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My 25 yr. old Daughter is taking the pleaseure out of life.?

  • Posted on April 19, 2011 at 5:23 am

My 25 year old Daughter lives at home. She left for about a year to try a marriage, nope.
She’s in her 6th year college we foot the bill. She wakes for school only if we get her up. She is incapable of waking herself.
Her car we bought brand new, is beat to pieces and has a new ding almost daily.
Her room is not fit for a Dog to live in, I beg for her to take control of it.
She works for me or she could not hold a job, I kick her into gear everyday.
Not an ounce of responsibility from this grown woman.
She drinks and/or gets drunk at least 3 times a week, also drives.
She thinks because she’s nice to me she’s not being disrespectful.
She thinks this is how her crowd lives that is how being 25 is.
I feel she’s old and getting older. It’s time for me to have an adult friend out of my Daughter and not a teen nightmare.
I’m losing feelings for a kid I would have died for.
She always says she gets it and will start a change tomorrow.
Do I disown her? I am stressed and miserable.

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PLEASE HELP! moving to the usa frm uk, can my abusive ex stop me from taking our child there to live?

  • Posted on February 23, 2011 at 1:21 pm

plan on marrying my bf & moving2 the us to start a life with him,worried my ex who ive a daughter with will not give permission 4her2 move,can he stop me from taking her if he says no? i have full custody of her he just takes her when he basically feels like,doesn’t pay money4 her,no job or stable home he just stays with friends and family,given me 60 pound in her 4years of life! she wud go with him i wud have 2GIVE the Nappy’s,milk,wipes etc and if they was about2 run out i wud have2 give him money2get the replacement otherwise ther wud be hell2pay,he got outa prison in the summer 4a violent crime against his brother.been violent2me in past even when i was preg,he kicked me in stomach and said “gonna give me his own personal abortion” split with him when she was 3months,he still trys 2control me,he pretends hes gona hit me to see me flinch so he feels he still has this power over me, he messes me round for example he says hes keeping her frm fri 2 sun,he will call me saturday morn pretending hes bringing her home all day so i cant make plans because hes saying he will be at my house with her soon, he likes 2think he has this sick control over me where he thinks im just hanging on too his words,uses any excuse 2be around me,sometimes think he loves me more than his daughter, he trys2 argue with me in front of her like 2day he bribed her to go upstairs2 ‘look for a magic cat, while he has a word with mummy’ basically tryna intimidate me into thinking i was gona get a beating,i told her2 go upstairs she went and i said to him what r u gonna do then?? he flew at me and pinned me down on the couch landing punches on me but not as hard as he could he,then breaks in2 a smile saying im only kidding and trys 2plant kisses on me,this is how bad he trys to abuse me mentally,it works,he does intimidate me,try 2show him he doesn’t which seems 2make him more determined,he thinks he has the right to and fondle me as he pleases and says its my own fault for bein so sexy,he disgusts me.he drinks and smokes weed &cocaine, my daughter was getting a certificate inschool he turned up at my house drunk at 2pm in afternoon!he didnt stop ther i had half a bottle of wine in my fridge and he sneaked inthe kitchen pured some in a cup &juice in2 disguise it, im telling him how disgusted i am with him doing all this knowing he has 2go2 her school around her teachers an other parents but he just kept telling me to shut up so i kicked him out,he very manipulative&sneaky,when we were 2gether he convinced my own mother it was ME being violent 2him! people meet him they think hes very shy&quiet,innocent but he really is a bastard,worried if i take him2court he’ll make courts believe hes good person and if he has 2do drug&alcohol tests he stop so he passes and ill be made out a liar,he boasts his solicitor who he uses for his court matters ‘loves him and thinks hes great’.i mentioned moving 2usa his reply was im not taking her cos he’ll never see her again,tryed convince him sayin she will have a better life,oportunities etc and she can come and stay with him on holidays etc maybe when shes older we can split the year,when it comes2 it i dnt think he will ‘let’ me because that means if he agrees hes letting me go aswell,he has no power or control anymore,can he stop me? his names on birth certificate,which ino will count for a lot. how will it work will i have to go to court? is his yes or no the final say? will i have a good chance if go court? how long would it take? if im agreeing with her still visiting him when we move will there be no need for court wud he just have to accept it seems im not stopping him seeing her? would i have more chance if i was already married? my bf is in the military and is willing 2look after her as his own, when he comitted this crime against his brother my daughter was there and police got called and on the police report it said my daughter had seen it which meant social services got refered and came and checked me out an how her home life was with me and they were happy with that but did not support her carrying on seeing him (this was when he was in jail) they said they would be back in touch when he was realised and that was over 3-4months ago, ive heard nothing, he then showed me a letter from his probation saying social services had closed the case against him, theyv had to come and see me like 2 times because of things that have happend when shes been with him like him having a fight with his other brother whilst she was in the house but in bed, and another time when i was at his mums house and he was pestering me too stay over and i was refusing and trying to leave and he wouldnt let me then refused to let me out the house and threatend to kill himself and got a knife and cut across his wrist his mum called the police, the baby was in the house but in bed again this was night time, i have no criminal records, cautions etc, i am squeaky clean, i

