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SEXPOT DAUGHTER. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH ALREADY! AM I BEING IRRATIONAL OR IS THERE A WAY TO DEAL W/ THIS?

  • Posted on February 9, 2011 at 11:23 am

Ok. I keep trying to ask this w/out writing a book but it’s hard. My lover of 6 years is in his 50s. I’m in my 30s. We have a wonderful relationship & an awesome, active sex life. We love each other. My lover has been married 2x. His 1st wife had 3 kids but then left him for someone else, and he married the second woman on the rebound. He and his second wife never got along it was a mistake. He could never make her happy. He had his vasectomy reversed thinking kids would make her happy, but after she had a boy and a girl things only got worse, so he left. The kids from the second marriage hated him for leaving. And, as you may imagine, when we started dating and became very close, they hated me. That was then. Now his oldest daughter from the second marriage is 17, will turn 18 later this month. She’s had probs since she became a teenager. She started doing drugs and sleeping around. She was put into a psych hospital and later put in a rehab school for 9 months (it cost 30,000K & was her mom’s idea plus none of it was covered by health insurance b/c though it is a rehab it is classified as a “private school” to keep the child’s records from being tainted). Her father paid for her to have a $14000 truck on her 16th birthday which was subsequently totalled. Most recently, she fell out of a tree drunk and broke a vertebrae & then “got physical” with her mother and that’s when her mom called her dad & asked him to let her move in w/ him. Now she’s living with him. I moved out so we wouldn’t be shacking up around her. She’s stopped screwing everyone she meets so she has a boyfriend who her dad thinks is worthless (he’s got a wrap she for burglary of occupied structure & his license is suspended but before he found that out he’d been driving her around), but at least he’s one person even if he is 27 and she’s turning 18 this month. Her insurance, which is not full coverage is $300 a month, b/c she’s had so many crashes and wreckless tickets. I personally think she should not have just been given a second car w/out showing some sort of initiative like getting a part time job. Even if it is 10 hours a week. The next thing is she wears clothes that cut her crotch front and back, for which she gets sent home from school. Recently her dad gave her a credit card for emergencies only, but she’d managed to wrack up $500 in expenses for nothing (fast food, gas station, cigarettes–yes, she smokes) in about 2 weeks. He had to cancel the card. He found that she has forged his name on Saturday school notices. He let her have a beer or glass of wine once in a while in his presence so now she’s started coming home from her weekend escapades with her wine coolers (she prefers them to beer-as if that’s legal). He drinks beer & so do I, but mainly on the weekend when she’s gone. Her father & I happened to notice her myspace once when the computer was left on, and she’s got on little jean shorts, a crop top is poking out her boobs (which are tiny) and is a full length photo she is tall and slender, but complains about her nose being crooked and huge (which she’s right, but she can always change it as an adult if she wants to fix it–it’s not the end of the world). Her dad said that based on her promiscuity and her choice of clothing and her worship my body photos, he complains she thinks she’s “hot ****” and if she won’t get a job he worries she’ll eventually turn to porn or stripping since she is so focused on her body rather than anything else in her life. Her boyfriend is all about sex. Her music about sex. Her clothes about sex. But I defended her saying it was a phase, and I try to listen to her. I do her nails. I did like her but something’s changed. I mentioned that I moved out so she could be w/ her dad w/out me around. I was happy to. But now that I see her manipulating her situation, I am mad, maybe a bit jealous, which I don’t like even in myself. But she’s living in what I knew as my home, and she’s treating her father and me more disrespectful more just using us. The other day I went over with her father to walk our dog. We went for abt an hour then came back. She was laying on the couch watching Maury w/ a sports bra and men’s boxer shorts so thin and white I could see the color of her skin through them and they were rolled down to her pubic bone. Way down. Who the hell is that for? To irritate me? To make me jealous or feel disrespected or to question the appropriateness of what goes on there b/c it’s totally inappropriate to dress like that in front of company & I only come over when she’s there to cook them dinner, walk w/ him and the dog, or help with a project, or do her nails. I’m at my place during her school week, and if he and I drink a beer together, we do it w/out her at the pub. I was angry with her & him. Enough is enough. He didn’t notice it and said I was overreacting b/c she was at home & is comfortable around us. But see, I don’t want her to feel that comfortable with me. It makes me uncomfortable. I

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