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child custody war….mom drops off daughter car smells of pot what do i do?

  • Posted on February 25, 2011 at 11:22 pm

my ex and I are in the course of a custody battle for our 6 year old daughter…he res the facts. her mom got me on default back in 07 when i was fresh out of the army because they served me crazy papers wanting spousal support and me to pay for her lawyer…even though we were only married for 11 months. I said I wouldn’t sign it and she said give her a week or two and she’d have thw lawyer draw up a new set of papers. Well the lawyer kept stalling me then filed me default. Her mom now has 100% on paper custody both legal and pyshical. until dec of 08 her mom and her lived in AZ, but have moved back here to CA. We now split her schedule and since Dec I have actually had her more than 50%. Her mother however has not reported this to dept of child support and so I am payinng $1200 a month child support as well as having her more than half time. When they moved back my mother let her stay with her rent free as I live with my GF now. In the last month my ex has moved in with a hells angel, and taken my daughter to several hells angel functions and now my daughter thinks hells angels are cool. Last night her mother wanted to see her I said ok, but that she had trouble sleeping the night before and i wanted her to goto bed early. her normal bed time is apporx 830 because she is epilleptic and needs more sleep than most. Her mom did not show up till 815 then used her paper power to keep my daughter out till 940 and bought her ice cream and other sugary deserts. when she returned with our daughter the truck reaked of marijuana and my daughter was in a tired mess as soon as she left, crying for 45 minutes mad at everything until finally falling asleep. On another occasion my gf was watching my daughter as an army ranger buddy i have was in town and i went to have a beer and talk about his recent deployment. My ex was at the bar made a sexual pass at me and when i shot her down flipped out and drove to my house we followed her there where she demanded our daughter that moment. As she was drunk I would not let her take the child at 1 am in the morning. We have mediation on the 24 of Aug. should I wait till then to brinng it up? should i call cps? is that a major bad idea with her hells angels bf? is there nothing I can do? I am not afraid to fight for my daughter no matter who her mother is with but sometimes straight up the middle isnt the best approach. Please help. Her mother lives over 100 mile away now and soon school will start and if i dont have this handled my daughter will go live with her and i will only be able to be with her every other weekend. I cant afford legal council. a couple of other incidents; her mother missed her neurology appoinment even after i reminded her the day before. it takes 1 month to get an appointment and was an emergency situation . on one occasion the child had 3 seizures and was taken to er. The doctor siad she would be ok but needed minimal mental stimulation. we all left the hospital at about 715 pm, and i let my ex take our daughter because thats what our daughter wanted( girls love their moms) under the understanding that they would drive back to my mothers house and put the child to bed….instead my ex went to my mothers packed a bag and drove 100 miles on a two lane rode against oncoming traffic in the dark to go see her bf, where my daughter was forced to sleep on an air matress on the ground in the same room as a 7 month old.My daughter had 7 more seizures that night and her mother never even let me know.
i have a attorney i can speak with but I cant afford to hire him on for defense…I know that its hard to get custody but my fear is I call cps and the take the kid but dont give her to me because Im not a custody parent to start with.
ok so both have answered the same….i thought i was clear but i guess not…I cant afford a lawyer…I am an out of wrok electrician waiting for the union, my unempoyment right now is 1200 a month my child support is 1200…I cant afford a lawyer……I know I should get a lawyer Im asking for an anwser beyond that….should i call cps?

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Am I the only one that smells a rat in the Anna Nicole Smith relationship with Howard Stern?

  • Posted on January 15, 2011 at 10:21 pm

The Bahamian Registrar’s Office has listed Stern, Smith’s longtime legal sidekick turned paramour, as the father of her month-old daughter on the girl’s birth certificate.

In the lawsuit, Birkhead claimed, among other particularly damning accusations, that he was the father of the baby girl, that Smith (whose legal name is Vicky Lynn Marshall) has a methadone addiction facilitated by Stern, that Stern is claiming to be the father for reasons of financial gain, and that the mourning mother fled to the Bahamas to give birth to avoid routine drug testing for her and her daughter.

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