probably sound like a horrible mother, but for the life of me, I cannot figure out when and how she did all this, I thought I new where she was all the time. She did online school and then went to a vocational school for 3-4 hours each day during the day, then came home, always on time. Never went out on the weekends, never went to movies with friends, she hates to talk on the phone. This is why I’m so stumped! Could she have really done all this during her 3 hours at the vocational school, sell, do and have sex?

**** Please no – Mean Comments on this, this is serious! ***

daughter is now 18 so it happened about 16 yrs old

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I thought self mutilation disqualified somebody for military service?

  • Posted on October 12, 2010 at 4:17 pm

My bf is ex-army and I have a baby together and he wants to get married( I don’t if I want that). He doesn’t want his ex but he kisses her ass and acts like she is normal and wants to go into the army for normal reasons. Honestly, she isn’t intelligent, pretty or kind and I have helped him take care of his children with her a lot(and I have an older child) and they have some serious emotional problems. She has expressed regret for leaving him but when he and I were completely uninvolved and they were living in Ft. Stewart she harassed me and smashed his cell phone to pieces, she destroyed other property with a hammer. He married her because she was pregnant, but then she hid an entire second preg from him and everybody including her twin and binge-drank alcohol (while they lived on base) and just popped out a secret vodka baby one day. She had sought no prenatal health care even though her first baby had been born via c-section. She also cheated on him with another soldier(even took out a secret loan for the guy and asked her husband to pay it). Yeah it is all bs. She has time and again expressed regrets from the past and the very little time she has the kids, she returns them filthy-recently not even brushing her daughter’s hair even though she had lice. They actually like me but act traumatized over gettings baths for one thing. The 3 yr old slaps and bites herself over the smallest things. The 6 year old works herself into hysteria over small things.The only time she didn’t physically abuse him(she has punched him in the face and called the Mps, wrapped a cord around his neck and called the Mps was the brief period she took prozac(not within the past year). I don’t think I’ll stick around much more. He acts like she wants to join the Army for some other reason than to be close to him. She completely uses the children to manipulate him and at the same, time acts very resentful about spending time with the children. She had a suicide attempt two years ago and had to be taken to the hospital to get her stomach pumped. Does the military often let suicidal candidates in? Should they really be training someone like that on a weapon? She leaves for boot camp in Missouri next month. She’ll be working with Forklifts. I just feel bad for the kids-mine included.
Sorry if you didn’t like the story but it is what it is, just wondering. I don’t think she is a responsible person but then again, I think she may be a danger and it would still be sad to me if something like boot camp further broke the psyche of someone so delicate, it could be further damaging to the children.
Unfortunately, her husband never pressed charges even though the mps asked him.
The recruiter pushed her through, she leaves for Basic April 26.
The recruiter pushed her through, she leaves for Basic April 26.
The recruiter pushed her through, she leaves for basic April 26, she did all her tests.

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is this self defense? will my son go to jail?

  • Posted on September 23, 2010 at 3:24 am

My son (twenty two) and his younger sister (fourteen) were at a restaurant having dinner together. My son said he got up and walked over to the bar to get a beer an when he returned an older Guy in his thirties was sitting next to his baby sister with his arm around her (he was intoxicated) and he would not get up or let go of his sister. My son grabbed him and shoved him to the floor an warned him she was 14 an not to touch her. He got up and got into my sons face and started yelling explitives at my son and my daughter. My son assaulted him and ultimately broke his eye socket. My son was NOT intoxicated in fact he had not even took a drink of his beer. He was just being over protective of hos sister because he was basically trying to sexually assault my daughter and in my opinion he protected his sister and I’m not proud of him but I’m also not angry. The police did not arrest him……is he likely to face charges in the future.

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anyone with loved one or self who goes on cocaine, crack, alcohol binges?? help!!!?

  • Posted on July 25, 2010 at 4:06 pm

someone goes on binge drug/alcohol getaways about twice per month. gets the high, then comes home after two days, sleeps 24 hours.
doesnt seem to really want help. been diagnosed with O.C.D .
has two kids & wife.
a.a. doesnt help, therapy doesnt help.
31 yr old male.
works from home on the computer. makes $3,000 per week.
daughter cant decide how to stop her hubby and save his life. anyone had this happen?? any suggestions.
no drugs at home. !!!! never !!! also spends several hundred dollars while gone. when cant get the car, he gets a taxi & sells/trades stuff like dvrs etc from house!!!
trades his expensive watches & trades use of his saab (car), to crack heads!!!! what suggestions have u??? seriously besides leaving him?? he is good provider, loving dad and husband , other than this bs!!!
he is gone again, he walked off !!
its 10pm next day.

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My Daughter is addicted to yahoo answers. Is there a self help group or something available bring her back.?

  • Posted on January 1, 2010 at 6:56 pm

She wont even go christmas shopping or out to dinner or even answere the phoine..

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