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I have a son and a daughter with ex husband, but he only wants our son. Help!

  • Posted on November 6, 2010 at 2:17 am

Okay, this one is a bit tricky folks…
I left when I was pregnant with my daughter and had a 2 year old son. I have had to deal with my ex husband totally ignoring our daughter’s existence for the past 7 years but wanting to have visitation with our son only. Paternity test done so no doubt about him being her dad. I moved out of state about 3 years ago, and have had to drive several hours up to drop off son on Friday night and then back Sunday night every other weekend with BOTH kids with me because I didn’t have anyone to watch my daughter. Ex husband would be within inches of our daughter each and every time and not even say hello or look at her. My ex husband was ordered into counsling to deal with this issue at time of divorce, because he stated then that he wanted no contact with her, but wanted to remain in his son’s life. He has not followed that order. I have begged him both on phone and written long letters over and over to be in his daughters life, to no avail. I recently stopped taking my son up there and told my ex that until he gets help I am no longer going along with this patholigical behaviour. I realize this means my son is without his dad, but overall my son seems to be okay because I have been totally honest and open with him and his sister and my son seems to be more concerned about his little sis and her well being,then not seeing his dad. So the question is, is am I wrong for suspending the visits with the father with my son? I just can’t take it anymore of going up there and my ex acting like his beautiful little girl isn’t even there in the room. I don’t have anyone to watch her so this is NOT an option. Even if I did, I feel like me continuing to support this jerk choosing only one of his children makes me accountable to my children for not stopping this sickness. My ex is an alcoholic as well. I already know that I am in violation of the divorce order but so is he, so that is not really my concern as much as the emotional/psycological aspect on my kids. I have both kids in counsling now since I made this decision to help them with this totally tremendouslly painful issue. I would like to hear from both dads and moms and your opinions about my choice to cut off the contact. I am not able to afford another attorney at this time, knowing that this WILL need to be addressed again in court, but for now I am just biding time. I am hoping to force my ex into getting the help he needs if he wants to be reunited with our son. I truly DO NOT mean to use my kids as weapons or pawns…I just don’t know what else to do after dealing with this in the hopes that their father would come around for 7 long years but still with no hope in site of any kind of reconsilliation. He absolutly totally refuses to be in her life in any respect…what else am I to do?

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A pregnant teenage daughter, a criminal drug-addict son….?

  • Posted on November 2, 2010 at 7:23 am

…and an anti-semitic to boot! Republicans are always talking about how important ‘family values’ are to them. So why are they so in love with Palin, who obviously has no family values whatsoever?

http://gawker.com/5047794/teen-daughter-pregnant-son-on-drugs-whats-next

http://gawker.com/5048188/palin-quoted-antisemitic-author-in-rnc-speech

By the way, Cons, the guy who wrote that story is the same guy who broke the John Edwards scandal.

AND… the Democrats don’t try to tell you how to live in your own home, and aren’t so all about “Family Values” like the republicans… those arguments don’t apply.

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Help, please! My son’s ex-girlfriend joined the army and wants her mom to have my grandson instead of my son.?

  • Posted on October 21, 2010 at 5:23 pm

I’m so worried & confused… my son & his girlfriend have a 1 yr old son, and she just graduated from high school last month & joined the army. My son graduated last year and is a full time welder. They are always fighting, breaking up, getting back together. They aren’t married, & now they’re broken up. We just found out yesterday that she left for the army and signed over temp custody of her mom, who, by the way acts like she’s in jr. high, fighting, slashing tires, does crack, even gave her daughter to her ex mother in law to raise, and now she’s got my grandson. My son is also immature, he wanted to go into the military last yr but he didn’t so they could be a family, but they kept on fighting all the time. I’m 40, I’m a church secretary, my husband is a welder, I have a 9 yr & 11 yr old, my 18 yr old just graduated from h.s. & my 19 yr old has his own apt, 2 cars, he’s a hard worker, but he has a baby with this girl who just joined the army. I don’t understand why the army would let her give the baby to her mom instead of the baby’s father, my son, I’m sure I will raise the baby, which is what I want, since my son now wants to join the air force, he made a real high score on his asbab (can’t spell it) test. The air force guy said that he can’t join the military because the other parent beat him to it. What do I do? I know I’m gonna end up w/the baby eventually (which I’d love to have happen), except I don’t want the baby to be abused or negliected until then. I had a horrible childhood, I was raised by a drug addict single mom & just about everything bad that could happen, happened to me, but I turned out good, I went to college & gave my kids a better life than I had, I don’t want my grandbaby to go thru what I went thru. What should I do? My son’s too immature to raise his baby, but all his ex’s family has all had cps cases. Sooner or later the baby will be taken away from the other grandmother because she’s always in trouble with the law, dwi’s & what not. My son said he wants me to have the baby if he is able to join the military. What do I do??

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Is any one else here a good son/ daughter yet keep getting put down?

