I know there’s probably a lot of unnecessary crap in here, but It matters to me, so sorry for the long read
It was late October when He found me on a SN site. I had left a comment on a musicians page. When he saw it, he looked at my page. I was 12 at the time, but my profile said I was 17. He was a few days short of 17. I do look a bit old for my age, so he believed it. We had a lot in common. Music, likes, dislikes, and we both ranted about the same problems going on in the world today. He sent me a friendly hello, and we wrote back and forth for sometime as he revealed we lived about 2 miles away from each other (He told his street name). He gave me his number, and I called. After about 2 hours of conversations ranging from the lunacy of Chris Crocker to what we wanted to do when we grew up, I told him my age. He flipped out, and kindly said he had to help his dad with a few things. We didn’t really talk again for about a year, and I watched as girlfriend after girlfriend walked all over him. around late 2008 we started talking again, still hours a night. In February of ’09, we met at a church down the road from us, and sparks flew. I remember a few friends, him and I were goofing around before the service, and I hit my head on the brick wall. Not too hard, but it did leave a knot. His amount of care towards me and the amount of assurance it took him to know I was okay surprised me, because no one’s really cared that much about something like that in a LONG time for me. We’ve been together for 14 months now, I’m 15 and he’s turning 20 this year. We haven’t had sex, and haven’t gotten past kissing. I know that’s a long time to make a guy wait, but I admire his love and acceptance for my own health issues. His family isn’t the most functional, and mine sees him and his younger sisters as our family. My family thinks he’s 16 while his thinks I’m 17. His mother has told me I’m the best thing for him, and she claims she sees me as a daughter.
He’s helped me through a heroin addiction. He’s helped me through problems at home, and I’ve done the same. He’s helped me mature, and from what his mother says, I’ve helped him do the same.
I know there’s nothing wrong with us as we are, but I’m tired of hiding. My mother IS stingy about older guys. At one point awhile back she said all they want from females my age is ‘a tight tw@t.’
I know Cody sees more, and I want her and our families to understand. I just don’t know how to confront him or our families about it.
Opinions and advice are appreciated.
-Missy
I didn’t lie directly to him, when i created the page i selected a random date.he wasnt aware of thAt until the first phone conversation, and even then he was in disbelief.
