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child custody, supervised visitation in california?

  • Posted on May 1, 2011 at 3:20 am

where you married?
who filed for divorce if any?
how long was court?
did u provide any evidence? what was the outcome?
does any one have supervised visitation?
any details that will help me

Iv been married to a marine for 6 months now. IM about 5 months pregnant and he has anger issues and takes it out on me hes been physically mentally verbally abusive to me i have proof in pictures and texts. I dont know anything about divorce or child custody. He tries to control me and my money. We have tried counseling and it doesn’t work. He has a violent past i have proof of him admitting it in text. Even though IM pregnant he still abuses me iv been slapped pushed and fell hes threatened to drownd me in the shower and toilet shoved and pushed agaisnt walls tackled to the floor from high stools has tried to suffocate me w his hands and pillows hes been on top of me pulling my hair grabbing my face yelling at me hes been suicidal w pills and a razor hes hit me multiple times IM scared when he gets mad i try to go to the room and he insists all the time yelling hitting walls getting in my face screaming, i always have to conform to him if i want things to work out hes manipulative all i want is safety for my child and me. He keeps me from my family when we go visit. He has a daughter and has me doing everything for her while he plays video games or watches TV and tells me shes my responsibility. He demands respect even though he cant give respect he has packed my clothes and kicked me out of the house a lot! douring the night hes told me to leave if i cant handle it.hes admited to be bipolar.hes grabed me from the neck and raised me agaisnt the wall while my feet dangle, hes covered my nose and mouth telling me he wishes i was a guy so he can do more damage, hes said your lucky your my wife, hes piked me up and thrown me after he hits me he tell me hes going to jail and wants to go to jail and wants to take me to the hospital hes done this and more WHILE IM PREGNANT
what counts as evidence?
i have texts admiting he needs help ,that he wants to go to jail for hurting me , i have videos of his doughter at parties where there is alcohol, he rather come clean w the truth, he feels hes lossing it, hes afraid,b he saying that he might go to a mental hospital or jail if he says the truth, he doesnt want to keep hurting me or the baby, he admits hes wrong, hes going crazy in his dead, he feels fake and isnt proud hes tot this far, there is a text he sent me saying hes done cocaine at 7 years of age, addicted to cocaine, extacy, heroin weed, he inhailed fumeshes robbed and killed to get money.
would this help me in court?
my lil sister is witness of his doughter being at a beer pong party where there was weed. his baby mama was abused and she stated that when she filed for child custody and support.
i just want supervised visitation fo my child.

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Supervised visitation for child? please help crazy ex..?

  • Posted on April 27, 2011 at 11:22 am

Hi I have a 21 month lil girl. Her father was verbally abusive as well as physically, though i left shortly after he laid his hands on me. Since our breakup 7 months ago, i have called the police at least 5-6 times. for him threatening to “beat my ass”,always screaming and fighting in front of our child, pushing me and ripping my necklace off. i was letting him see her regularly until this last time when he put his hands on me again. We have an appointment for the attorney general tomorrow, i have sent them several police reports, and i also have texts messages he sent me this weekend threatening to kill himself, and driving drunk. I am requesting supervised visitation, i would prefer no visitation but i feel like my daughter should see her father, but i dont know if that would be best for her with his past behavior. We have a hearing tomorrow to enforce child support, and they also handle visitation. Do you think i will be granted supervised visitation? and if he doesnt agree to it then will we have to go to court? my dad is helping me save money to hire a lawyer and im also going into for a consultation this week. i am also going to file a protective order against him. If anyone has any experience, personal, or legal i would greatly appreciate it. thanks.
also the last time he had her he refused to give her back to me, because he heard rumors about me cheating while we were together, i know he wants me back so i had to trick him and pretend i would go back to him, just to get my daughter back.
i live in tx
amy- i am very concerned about what you said about cps because i did let her go with him several times, and i was stupid to do so but he is very manipulative and charming when he wants to be, so he would act all nice and great, so i thought, well finally he has come to his senses. do you think they would take her form me because i have been letting him see her?
we have never been to court, so there is no order. i let him see her because he was being nice and acting normal so i thought i would give him another chance even though my gut told me not to, but his whole family was lecturing me and making me feel guilty about how much he missed her etc so i let him take her.

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