  • Posted on September 18, 2010 at 1:23 pm

So I won’t explain my whole story, but basically I’m a good kid. I don’t smoke, drink, do rather good in school, have realistic dreams, have a basic plan for my future and try to be the best 18 yo I can be…

Yet nothing is ever good for my parents. Everything can be fine for a week and then BAM I forget to take the trash out. And it’s like the freaking world has ended. I get threaten about being kicked out, my dad stops doing my laundry (yet we don’t have a dryer/washer at home and I don’t drive..) and my mom totally ignores me.

I get the same 10 minute speech every time about how things keep piling up (that I don’t do) and how I only have so little to do around the house yet can’t manage to do them.

I experience some depression around this time (SAD) and the whole going/not going to college thing is also taking a toll on me. I work daily for 7/8 hours, weekends & train for cycling almost every day. I get no support from my parents for that when I have a chance at actually going somewhere with it.

Do you think I’m just a disrespectful kid who can’t get his sh!t together and has random mood swings everyday, or are my parent being too hard on me? I try talking to them but I’m always wrong, their right and it always end with the same freakin speech.

I have a problem apologizing (for all the small crap I do) because I heard them a few times talking about it and how pathetic I sounded, so it comes really hard to do it.

Sorry for ranting, Yahoo please don’t take this down for “chatting” because there are some questions in there. You don’t have to answer this really.. I’ll just take it down in a few minutes lol.

sigh
See I’ve tried “doing everything right” I tried being f***ing perfect for them and ended up missing one thing or forgetting something and then it all went down the drain so I gave up. I don’t even get a thankyou yet get reprimanded much more harshly then is necessary (by any ones standards)

Moving out is not an option because Insurace/ cycling is eating up my money, and with the possibility I will have to fork another 10k a year for college it seems impossible to get an apartment here in nyc.

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“Please, i’m asking them to release my son. Give him back to me”

  • Posted on January 5, 2010 at 12:28 am

By Michael Webster: Syndicated Investigative Reporter. May 6, 2009 at 12:00 PM PST

 

The Mother of kidnapped little 3-year-old, Briant Rodriguez Rosalina Millan embraces her son’s shirt against her chest during a news conference at the San Bernardino County Sheriff s Department in San Bernardino. Young Rodriguez was forced at gun point from his modest San Bernardino home by two armed men during a home invasion Sunday. “They grabbed my kid, told me, ‘I’m going to take the kid to Mexico and I’m going to kill him,’ ” said Briant’s mother

Briant’s Mother spent over five hours relating to investigators and sketch artists Tuesday, drawing on painful memories to help compose pictures of the two men suspected of tying up her and her youngest five children Sunday afternoon before abducting the boy.

Briant’s Mother continues to make desperate pleas for her son’s safe return.

“Please, I’m asking them to release my son. Give him back to me,” she said as she cried. “Why did they take him? Let him go. Don’t harm my boy. My boy, my life. He’s a good boy.”

The suspects are both said to be skinny, Spanish-speaking Latino men. One is said to be 18 years old, 5-foot-8 and wearing a black ball cap, blue jeans and a green T-shirt. The second suspect was about 24 years old, 5-foot-10 and was wearing a black shirt, black pants, black boots and a white bandana.

The San Bernardino County Sheriff’s Department has released these composite sketches of the suspects involved in the kidnap of 3 year old Briant Rodriguez. The suspect on the left is approximately 18 years old and the suspect on the right is approximately 24 years old. (Courtesy of the San Bernardino County Sheriff’s Department)

Millan, her husband and their six children have only lived in the home about three months. For some unknown reason no information is yet available on the people who previously lived in the family’s home.

 

Both parents deny that the family was involved in any illegal activity and said they do not know why anyone would take their baby. Sheriff’s spokeswoman Jodi Miller said the kidnappers have not contacted the family for ransom and “we are concerned the child has been taken across the border.”

Briant Rodriguez was kidnapped from his home in the 8000 block of Pedley Road on Sunday after the two gunmen spent about 20 minutes ransacking the home while his mother and five of her children were tied up, San Bernardino sheriff’s officials say.

One of Briant’s siblings was able to free himself and untied his family members.

Also taken from the home was Millan’s cell phone, so she made the emergency call from a nearby liquor store.

“It’s horrifying,” sheriff’s Lt. Rick Ells told the Associated Press. “I don’t think I could impress on you how rare a kidnapping like this is.”

Briant’s father, who lives with the family, was at work at the time of the robbery and kidnapping, Ells said.

“The family is saying there’s no motive and they do not know the kidnappers,” Ells said, adding that the kidnapping does not appear to be a family abduction.

Briant’s mother told sheriff’s officials that she heard a vehicle door slammed just outside the family’s home when the men left, leading her to believe that the gunmen fled by car.

San Bernardino sheriff’s spokeswoman Jodi Miller told the Associated Press that authorities along the Mexican border have been put on alert, and FBI investigators were also helping in the investigation. Detectives emphasize that Briant’s parents are not suspects.

Less than 200 stranger abductions nationwide are reported annually, according to the FBI.

Last year another young boy, Cole Puffinburger, was abducted from a Las Vegas home by three men posing as police officers. Police said they believe the men were Mexican drug dealers and that the kidnapping at gunpoint was a “message” to the Childs grandfather.

