I reside in Chicago, IL but lived in Indiana forever. My daughter who 17 has a childhood best friend who is 16 that is still in Indiana. I know the mom well and she is a party girl and skank. Yet, she is professional and I thought she was different at home. She has 6 children and is not involved in their lives like I am in my children’s life. So, I never questioned when my daughter spent the night there.
I just found out from my oldest daughter that my 17 year old called her drunk….drunk dialing. I confronted my 17 year old daughter and she began to cry hard. I found out this drinking started at their house when she was about 14!!!! It has been a long night for me. I told she is not to associate with them any longer, she is to remove them from Facebook, MySpace, and not to call them because I would be checking the phone bill. I hate to ruin a relationship that has been this long when the other mother is buying them alcohol. My daughter told me the other mother asked what they wanted and she would go to the liquor store and get what they wanted. After more interrogation the mom and her fiance’ had a fight New Years Eve and everyone was drunk. She packed my daughter and her 6 children in her van and drove them to a hotel! The mom was drunk and driving with my daughter. I did ream my daughter for not calling me to come get her!
So, what can I do? Do I go to the police and file a report and risk getting my daughter in trouble? She did drink it and could have said no. Could my daughter get in trouble?
Do I report the mom to Child Protective Services? So, then I wonder if the mom has to be caught in the act before the police or CPS do anything? Should I let sleeping dogs lie and not allow my daughter back to their home?
Frantic Mom!!!
