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After the father of my child and I split up I slept with his cousin, now we are talking again,should I tell hi

  • Posted on May 13, 2011 at 8:20 pm

He and I were together for 3 yrs. he was addicted to meth and abusive, I had our daughter and decided to leave him, his cousin always liked me and I kinda liked him, So we had a one nightstand, that was 5mos. ago. Now my ex and I are talking about getting back together, Should I tell him?Or keep it a secret and have a chat with his cousin and tell him to keep it secret too?I really need help!I can’t sleep at night.My heart is saying be honest, and my mind is sayin if I love him just let go and let God, and hope for the best,Help Please!

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I haven’t slept with my husband since November…?

  • Posted on September 5, 2010 at 11:17 am

We’re both almost 21 and have a 10 1/2 month old daughter. We just got married June 13th ’06 when he joined the army, he left for basic training in July. He got back from his training in October, and then in November we moved from Iowa to Washington state. The move was really stressful for both of us, but he has a bad anger problem and took everything out on me. After all of that, I have not been able to be intimate with him or affectionate and just seem to go about my day to day tasks of taking care of the family. He still has an anger problem, and binge drinks on the weekends and acts like a jerk. He can be really nice sometimes though, but I just can’t bring myself to show him a whole lot of physical affection. He is deploying April 15th and I think that has something to do with it too. What should I do? Should I just give in and do it and maybe I will feel better about being intimate with him again? Could him not having sex be making him kind of a jerk sometimes?
Just some extra info after reading a few answers:
He refuses to go to counseling. And I tell him how I feel about the way he acts and the things he does and how it affects me, but that doesn’t seem to do anything. He has impulse control problems and he can be really selfish.

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I haven’t slept with my husband since November…?

  • Posted on August 28, 2010 at 4:17 pm

We’re both almost 21 and have a 10 1/2 month old daughter. We just got married June 13th ’06 when he joined the army, he left for basic training in July. He got back from his training in October, and then in November we moved from Iowa to Washington state. The move was really stressful for both of us, but he has a bad anger problem and took everything out on me. After all of that, I have not been able to be intimate with him or affectionate and just seem to go about my day to day tasks of taking care of the family. He still has an anger problem, and binge drinks on the weekends and acts like a jerk. He can be really nice sometimes though, but I just can’t bring myself to show him a whole lot of physical affection. He is deploying April 15th and I think that has something to do with it too. What should I do? Should I just give in and do it and maybe I will feel better about being intimate with him again? Could him not having sex be making him kind of a jerk sometimes?
Just some extra info after reading a few answers:
He refuses to go to counseling. And I tell him how I feel about the way he acts and the things he does and how it affects me, but that doesn’t seem to do anything. He has impulse control problems and he can be really selfish.

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I haven’t slept with my husband since November…?

  • Posted on August 27, 2010 at 8:17 pm

We’re both almost 21 and have a 10 1/2 month old daughter. We just got married June 13th ’06 when he joined the army, he left for basic training in July. He got back from his training in October, and then in November we moved from Iowa to Washington state. The move was really stressful for both of us, but he has a bad anger problem and took everything out on me. After all of that, I have not been able to be intimate with him or affectionate and just seem to go about my day to day tasks of taking care of the family. He still has an anger problem, and binge drinks on the weekends and acts like a jerk. He can be really nice sometimes though, but I just can’t bring myself to show him a whole lot of physical affection. He is deploying April 15th and I think that has something to do with it too. What should I do? Should I just give in and do it and maybe I will feel better about being intimate with him again? Could him not having sex be making him kind of a jerk sometimes?
Just some extra info after reading a few answers:
He refuses to go to counseling. And I tell him how I feel about the way he acts and the things he does and how it affects me, but that doesn’t seem to do anything. He has impulse control problems and he can be really selfish.

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I haven’t slept with my husband since November…?

  • Posted on August 27, 2010 at 12:17 am

We’re both almost 21 and have a 10 1/2 month old daughter. We just got married June 13th ’06 when he joined the army, he left for basic training in July. He got back from his training in October, and then in November we moved from Iowa to Washington state. The move was really stressful for both of us, but he has a bad anger problem and took everything out on me. After all of that, I have not been able to be intimate with him or affectionate and just seem to go about my day to day tasks of taking care of the family. He still has an anger problem, and binge drinks on the weekends and acts like a jerk. He can be really nice sometimes though, but I just can’t bring myself to show him a whole lot of physical affection. He is deploying April 15th and I think that has something to do with it too. What should I do? Should I just give in and do it and maybe I will feel better about being intimate with him again? Could him not having sex be making him kind of a jerk sometimes?
Just some extra info after reading a few answers:
He refuses to go to counseling. And I tell him how I feel about the way he acts and the things he does and how it affects me, but that doesn’t seem to do anything. He has impulse control problems and he can be really selfish.

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