Clemons Fred Tinnemeyer, 51, the grandfather of the kidnapped 6-year-old Nevada boy, was arrested by the FBI’s fugitive task force in Riverside. According to police Tinnemeyer allegedly stole millions of dollars from a powerful Mexican drug cartel out of Tijuana, Baja Mexico and believe as a result a contract hit was ordered. Unconfirmed reports say Tinnemeyer turned himself in rather than be found by the Mexican cartels assassination team. It is believed that Tinnemeyer played a major roll in the distribution and sells of drugs in Nevada, California, Arizona, Texas and New Mexico.

Federal officials say they believe the kidnappers were attempting to locate Tinnemeyer to collect the debt or to take other serious action, but because Tinnemeyer was not there the Mexican gangsters took Cole and were seeking a ransom as payback and would trade Cole for the amount owed. Investigators in the Rodriguez kidnapping in San Bernardino are checking for any similarities.

 

Briant Rodriguez

VICTIM DESCRIPTION:
BRIANT RODRIGUEZ, MALE, HISPANIC, WEIGHT: 40LBS, EYES: BROWN, HAIR: BROWN, CLOTHES: YELLOW SHIRT BLUE SLEEVES, BLUE STRIPED SHORTS. BLACK  SANDALS.

 

Organized, well-financed and violent Mexican drug cartels kidnapping cells are targeting a growing number of U.S. citizens; many victims are believed family members of drug dealers. The MDT’s are ordering murders, kidnappings and other violence against innocent Americans and some of the victims are children.

Some of the kidnappings are believed retaliation for drug dealers owing the MDC’s cash for drugs.

Authorities believe this is about terrorizing people for retaliation.

Many American residents were kidnapped and held for ransom in Mexico and others kidnapped from the United States and taken to Mexico.

“Some of the kidnapped were recovered, some were hurt and some were killed,” said agent Alex Horan, who directs the FBI’s violent-crime squad in San Diego.

“It’s not a pleasant experience. Victims have reported beatings, torture and there have been rapes.  . . . Handcuffs and hoods over the head are common,” he said. “I would certainly be concerned,” Horan said.

He described the kidnapping groups as sophisticated operations similar to terrorist cells, each with a boss and clear divisions of labor. Usually, one group is involved in scouting, another carries out the kidnapping, a third holds the victim and a fourth handles the ransom.

“They know who they’re going after. I think they have a list,” Horan said. “These are kidnapping cells.  . . . That’s what they do. They do kidnappings all year long.”

While the FBI wouldn’t say what the ransom demands are, or how often they’re paid, agents said money is driving the increase.

 “We’ve had victims held for days to months,” Horan said.

Not every victim is Hispanic, but there have been “very few cases where a tourist is targeted at random,” said Eric Drickersen, who supervises the FBI’s border liaison office in San Diego.

Some of the kidnappings go unreported because people fear retribution, Drickersen said.

From Brownsville Texas to San Diego California Mexican cities bordering American cities are where most Americans are being killed by assassinations and executions. But other Americans are being killed by the long arm of the Mexican drug cartels which reach deep into America. There are accounts of Mexican drug cartel surrogate terrorist’s invading the U.S. by crossing the porous international border and killing Americans in Dallas Texas, Atlanta Geo, New York City, Phoenix Ariz, Las Vegas Nevada, and is believed to have reached Shelby County Alabama where five people were found murdered gangland style by Mexican nationals.

 

Many Americans were kidnapped in the U.S. and taken to Mexico where they were murdered. Still other Americans were abducted and slain in Mexico while visiting, others where shot gangland style in country. Dozens of U.S. citizens have been kidnapped, or held hostage, or killed by their captors in Mexico and many cases remain unsolved. Moreover, new cases of disappearances and kidnap-for-ransom and Americans being killed continue to be reported.

 

Carey Marcella McClintock was threatening to testify against a prominent and well known El Paso Texas criminal defense lawyer who has represented Mexican and American drug traffickers and that he himself was beholding to the drug cartels and their gang members.

Carey’s father has been independently investigating his daughter’s killing and now believes that Carey was taken from a Texas town near Dallas to Juarez Mexico across the border from El Paso Texas on a ruse, and was brutally murdered on August 31, 2008 in Juarez so she could not testify.  She was found in an abandoned house in the desert minutes outside of the city.  She had been beaten and stabbed multiple times. Carey’s father believes that his daughter was about to testify against the attorney and others in a federal and on going investigation involving the Mexican drug cartel and there hired assailants the El Paso Barrio Azteca gang. “I believe she was coerced into going to El Paso by the attorney and the attorney’s girl friend where she was provided transportation and was put up in a hotel in Juarez and all paid for by the same attorney. Her family fears that what really happened to Carey has happened to others and that her murder and others like hers will never see the light of day and will never be solved by the corrupt Mexican authorities. He also says the American authorities refuse to investigate because they claim the crime was in Mexico. The El Paso Police Dept has been informed as to the details surrounding the case where the local attorney illegally transported and harbored a known fugitive, yet no investigation is underway. The father also thinks the same attorney had something to do with his daughter’s murder.

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Mexican Drug cartels terror reaches deep into the U.S.

 

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