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My daughter just got a new car and she so excited that she cant stay out of it and she drives fast. So Help?

  • Posted on April 8, 2011 at 5:23 am

My questions is when will she get over the excitiment of the car. By the way she is 21. And i have told her not to drink and drive but she still does.

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Can I ever truly trust my alcoholic husband to stay sober?

  • Posted on April 3, 2011 at 2:18 pm

He’s a very unpleasant drunk – usually talks too much, follows me everywhere in the house loudly complaining about everything from work to the way I trim our daughter’s hair. He can be verbally abusive, even when sober, and yes, it has gotten physical. Nothing too serious. He readily admits to being an alcoholic and apologizes profusely every time he “slips”, then swears it won’t happen again. It’s happened literally hundreds of times in our 9 years of marriage, and I often leave with our young children to a safe place in another town. He shows up the next day or two, we go through the whole apology/make-up thing, everything is great for a while, then we start over. I truly believe he loves me and the kids and wants to stay together, but the alcohol is a demon that I don’t know he can overcome. He’s also depressed but won’t admit to that so readily. He has some great qualities, but self-control is NOT one. What kind of future can I really expect with an alcoholic?
About divorce: Yes I have looked into it, and in my state you have to be separated for a full year. He’s incredibly persistent and I’ve never been able to stay away from him for more than a few days. He always talks me into coming back. Not through force – just convinces me. I love my community, my church, my house, and I don’t want to lose them, which I would if we divorced. And yes, I live in constant anxiety. I can sense trouble brewing tonight, and I’m nearly sick about it…

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My daughter choosed to stay with her dad but….!?

  • Posted on January 7, 2011 at 1:21 pm

Her dad got busted for cocaine and is now in jail….I want her to come and stay with me…but she doesn’t like the town I live in….she is 15. I feel guilty but i don’t know what to do….cause I don’t want to hurt her more than what she is going through at this point in her life right now. I gaved her many options….but she still wants to live where she is at…..she will be alone and I know she needs me……but I live 5 hours away from her. Should I move?…..My life is in this little town i live in and I am common law with this man for 10 years now…..I don’t know anymore……
To silver fox….I don’t need to be accused of anything especially an unfit mother….I am well fit for your information. So, back off!

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should i just let my teenage daughter stay with my mom if that is what she wants?

  • Posted on December 31, 2010 at 4:21 am

My daughter will be 15 in Nov. We were so close her whole life. Even through her drug addiction and behavior problems, we stuck together. She got this “boyfriend” in the spring. She started completely disobeying me, lying incessantly, and failed 5 classes. I am always willing to help with school work, but she completely shut me out and wanted to be doing fun stuff ALL THE TIME. When I found out the boy had lied about many things and kept showing up late at night, I said I didn’t want him over anymore, but they could still hang out by the pool and out front. He made up texts to forward to her and said they were from me. I tried to show her my text log to prove I never sent them, but she said I was lying. She grabbed her clothes and was leaving. My sister quickly came and took her to my mom’s. She has been there since June. Twice she wanted to come home but changed her mind because of my rules about that boy. Now she never wants to come home. I am devastated. At my mom’s, she can use the computer all day and sleep and basically have no rules. I don’t want her to run away, so should I just let her stay there? I miss her so much

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stay with my fiance or leave because of his daughter?

  • Posted on October 29, 2010 at 7:22 pm

my fiance and i have been together 6 years. getting married in aug. but his 11 yr old daughter and i don’t get along anymore. i have raised her for 6 yrs. and her drug addicted mother has come back in her life and now his daughter wants to live with her. her mother is a terrible person and her daughter is turning into her. john knows that but he can’t let her go. even though i think she should just so she can fiqure out how much better she is with us. we also have a 3 yr old son together. i love him with all my heart and can’t imagine my life without him but do i make him chose or do i just leave? she is defiant and rude and mean and a smart ass and i am the one who raises her because he is gone all the time with work. i have been here and raised her basically by myself for six years, do i have a say, or do i leave

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Obsessive tendencies – why would a man stay w/ & love a woman who has an imbalance that makes her this way?

  • Posted on October 21, 2010 at 1:25 am

I am getting treatment for this and aim every day to rise above it. However, it comes out when my boyfriend, who says I am the one, are talking. He has a daughter. Wouldn’t a man be wary of exposing a child to this kind of thought process? One detail – his wife died 7 years ago because she did not talk about her problems and overdosed on prescription drugs. I appreciate your advice and comments! Thank you.

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Obsessive tendencies – why would a man stay w/ & love a woman who has an imbalance that makes her this way?

  • Posted on October 20, 2010 at 4:24 am

I am getting treatment for this and aim every day to rise above it. However, it comes out when my boyfriend, who says I am the one, are talking. He has a daughter. Wouldn’t a man be wary of exposing a child to this kind of thought process? One detail – his wife died 7 years ago because she did not talk about her problems and overdosed on prescription drugs. I appreciate your advice and comments! Thank you.

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Obsessive tendencies – why would a man stay w/ & love a woman who has an imbalance that makes her this way?

  • Posted on October 15, 2010 at 7:24 pm

My thyroid was removed 20 yrs. ago; hence, something in my brain tends to hyperfocus on certain details. I am getting treatment for this and aim every day to rise above it. However, it comes out when my boyfriend, who says I am the one, are talking. He has a daughter. Wouldn’t a man be wary of exposing a child to this kind of thought process? One detail – his wife died 7 years ago because she did not talk about her problems and overdosed on prescription drugs. I appreciate your advice and comments! Thank you8.

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how long does cocaine stay in ones system?

  • Posted on October 7, 2010 at 1:22 pm

my daughter said she used a week ago but it is still in her system

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Should I allow my daughter who is a drug addict trying to stay clean and her husband stay with me?

  • Posted on October 5, 2010 at 1:19 pm
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