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Can i stop my daughters mother from taking my daughter to her mother’s house. Her mothers husband is an alcoho?

  • Posted on January 28, 2011 at 12:18 pm

He’s an alcoholic and drug abuser.
Thank you for your answers.

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I think my husband is taking the boys will be boys statement a bit far,advice?

  • Posted on January 12, 2011 at 3:20 am

Me and my husband have 3 kids two boys and a daughter they are aged 4,8,14. My 14 year old is getting into some bad stuff past two weeks he has come home wasted. And i have also found Meth on him, i have tried Grounding him,Taking things away,talking to him. Nothing seems to work. I have tried getting my husband involved his dad and he just tells me its a phase. Help i am not sure what to do. I have tried getting him counsleing but he refuses to go. Advice?

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why is my divorce taking so long to settle after 18 months?

  • Posted on August 26, 2010 at 4:32 pm

I am living in our home, with a stay away order against my husband (who is an alcoholic and can become very irrational) He is extremely angry that I am living in the house and that he can not go on the property. we had previously agreed that I would buy him out of his share of the house, but now it seems that he wants the house. I have been waiting for a pre trial setting date since december 2006. We have shared custody of our children(which he bullied me into, and I deeply regret) He is living with his parents who have disowned me as their daughter in law of 20 years. They are all in denial of his alcoholism. I have been living in finiancial limbo for 18 months now, and would like to atleast have some stability financially.

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why is my divorce taking so long to settle after 18 months?

  • Posted on August 26, 2010 at 4:32 pm

I am living in our home, with a stay away order against my husband (who is an alcoholic and can become very irrational) He is extremely angry that I am living in the house and that he can not go on the property. we had previously agreed that I would buy him out of his share of the house, but now it seems that he wants the house. I have been waiting for a pre trial setting date since december 2006. We have shared custody of our children(which he bullied me into, and I deeply regret) He is living with his parents who have disowned me as their daughter in law of 20 years. They are all in denial of his alcoholism. I have been living in finiancial limbo for 18 months now, and would like to atleast have some stability financially.

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should I have my daughter arrested? She is taking meth, and can’t quit.?

  • Posted on August 26, 2010 at 4:20 am

She refuses to go anywhere for help. I don’t know what to do! I know that the people she hangs with are using as well. She can’t hold a job, doen’t come around to see her family and seems like a stranger.

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I am worried about taking vicodin?

  • Posted on August 13, 2010 at 7:20 pm

I have taken it before, several times when prescribed, And i’ve also taken percocet before right after giving birth to my daughter. But i have mild anxiety…just to the point where i need to know… I am worried that taking vicodin may cause liver failure. like i said, Sometimes i take it when i don’t need it, I’m just stressed but I only take 1 500 or (m357) a day, and i never feel the need to take more than one a day. And I will like take i a day for like a week then stop for a few weeks. I don’t mix meds either. And don’t drink with it. I am 21,about 110 lbs. And have been prescribed it. So is it ok? or could this result in major side effects? please do not include tolerance or dependence because I don’t let myself go that way. thanks for your info!!!

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I just found out an ex friend of my daughters is taking Ecstasy anally!?

  • Posted on July 27, 2010 at 7:25 am

I have never even heard of that. How far gone of an addict do you have to be to resort to that?

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i have lost most all my teeth from twenty years of taking prescription amphetamines to treat narcolepsy?

  • Posted on July 25, 2010 at 4:00 pm

living on a limited income, i cannot afford dentures. my daughter is ashamed when mommy comes to class. any ideas on where i could get assistance in purchasing dentures?

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