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I discovered that my 33 BF was spying on my daughter while she was in the bathroom. What do I do?

  • Posted on November 22, 2010 at 10:21 pm

This all happened on Christmas. He denied and left. Then came back and admitted the truth. He swore it was the first time and that he didn’t actually follow through by peeping. But that he was going to. He also said that he would never sexually harm her. I do believe that he wouldn’t molest her. The fact that he would make an attempt to look in on her disgusts me. I told him to never come back until he gets help. He needs help. So he called a counseling place and is going to get help. He has porn addiction and so I think this is all related to that. My daughter isn’t scared of him or even mad. But my other daughter thinks he’s a creep. I am very angry. I wanted to beat the tar out of him. Any advice in where to go from here? I don’t think the police can do anything since he didn’t molest her. What makes this really hard is that I work with him. Do I date him to help him during this counseling? Do I avoid all contact? I want him to get help more than anything.

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